Originally posted by babyreyes:
thanks to all ur replies.
Ive very much decided not to say anymore about her r/s wif him. After watched her cry over him and his gambling problems over n over again, it just seems like a movie.
I realised that worryign for her all the time is plain useless. Sigh. Endless mid nite calls. Her crying over hte phone. Sobbing for hours. Managed to got her to sleep. She told me she giving up..saying he is useless all these....say wanna break up.....guess wat..the next day....they both can appear hand in hand smiling happily while me here..lost one whole nite of sleep....even gave up my time studying my tests just for her.....
Im feelin damn gutted now.
OMG. sigh.. im getting tired of it already.
I guess i shall leave them alone already. Im feeling very unappreciated. sigh..
If all these are happening to often, perhaps you should just judge and prioritise time with your own important activities like studying for test .etc?