Some tips I guess...

• selfish

  1 Jan 06, 23:42

  If you know him/her really well and are going out together like best friends and he/she rejects you. Then you have to wait if you still wish for a future together.
  
  If you don't really know him/her really well and you have absolutely no way of getting close to her anyway. You need to rely on your friends to help you. Its the only way. Through group outings.
  
  And I only realized, after confession and if he/she doesn't reciprocate, one will get desperate and say all kinds of weird stuff. I don't know if its a blessing in disguise but it does kinda make you more daring towards him/her.
  
  One more thing... CALL CALL CALL... dun give him/her a choice....CALL DUN SMS...
• M©+square

  1 Jan 06, 23:46

  Hahaha
  
  This thread is a cute one.
  
  People in AA! Share what you've learnt!
  
  Cheers
• Patrik

  1 Jan 06, 23:48

  This happened to 2 of my closest friends.
• trueno86

  1 Jan 06, 23:51

  no consolations, no definations of "still friends"especially after rejections. Just let the nature takes it's course. Look for greener pasture.
• browniebaobao

  1 Jan 06, 23:51

  I dun understand..
  
  suddenly call up him/her and make a confession?
  
  By not giving him time to think before responding, i think the outcome might be worse leh.
• selfish

  1 Jan 06, 23:52

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  I dun understand..
  
  suddenly call up him/her and make a confession?
  
  By not giving him time to think before responding, i think the outcome might be worse leh.

  I meant call to tok, call to ask him/her out...
• alexkusu

  1 Jan 06, 23:55

  Some gals chase guys by actin cold n ignoring them
• browniebaobao

  1 Jan 06, 23:56

  Originally posted by selfish:

  I meant call to tok, call to ask him/her out...

  oh....
  
  i duno ba... im a passive girl.
  
  if he dun take action, i probably wun too..
• browniebaobao

  1 Jan 06, 23:57

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  Some gals chase guys by actin cold n ignoring them

  har? weird girls?
  
  ple give u cold shoulder and ignore u makes u feel that they are chasing u ar?
  
  weird thinking.
• alexkusu

  1 Jan 06, 23:58

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  har? weird girls?
  
  ple give u cold shoulder and ignore u makes u feel that they are chasing u ar?
  
  weird thinking.

  yalor.. i didnt knw..till one of her frens come n tell me...say im not 'sensitive' to detect it -_-"
  
  wat the..wastin time nia
• browniebaobao

  2 Jan 06, 00:01

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  yalor.. i didnt knw..till one of her frens come n tell me...say im not 'sensitive' to detect it -_-"
  
  wat the..wastin time nia

  wahahaha.. wrong method liao la.
• alexkusu

  2 Jan 06, 00:04

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  wahahaha.. wrong method liao la.

  ah? what will u do instead? pretend borrow his lab book n put movie tickets inside n return next day?
• browniebaobao

  2 Jan 06, 00:07

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  ah? what will u do instead? pretend borrow his lab book n put movie tickets inside n return next day?

  i wun do anything ar.
  
  if he likes me, he should be the one making the move.
• LazerLordz

  2 Jan 06, 00:07

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  Some gals chase guys by actin cold n ignoring them

  that gives me some hope.
• browniebaobao

  2 Jan 06, 00:07

  Originally posted by LazerLordz:

  that gives me some hope.

  stop deceiving urself.
• alexkusu

  2 Jan 06, 00:08

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  i wun do anything ar.
  
  if he likes me, he should be the one making the move.

  no gender equality?
• LazerLordz

  2 Jan 06, 00:09

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  stop deceiving urself.

  
• alexkusu

  2 Jan 06, 00:09

  Originally posted by LazerLordz:

  that gives me some hope.

  yes..make sure she is either china-nese, korean or thai. Or mix
• LazerLordz

  2 Jan 06, 00:10

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  yes..make sure she is either china-nese, korean or thai. Or mix

  Hmm.Not sure about that, but she plays rugby, mahjong and loves all things Japanese and Korean.
• sinicker

  2 Jan 06, 00:11

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  oh....
  
  i duno ba... im a passive girl.
  
  if he dun take action, i probably wun too..

  eh? im a passive boy. haha.. if no one asks me out, i go out alone. to orchard/suntec, where all teenagers are out wiv their friends, u may find me alone. haha.
• LazerLordz

  2 Jan 06, 00:12

  Originally posted by sinicker:

  eh? im a passive boy. haha.. if no one asks me out, i go out alone. to orchard/suntec, where all teenagers are out wiv their friends, u may find me alone. haha.

  I see my former self.
• alexkusu

  2 Jan 06, 00:16

  Originally posted by LazerLordz:

  Hmm.Not sure about that, but she plays rugby, mahjong and loves all things Japanese and Korean.

  orh? is she a muscular, dominant type?
• LazerLordz

  2 Jan 06, 00:23

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  orh? is she a muscular, dominant type?

  dominant I don't know, but she will not fly off that easily not very vocal though, only to me.
• sinicker

  2 Jan 06, 00:26

  Originally posted by LazerLordz:

  I see my former self.

  ah? really ah? i went xmas shopping alone on xmas eve. how's that?
• LazerLordz

  2 Jan 06, 00:28

  Originally posted by sinicker:

  ah? really ah? i went xmas shopping alone on xmas eve. how's that?

  I went for a New Year's Eve countdown alone once. when I was in college.