Is she in the wrong?

• Hello_14

  31 Dec 05, 03:35

  Ok this has been goin on for ages. 3 guys and 1 girl. This girl is very attractive and and 3 guys has been going all out for this girl. 2 guys have alr declared their love towards her and have been buying her gifts and always paying for whatever she tries to buy or eat when we go out.Take note that this gilr is alr atttached to another.Ans she alr told those guys that she does not have an feelings for them. But the guys still continue to do what they do and it is still going on. Wat make me think that the girl is the wrong is that she accpets whatever the two does. Like giving them hope like that. Like accepting their gifts and just evertime let them pay for her stuffs without even rejecting them.She talks with them on the phone for long long hours. B4 the two who is trying for the girl is also very good frens. But because of her they have not been talking to each other.Many ppl don't like the attitude of this girl but they just keep mum about it.in the two guys one is my very close frens and everytime i tell not to waste his time on her he just won't listen he everytime say he feel he got a chance.I think he alr spent a fortune on the girl liao.But i feel the girl just playing with his feeling.What do u think guys is he or she in the wrong
• Patrik

  31 Dec 05, 03:43

  You the 3rd guy?
• HolySniper

  31 Dec 05, 03:45

  eerh.. typical sg gals lo.. wat's new? for the guys they are juz plain stupid.. but can't blame.. some guys don't learn..
• beavan

  31 Dec 05, 10:04

  tell them to wake up ba..the girl's already attached still chase for what?
• yuko-ogura

  31 Dec 05, 10:37

  love is blind...has been like this..and will alwaes be..
• Devil1976

  31 Dec 05, 13:54

  Originally posted by Hello_14:

  Ok this has been goin on for ages. 3 guys and 1 girl. This girl is very attractive and and 3 guys has been going all out for this girl. 2 guys have alr declared their love towards her and have been buying her gifts and always paying for whatever she tries to buy or eat when we go out.Take note that this gilr is alr atttached to another.Ans she alr told those guys that she does not have an feelings for them. But the guys still continue to do what they do and it is still going on. Wat make me think that the girl is the wrong is that she accpets whatever the two does. Like giving them hope like that. Like accepting their gifts and just evertime let them pay for her stuffs without even rejecting them.She talks with them on the phone for long long hours. B4 the two who is trying for the girl is also very good frens. But because of her they have not been talking to each other.Many ppl don't like the attitude of this girl but they just keep mum about it.in the two guys one is my very close frens and everytime i tell not to waste his time on her he just won't listen he everytime say he feel he got a chance.I think he alr spent a fortune on the girl liao.But i feel the girl just playing with his feeling.What do u think guys is he or she in the wrong

  Willing victims. Who's wrong?
• Sandistur

  31 Dec 05, 20:59

  Everybody does things for a reason. Even a thief steals for a reason
  Did she send out any wrong signals? Tats the crucial point. If she did not, I feel she's done nothing wrong. Wrong to talk on the phone? She's juz lonely
  As mentioned by others, the guys are willing victims if the above is true
• Ito_^

  31 Dec 05, 21:42

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  You the 3rd guy?

  could be second..
• weijian

  1 Jan 06, 00:35

  are u her bf getting jealous over this gf of urs or are you one of her willing male frenz who is willing to spend on her??
  
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  i don't think she is in the wrong...as you have said, she has already made it clear to the guys involved...
  
  its actually rude to decline other ppl's gifts....but if everytime she accepts the gifts and does not return back the favour...then something is wrong there...as when there is give, there's take, but after taking, have to at least return the gift in any other ways...not 1 gift for 1 favour...maybe a few gifts for 1 favour...it depends on how worthy the gift is...
  
  its not rite to owe others a favour..
• sweetevil

  1 Jan 06, 00:37

  when it comes to love, nobody is right or wrong.
• binarynwitz

  1 Jan 06, 01:01

  Let the guys spend the money. It's because of SOME (not all SG girls are like that.) sg girls Singapore's economy would improve. Cash flow.
• UandMe

  1 Jan 06, 01:20

  Originally posted by beavan:

  tell them to wake up ba..the girl's already attached still chase for what?

