Am I important to u??
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I need advise.. Anyone can help mi??
She is my ex stead n is e 1st gal I truly in luv wif.. 4 yrs ago she dump me n hurts me deeply.
Nov 2005, she starts to contact me back n she wan to meet me. I have a very complicated feeling b4 I meet her. Of coz I wish to meet her coz I reali miss her but I scare tat I will fall for her again. Tat wat in my mind b4 I meet her.
We finally meet up. We share a very happy time recap of our beautiful memories. She tells mi tat she was very sorry abt last time n she was very regret. She say so far I am e only guy tat care n devotes her. After den, we meet up regularly ard her void deck to chit chat n joke ard. We r more den frenz, we r like soul mate tat share each other problems.
Thing happen as wat I expected. I reali fall in love wif her. I canÂ’t control my feeling. I had tell her my feeling n her ans tat she has feelin for me oso but e problem is tat she already have a bf n they has been together for 2 yrs.
Her bf is now servicing ns so we only can msg n meet during weekday. Her weekend and public holiday have to accompany her bf.
I feel tat I am sort of her scandal coz we always msg each other till late nite n meet up without letting her bf noe. She even has another phone line for me to msg her so tat her bf wun found out. Although we r purely fren nv even hold or hug each other. I very feel bad to her bf. He sure hurts deeply if he found out n oso I dun wish tat mi gf does tat to mi in e further.
I already try to control mi feeling toward her. My feeling is all kept in my heart. Tat hurts men.
Did she noe tat she r hurting both me n her bf?? Do she noe how much I suffer during those weekends especially xmas n new yr eve. I was so lonely n miserable. Wat I can do is to wait for her msg every nite. She only noe how to complain to me abt he bf. She say her bf only noe to play game dun reali care abt her. She den have to help to wash n iron his army uniform. If tat so y u still wan to be wif him??
She did tell me tat she canÂ’t give me anything. She say she scare to hurts me again. I wondering y she wan to contact mi in e beginning. I reali wan to noe wat was in her heart?? Do I stand a place in her heart?? Or she need me juz bcoz she r lonely when her bf in camp??
I always think tat I wun lose to her bf. I have e looks, gd character n I love n care for her. E only thing is tat IÂ’m poor n bad family background. There is lot of gals out there waiting for mi seriously.
My friends say I am stupid. I can simply choose any gals tat love me more. My ans: I dun love them I dun wan to hurts them I dun believe love can develop
If I truly love her n I wan to make her happy for e rest of her life wat should I do?? -
bro, it does not feels good to be a 3rd party...be it willingly or unwillingly..
if u have the patient, wait for her...if not, juz remains as friends..nothing more... -
Bro, long way to go lar. I suggest you try out more girls before settling down with 1. Trust me, when you are married and with kids, you will look back and ask yourself, why didn't I give myself more choice?
Oh, btw I love my wife very much and I will always love her. She is the right choice for me and always will be. I finally made my choice after many trial and errors with many other girls
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Originally posted by KopiKia:
haha...dun bluff...u scare your wife in sgforums oso right...
Bro, long way to go lar. I suggest you try out more girls before settling down with 1. Trust me, when you are married and with kids, you will look back and ask yourself, why didn't I give myself more choice?
Oh, btw I love my wife very much and I will always love her. She is the right choice for me and always will be. I finally made my choice after many trial and errors with many other girls 
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1. My wife does not surf the net.Originally posted by R3SsH|n:haha...dun bluff...u scare your wife in sgforums oso right...
