How to help ur gf ?
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Sometimes, I don't know how to help my gal,
Like her stuffs she knows, badminton, piano, her designing.
While I'm more on oher stuff, programming gaming and other stuff..
Some how i feel we're seperated by our differences...
Whats the problem ? -
Does she need help?Originally posted by Sekundes:Sometimes, I don't know how to help my gal,
Like her stuffs she knows, badminton, piano, her designing.
While I'm more on oher stuff, programming gaming and other stuff..
Some how i feel we're seperated by our differences...
Whats the problem ?
Both your interest are quite different. Seperated by what, be more specific?
Was there any problem in the first place? Or are you anticipating of there's one?
Cheers -
accomdate to her ?? sports shld be easy to start from .. since u got her .. its up to both parties to try n maintain the rls .. badminton shld be easy .. try to start from there
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different interests ain't a bad thing.. you can teach each other what you know..
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Pick up some common stuff...?Originally posted by Sekundes:Sometimes, I don't know how to help my gal,
Like her stuffs she knows, badminton, piano, her designing.
While I'm more on oher stuff, programming gaming and other stuff..
Some how i feel we're seperated by our differences...
Whats the problem ?
Or... Learn a thing or 2 from her if you're interested..?
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designing n programming actually very related hor..
juz u cannot see wad common points u have doesn't mean it doesn't exist. -
u shouldn't be deterred by such insignificant differences.instead..come up wif ideas so that u two can learn from each other..
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as long as the two of you are together, you both can always work out something together.. like what others have said..
sports definately is a easy place to start from, if you both can pick up a new sports together, not neccessary be the sports that either the both of you know..
if can be fun learning new sports together..
as for you feeling separated from her...i think it's just that with almost nothing in common between the 2 of you, maybe you would like to think back the time whereby you try to woo ur stead last time, the things that you chat with her and work on those things again...but Amplify It!!
Go pick up new skills together...and try to understand each other...it takes 2 hands to clap - agree??
one side working to prolong a relationship will not help much...it will only bring misery to the one who is trying...and disappoint to the other who doesn't know whats going on...
another thing that you have to take note** your posting's tittle - 'How to help ur gf?' It's not helping our gf, its us helping you by dropping some ideas or advice for you...as if your gf is our gf..watch your words okay??
i hope the things will work well with the both of you.. -
Yea there is, its like, when she's needs people to help her out in designing,Originally posted by M©+square:Does she need help?
Both your interest are quite different. Seperated by what, be more specific?
Was there any problem in the first place? Or are you anticipating of there's one?
Cheers
or somethings like or even some stuff like her sports or piano.
I don't seem to help at all...
I mean i feel useless doing so...
Its so frustrating sometimes...
Erm... Its hard cause i didn't get her, I felt that i didn't even woo her.Originally posted by Saint`:accomdate to her ?? sports shld be easy to start from .. since u got her .. its up to both parties to try n maintain the rls .. badminton shld be easy .. try to start from there
The problem now lies badminton, is hard, I play quite good for badminton, but i'm a little lower in standard cause her standard is at Team standard.Originally posted by twiggies:different interests ain't a bad thing.. you can teach each other what you know..
She tried teaching me piano, and me tried to teach her to play games.Originally posted by Devil1976:Pick up some common stuff...?
Or... Learn a thing or 2 from her if you're interested..?
But don't seem to have the time for it...
I mean she seems to be very busy...
I think its a wrong choice of words, sorry.Originally posted by Ito_^:designing n programming actually very related hor..
juz u cannot see wad common points u have doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
She's in multimedia, like audio sound and stuff like photoshop stuff.
I know only alittle about it.
I'm in Java & Asp.net not really good in both though...
Hmmm how ?Originally posted by yuko-ogura:u shouldn't be deterred by such insignificant differences.instead..come up wif ideas so that u two can learn from each other..
Sorry i thought was like asking for ideas like how you guys help your own gfs...Originally posted by weijian:as long as the two of you are together, you both can always work out something together.. like what others have said..
sports definately is a easy place to start from, if you both can pick up a new sports together, not neccessary be the sports that either the both of you know..
if can be fun learning new sports together..
as for you feeling separated from her...i think it's just that with almost nothing in common between the 2 of you, maybe you would like to think back the time whereby you try to woo ur stead last time, the things that you chat with her and work on those things again...but Amplify It!!
Go pick up new skills together...and try to understand each other...it takes 2 hands to clap - agree??
one side working to prolong a relationship will not help much...it will only bring misery to the one who is trying...and disappoint to the other who doesn't know whats going on...
another thing that you have to take note** your posting's tittle - 'How to help ur gf?' It's not helping our gf, its us helping you by dropping some ideas or advice for you...as if your gf is our gf..watch your words okay??
i hope the things will work well with the both of you..
I wanna know how to woo her.
cause i didn't, so i'm quite clueless on how...
Its like when I ask her out, i always asked her where she wans to go, she always tells me anything.