  "This girl is very attractive"
  
  that's the reason...
• anhydrouscoppersulphate

  1 Jan 06, 01:23

  Originally posted by Hello_14:

  Ok this has been goin on for ages. 3 guys and 1 girl. This girl is very attractive and and 3 guys has been going all out for this girl. 2 guys have alr declared their love towards her and have been buying her gifts and always paying for whatever she tries to buy or eat when we go out.Take note that this gilr is alr atttached to another.Ans she alr told those guys that she does not have an feelings for them. But the guys still continue to do what they do and it is still going on. Wat make me think that the girl is the wrong is that she accpets whatever the two does. Like giving them hope like that. Like accepting their gifts and just evertime let them pay for her stuffs without even rejecting them.She talks with them on the phone for long long hours. B4 the two who is trying for the girl is also very good frens. But because of her they have not been talking to each other.Many ppl don't like the attitude of this girl but they just keep mum about it.in the two guys one is my very close frens and everytime i tell not to waste his time on her he just won't listen he everytime say he feel he got a chance.I think he alr spent a fortune on the girl liao.But i feel the girl just playing with his feeling.What do u think guys is he or she in the wrong

  i wont like a girl like this
• applesweetgirl

  1 Jan 06, 02:10

  omg..the girl sounds like my friend. this morning i was also discussing about this girl friend of mine with my boyfriend. i think what she does is wrong...as in, she tells me she don't like this certain guy...then why she still go and accept his gifts and ask him out and stuffs?
  i also see the guy bu shun yan because he is most probably like all the other guys who are wooing my friend - for her looks. she IS attractive. small sized, long hair, big eyes. gentle, caring blablabla...everything a guy wants la. haiz. sadly for such girls, their relationships don't last long de. all thanks to the guys who woo girls for their looks only!
  so i think your friend is ownself stupid also.
• Dendrite88

  1 Jan 06, 02:21

  Originally posted by Hello_14:

  Ok this has been goin on for ages. 3 guys and 1 girl. This girl is very attractive and and 3 guys has been going all out for this girl. 2 guys have alr declared their love towards her and have been buying her gifts and always paying for whatever she tries to buy or eat when we go out.Take note that this gilr is alr atttached to another.Ans she alr told those guys that she does not have an feelings for them. But the guys still continue to do what they do and it is still going on. Wat make me think that the girl is the wrong is that she accpets whatever the two does. Like giving them hope like that. Like accepting their gifts and just evertime let them pay for her stuffs without even rejecting them.She talks with them on the phone for long long hours. B4 the two who is trying for the girl is also very good frens. But because of her they have not been talking to each other.Many ppl don't like the attitude of this girl but they just keep mum about it.in the two guys one is my very close frens and everytime i tell not to waste his time on her he just won't listen he everytime say he feel he got a chance.I think he alr spent a fortune on the girl liao.But i feel the girl just playing with his feeling.What do u think guys is he or she in the wrong

  Your friends care more about girls then about their friendships? How can they even count as loyal friends when they ignore each other because of a girl, an abysmal and selfish girl infact.
  
  Attached and still giving hope? What the bloody hell is wrong with her? leading people on aint fun you know, in the end those guys gonna get hurt more.
  
  Seriously, advise your friends to acknowledge each other rather then this girl, because ultimately, they are gonna lose both the girl and their friendship from what I can see.
• weijian

  1 Jan 06, 14:12

  Originally posted by Hello_14:

  Ok this has been goin on for ages. 3 guys and 1 girl. This girl is very attractive and and 3 guys has been going all out for this girl. 2 guys have alr declared their love towards her and have been buying her gifts and always paying for whatever she tries to buy or eat when we go out.Take note that this gilr is alr atttached to another.Ans she alr told those guys that she does not have an feelings for them. But the guys still continue to do what they do and it is still going on. Wat make me think that the girl is the wrong is that she accpets whatever the two does. Like giving them hope like that. Like accepting their gifts and just evertime let them pay for her stuffs without even rejecting them.She talks with them on the phone for long long hours. B4 the two who is trying for the girl is also very good frens. But because of her they have not been talking to each other.Many ppl don't like the attitude of this girl but they just keep mum about it.in the two guys one is my very close frens and everytime i tell not to waste his time on her he just won't listen he everytime say he feel he got a chance.I think he alr spent a fortune on the girl liao.But i feel the girl just playing with his feeling.What do u think guys is he or she in the wrong

  dun go head and heeds over this gal...relationship is just a small part and parcel of ur life...
  
  frenship holds a bigger parcel of ur life...for all of us will depend on frenz once in a while for jobs, chat, to discuss problems or so...brg, only help to a little bit only...
  
  
• hyperactivechatterbox

  1 Jan 06, 23:22

  Well...maybe she's sending out mixed signals...
• Yunhaier

  2 Jan 06, 11:06

  Originally posted by Hello_14:

  Ok this has been goin on for ages. 3 guys and 1 girl. This girl is very attractive and and 3 guys has been going all out for this girl. 2 guys have alr declared their love towards her and have been buying her gifts and always paying for whatever she tries to buy or eat when we go out.Take note that this gilr is alr atttached to another.Ans she alr told those guys that she does not have an feelings for them. But the guys still continue to do what they do and it is still going on. Wat make me think that the girl is the wrong is that she accpets whatever the two does. Like giving them hope like that. Like accepting their gifts and just evertime let them pay for her stuffs without even rejecting them.She talks with them on the phone for long long hours. B4 the two who is trying for the girl is also very good frens. But because of her they have not been talking to each other.Many ppl don't like the attitude of this girl but they just keep mum about it.in the two guys one is my very close frens and everytime i tell not to waste his time on her he just won't listen he everytime say he feel he got a chance.I think he alr spent a fortune on the girl liao.But i feel the girl just playing with his feeling.What do u think guys is he or she in the wrong

  As programmed in their head (typical sg guy): more investment should churn more results. Best part, money can buy love.
  