2. My wife is not singaporean, she can hardly read english.
3. My wife not so free to spy on me, she got other better things to do.
4. I am not afraid of my wife.
5. What I said was unbiased and said without any form of guilt. It was from the bottom of my heart. -
ya noe man...girls are really complicated people...but one thing i am sure...it is that they are emotional people too...
most probably...the girl just wanted an emotional pillar to stand by her when her boyfriend is not around..be it physically or mentally...like you said...her boyfriend tend to ignore her and just carry on with his gaming...and since her boyfriend is serving ns...most probably she will get lonely on weekdays...she will need someone to talk to...thats when she thought about you...
my guess is she lacks a sense of security right now...really...thats what alot of girls go through when their boyfriend is serving the nation...now u noe why got so many girl like to "bing bian" ?
on her part...she chose you because you were once her emotional pillar...thats why she thought about you...and bringing up past issue can only mean one thing...she is lacking in an emotional pillar...she is insecure...she wants someone to give her that emotional security...its not love i am afraid...
on your part...you must have thought that love has rekindled...its perfectly normal for you to think that...simply because you have not had anyone to love since her right? you just need someone to love...and the someone you once loved is her...naturally you wanna love her again...am i right?
i think what you can do is to maybe just keep on being her friend...and nothing more...you have to keep reminding yourself...you are no longer her boyfriend...you cannot do things that normal friends don't do...it won't be fair to the boyfriend...
BE A GENTLEMEN...
but on the bright side buddy...you can continue to be her friend...which is the door to many opportunities...when she once again find that you are the sweetest guy on earth...she will automatically fall in love with you...and when that happens...dun let the chance slip away again okie? -
well then good for you...hard to find true love nowadays...Originally posted by KopiKia:1. My wife does not surf the net.
2. My wife is not singaporean, she can hardly read english.
3. My wife not so free to spy on me, she got other better things to do.
4. I am not afraid of my wife.
5. What I said was unbiased and said without any form of guilt. It was from the bottom of my heart. -
If you are willing to continue, then wait for her. Believe in yourself, believe in her. She may also have a hard time in terms of emotion wise. If you really love her, wait for her. It isn't wrong to wait, as she yet to be married. All the best
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Isn't it simple? Don't be bother by morales and the looks of others. Do what is best for yourself. You only have 1 life.
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Rather simple...but, not easy.
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after reading your post, i have quite a few comments, after reading quite a few problems, yours is the simplest yet sophisficated to solve..with lots of parts to break into..anyway...here goes nothing...
highlighted text in black (1st few lines) Congrats on the reunion of being closer with your ex-stead.
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1 - she knows she has done you wrong & is regretful
2 - she know's that the only person she can trust with her secrets are you
3 - she feels comfortable with you
infurence - she treats you the person whom she trust only!!
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1 - you are aware of her current situation
2 - she has a bf, and you are considerate enough to think 4 her bf, well done
3 - being together for 2 yrs, i believe she is the faithful type, silent type, don't usually make the first move = as you have said, she speaks to you of her problems.
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1 - sms during midnight (the time whereby its slping time
when she can't slp, she msg you in midnight = inference - your position in her heart holds a bigger % compared to her female frenz
2 - since your her ex-bf, she trust you naturally, and she knows where to seek shelter when she need to go into hiding..
3 - when she sms you, she is thinking of you only...when a person is bored/ cant slp...the first person that she contacted will hold a great place in her heart
4 - private line personalized for you: she don't want to be disturbed while chatting with you, for the line that you call to ; maybe your the only person who has the no other then her family members
5 - her boyfriend shares the usual contact no as the same way she contact her friends and family members..
6 - looking at point 4 & 5; you know your are important then her current boyfriend
7 - you feel sorry for his bf, maybe you would like to discuss this topic with her together when you have a chance to meet up, don't discuss over the phone nor sms nor msn...face to face= sincerity- tell her how you feel, let her know, no point bottle up all your feelings...in the long run you will have a very deep wound shld u get on with another relationship
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1 - if she isn't aware of your situition, then tell her face to face.
2 - help her analyse her current status with her bf, since you said her bf only
knows how to play games, means that they have no other form of
communication other then games...with little communication, it's just a
matter of time before her bf break with her
3 - discuss with her on what feeling and damage she is currently giving you.
during the discussion, then she will realise which person is more impt
to her.
4 - place in her heart = definately a BIG YESH!!