I'll always stuck at this part, cause i'm running out of ideas... -
You've got to LEARN to ATTRACT her and HER ATTENTION!!Originally posted by Sekundes:She tried teaching me piano, and me tried to teach her to play games.
But don't seem to have the time for it...
I mean she seems to be very busy...
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If u can't help her with her work.. the least you can do is to shower her with plenty of encouragement to show that you care.. Trust me.. she will really appreciate it if you do it right..
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Hmmm any suggestion how ?Originally posted by Devil1976:You've got to LEARN to ATTRACT her and HER ATTENTION!! " -
Well, being yourself is one thing to help her. Trying to be something else may not do the trick. Show support & TLC, she need its even if you cannot help her physically. Mental support is the next best or the best option.
Ideas for designing don't come instantly, you may want to bring her around to get fresh air and fresh ideas may start poping up in her head.
All the best -
I'll give you a suggestion. Using her designing skills and your programming skills, design a website/blog together
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Sekundes,
In your title, you say she's your gf, but now she isn't?
I'm confused now.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Sekundes:FeowFeow: For some reason, the other bits of Sekundes post are missing
Sorry i thought was like asking for ideas like how you guys help your own gfs...
I wanna know how to woo her.
cause i didn't, so i'm quite clueless on how...
Its like when I ask her out, i always asked her where she wans to go, she always tells me anything.
I'll always stuck at this part, cause i'm running out of ideas... -
if your running out of ideas, try searching the web for some interesting ideas...or buy love related magazines then...Originally posted by Sekundes:Sorry i thought was like asking for ideas like how you guys help your own gfs...
I wanna know how to woo her.
cause i didn't, so i'm quite clueless on how...
Its like when I ask her out, i always asked her where she wans to go, she always tells me anything.
I'll always stuck at this part, cause i'm running out of ideas...
some pages inside got FAQs from ladies and gentlemen...maybe you can storm for ideas there...
when your on a date with your gal, try to refrain from letting her choose the place whereby she wanna go...you have to think...let it happen a few more times (letting her decide) she will lose complete interest in you...coz your too bored....try your best to think of ideas....
when dating...it don't always have to be the popular places....
it can be inside either or your home doing cooking...massaging each other...or in the park/beach walking side by side...chatting...go out near midnight some place high to count stars...trying out other sports that requires lots of time and patience...so you will get to spend more time with her...sports like fishing...crabbing...or if you can afford it, go spa..whole day package...or go on a holiday together if the both of you have money...
ideas...can nv run dry...places will remain the same for singapore is too small...with little places of interest...so if the both of youhave being frequentin those hotsports...its time for a change...go to places whereby other ppl wouldn't want to go...but of course...the place must have something interesting..if its a desolated place late night...maybe you can go to that place in the evening...buy glowing light tubes and form some words that you wanna tell her...then at night bring her there and show her...she will like it...
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Ah sorry, i gave the wrong meaning...Originally posted by FeowFeow:Sekundes,
In your title, you say she's your gf, but now she isn't?
I'm confused now.
FeowFeow
I mean, She's my gf, but i never "wooed" her.
So the process... I'm not really sure...
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Originally posted by marzguy:
for a moment, i tot.. when did i ever post a reply here?
[b]Well, being yourself is one thing to help her. Trying to be something else may not do the trick. Show support & TLC, she need its even if you cannot help her physically. Mental support is the next best or the best option.
Ideas for designing don't come instantly, you may want to bring her around to get fresh air and fresh ideas may start poping up in her head.
All the best [/b]
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Actually hor, its good that both of you are interested in different things. Opposite attracts and it really is true. Me and my wife are totally opposites when it comes to interest and hobbies, but we get along very well and don't step on each others toes. Best of all, we don't fight over the same things, reason being is that what we like are totally different.Originally posted by Sekundes:Sometimes, I don't know how to help my gal,
Like her stuffs she knows, badminton, piano, her designing.
While I'm more on oher stuff, programming gaming and other stuff..
Some how i feel we're seperated by our differences...
Whats the problem ?
You guys will make a good married couple, I am a living proof -
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lol do we have the same thoughts or do our fonts color alike?Originally posted by browniebaobao:for a moment, i tot.. when did i ever post a reply here? -
Thanks mate..Originally posted by KopiKia:Actually hor, its good that both of you are interested in different things. Opposite attracts and it really is true. Me and my wife are totally opposites when it comes to interest and hobbies, but we get along very well and don't step on each others toes. Best of all, we don't fight over the same things, reason being is that what we like are totally different.
You guys will make a good married couple, I am a living proof
Don't know why but this makes me feel better... haha
How long have u been wooing ur wife ? -
I'm not too sure...? I mean... For me to attract someone, it'll be ME...Originally posted by Sekundes:Hmmm any suggestion how ?
But you are YOU
Only you yourself would know what's attractive about you (at least more than I would?)... Find out what attracts her too...? What about you which might attract her...? Or is it some activities which you participate in -
She likes me for being serious and able to make her laugh,
But the main things is I feel so helpless not being able to help her completely...
isn't that what a guy should do to help his gal ? -
talk to her abt it?