  Rubbish.
  
  Willing victims?
  
  My advice is keep spending.
  
  Until they fringing` learn.
  
  How much this lesson cost them?
  
  Depends on how fast they learn.
  
  Cheers
• chunyong

  2 Jan 06, 11:07

  Originally posted by Hello_14:

  Ok this has been goin on for ages. 3 guys and 1 girl. This girl is very attractive and and 3 guys has been going all out for this girl. 2 guys have alr declared their love towards her and have been buying her gifts and always paying for whatever she tries to buy or eat when we go out.Take note that this gilr is alr atttached to another.Ans she alr told those guys that she does not have an feelings for them. But the guys still continue to do what they do and it is still going on. Wat make me think that the girl is the wrong is that she accpets whatever the two does. Like giving them hope like that. Like accepting their gifts and just evertime let them pay for her stuffs without even rejecting them.She talks with them on the phone for long long hours. B4 the two who is trying for the girl is also very good frens. But because of her they have not been talking to each other.Many ppl don't like the attitude of this girl but they just keep mum about it.in the two guys one is my very close frens and everytime i tell not to waste his time on her he just won't listen he everytime say he feel he got a chance.I think he alr spent a fortune on the girl liao.But i feel the girl just playing with his feeling.What do u think guys is he or she in the wrong

  cut it to below 50 words pls
• superstar86

  2 Jan 06, 23:02

  just let ur friens do what he want...becos love is blind,,if u really love a person...u will feel it's worth to do everything for her!!
• drx

  3 Jan 06, 15:30

  Originally posted by Hello_14:

  Ok this has been goin on for ages. 3 guys and 1 girl. This girl is very attractive and and 3 guys has been going all out for this girl. 2 guys have alr declared their love towards her and have been buying her gifts and always paying for whatever she tries to buy or eat when we go out.Take note that this gilr is alr atttached to another.Ans she alr told those guys that she does not have an feelings for them. But the guys still continue to do what they do and it is still going on. Wat make me think that the girl is the wrong is that she accpets whatever the two does. Like giving them hope like that. Like accepting their gifts and just evertime let them pay for her stuffs without even rejecting them.She talks with them on the phone for long long hours. B4 the two who is trying for the girl is also very good frens. But because of her they have not been talking to each other.Many ppl don't like the attitude of this girl but they just keep mum about it.in the two guys one is my very close frens and everytime i tell not to waste his time on her he just won't listen he everytime say he feel he got a chance.I think he alr spent a fortune on the girl liao.But i feel the girl just playing with his feeling.What do u think guys is he or she in the wrong

  If your friend is willing and the girl do not mind what can you do about it?
  Sorry man you did your job as your friend is time to let your friend learn it the hard way. Just be there when he falls.
• hypercurry

  3 Jan 06, 22:01

  Originally posted by beavan:

  tell them to wake up ba..the girl's already attached still chase for what?

  Attached doesnt mean cannot chase wat. Not like they're married with kids
• life2121

  3 Jan 06, 22:07

  theres a saying... the willing fish will get hooked...
  
  if e girl constantly reminds e guys... dun tink she is at any fault...
  
  guys can get all emotional in tis age as well... they jus dun noe when 2 let go...
• LazerLordz

  3 Jan 06, 22:13

  Originally posted by Dendrite88:

  Your friends care more about girls then about their friendships? How can they even count as loyal friends when they ignore each other because of a girl, an abysmal and selfish girl infact.
  
  Attached and still giving hope? What the bloody hell is wrong with her? leading people on aint fun you know, in the end those guys gonna get hurt more.
  
  Seriously, advise your friends to acknowledge each other rather then this girl, because ultimately, they are gonna lose both the girl and their friendship from what I can see.

  the girl is also gauging them through the things they do.She would not be impressed by how they put aside their friendship for something like this.
  
  dumb chaps.
• Rod1984

  3 Jan 06, 22:17

  Hey! same things happens to my fren, gal gng out with 3 guys ended up spending alot of money on her.. i guess she jus making use of them... this things should stop.. sg girls gng to RUINS liaoz...CMI... so sad tat, singaporeans girls are facing a desperate crisis of being phase out by US...in spite of that, more and more ppl looking else where...