5 - She needs you most of the time, just that she is thorn between you and
him, she is just confused only, let her know who she really needs via
discussion face to face
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1 - its good to be confident
2 - let her know that there are other gals waiting for you (if you want her to
know the fact that she cannot always depend on you (shld u wanna break
the possibility of re-getting her to be your stead)
3 - if there are gals whom likes you, give them a chance and give yourself a
chance
4 - by giving other gals a chance, you are not two-timming, for ur ex-stead
didnt ask you to be her stead, so don't worry
5 - if you give other gals a chance, do tell them, if not it will be unfair to the
other gals at the start
6 - a chance to also let you decide if you want to continue trying to give her a
chance to your stead when the chance comes.
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don't be so bothered by what they say...
love is something noble....if you feel you are doing the right thing, then continue doing it, i will support you..Originally posted by bcoz_i'm_worth_it:I need advise.. Anyone can help mi??
She is my ex stead n is e 1st gal I truly in luv wif.. 4 yrs ago she dump me n hurts me deeply.
Nov 2005, she starts to contact me back n she wan to meet me. I have a very complicated feeling b4 I meet her. Of coz I wish to meet her coz I reali miss her but I scare tat I will fall for her again. Tat wat in my mind b4 I meet her.
We finally meet up. We share a very happy time recap of our beautiful memories. She tells mi tat she was very sorry abt last time n she was very regret. She say so far I am e only guy tat care n devotes her. After den, we meet up regularly ard her void deck to chit chat n joke ard. We r more den frenz, we r like soul mate tat share each other problems.
Thing happen as wat I expected. I reali fall in love wif her. I canÂ’t control my feeling. I had tell her my feeling n her ans tat she has feelin for me oso but e problem is tat she already have a bf n they has been together for 2 yrs.
Her bf is now servicing ns so we only can msg n meet during weekday. Her weekend and public holiday have to accompany her bf.
I feel tat I am sort of her scandal coz we always msg each other till late nite n meet up without letting her bf noe. She even has another phone line for me to msg her so tat her bf wun found out. Although we r purely fren nv even hold or hug each other. I very feel bad to her bf. He sure hurts deeply if he found out n oso I dun wish tat mi gf does tat to mi in e further.
I already try to control mi feeling toward her. My feeling is all kept in my heart. Tat hurts men.
Did she noe tat she r hurting both me n her bf?? Do she noe how much I suffer during those weekends especially xmas n new yr eve. I was so lonely n miserable. Wat I can do is to wait for her msg every nite. She only noe how to complain to me abt he bf. She say her bf only noe to play game dun reali care abt her. She den have to help to wash n iron his army uniform. If tat so y u still wan to be wif him??
She did tell me tat she canÂ’t give me anything. She say she scare to hurts me again. I wondering y she wan to contact mi in e beginning. I reali wan to noe wat was in her heart?? Do I stand a place in her heart?? Or she need me juz bcoz she r lonely when her bf in camp??
I always think tat I wun lose to her bf. I have e looks, gd character n I love n care for her. E only thing is tat IÂ’m poor n bad family background. There is lot of gals out there waiting for mi seriously.
My friends say I am stupid. I can simply choose any gals tat love me more. My ans: I dun love them I dun wan to hurts them I dun believe love can develop
If I truly love her n I wan to make her happy for e rest of her life wat should I do??
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Yeo....b 3rd party is not gud yea....n tats hurt a lot !! think by urslef if ur gf treat u like tat...would u pissed off......? dun do tat yea....i noe tat u love her but is not da right time to b wif her nw !! ......dun b da 3rd party yea !! juz control urself ! trust me....u wil feel guilty !! adious brother !!
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To the threadstarter,
Usually I have no problems with women who are attached and want to start a new relationship with another guy.
Provided thatÂ…
They break off cleanly with their current boyfriend before they start the new relationship
They demonstrated through their actions that this new guy is much more important to her.
In your case, she did none of those.
She loves her boyfriend more than you. When her boyfriend is willing to give her attention, she will immediately flock back to him.
She sets up another phone line to talk to you. That was meant to protect her relationship with her boyfriend while she finds someone to vomit her emotion upon. She has no intention at all to let go of her current relationship.
She is lying when she says she doesnÂ’t want to hurt you.
If she doesnÂ’t want to hurt you, she would not have come back, meddle with your feelings then tell you she canÂ’t give you anything!
Now letÂ’s talk about you.
You are too confident about yourself.
You are too sure that you will not lose to her boyfriend. This is a potential pitfall for us guys.
Her boyfriend treats her like trash, you treat her like gold. You think you love and care for her more than her boyfriend so she will be attracted to you more?
Sounds logical but thatÂ’s not how it works.
She said her boyfriend plays games and donÂ’t really care about her. But have you considered why she still sticks around him for 2 years then despite all that?
She is attracted to him because she has yet to win him over!
Here's the truth from the way I see it...
He is a challenge to her. You are not.
She knows her boyfriend will not hesitate to dump her sorry @ss if she fools around.
She also knows she can have you anytime she wants.
So she uses you as a second option!
But from your post, I can tell you are a sensible person.
Just listen carefully to what your gut is telling you. You will not go wrong.
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You are her 'spare tyre'.. When she need you, you'll be there and you do it willingly . Not good, bro.. You should be spending time with other girls if not either you or her bf will get hurt... Wait till she break up with him then you 'chase' her back lah..
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if i am you i will go find other gal.... than when she call you out than you go out just play play can liao
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humm how to advice ?Originally posted by bcoz_i'm_worth_it:I need advise.. Anyone can help mi??
She is my ex stead n is e 1st gal I truly in luv wif.. 4 yrs ago she dump me n hurts me deeply.
Nov 2005, she starts to contact me back n she wan to meet me. I have a very complicated feeling b4 I meet her. Of coz I wish to meet her coz I reali miss her but I scare tat I will fall for her again. Tat wat in my mind b4 I meet her.
We finally meet up. We share a very happy time recap of our beautiful memories. She tells mi tat she was very sorry abt last time n she was very regret. She say so far I am e only guy tat care n devotes her. After den, we meet up regularly ard her void deck to chit chat n joke ard. We r more den frenz, we r like soul mate tat share each other problems.
Thing happen as wat I expected. I reali fall in love wif her. I canÂ’t control my feeling. I had tell her my feeling n her ans tat she has feelin for me oso but e problem is tat she already have a bf n they has been together for 2 yrs.
Her bf is now servicing ns so we only can msg n meet during weekday. Her weekend and public holiday have to accompany her bf.
I feel tat I am sort of her scandal coz we always msg each other till late nite n meet up without letting her bf noe. She even has another phone line for me to msg her so tat her bf wun found out. Although we r purely fren nv even hold or hug each other. I very feel bad to her bf. He sure hurts deeply if he found out n oso I dun wish tat mi gf does tat to mi in e further.
I already try to control mi feeling toward her. My feeling is all kept in my heart. Tat hurts men.
Did she noe tat she r hurting both me n her bf?? Do she noe how much I suffer during those weekends especially xmas n new yr eve. I was so lonely n miserable. Wat I can do is to wait for her msg every nite. She only noe how to complain to me abt he bf. She say her bf only noe to play game dun reali care abt her. She den have to help to wash n iron his army uniform. If tat so y u still wan to be wif him??
She did tell me tat she canÂ’t give me anything. She say she scare to hurts me again. I wondering y she wan to contact mi in e beginning. I reali wan to noe wat was in her heart?? Do I stand a place in her heart?? Or she need me juz bcoz she r lonely when her bf in camp??
I always think tat I wun lose to her bf. I have e looks, gd character n I love n care for her. E only thing is tat IÂ’m poor n bad family background. There is lot of gals out there waiting for mi seriously.
My friends say I am stupid. I can simply choose any gals tat love me more. My ans: I dun love them I dun wan to hurts them I dun believe love can develop
If I truly love her n I wan to make her happy for e rest of her life wat should I do??
how about telling me a few things first.
1) why do you like this girl so much? She looked nice or what?
2) Do you agreed if i say she is playing with you? Come on lar blind also can see.
3) If she can play with her bf, she can play with you too.. right ? You can pity the bf but why not pity yourself.
4) If you really want her to be happy break up with her now. you know she loves her bf more than you and you know that the bf will get hurt if he knows.
So why are you here ?
To give up or not is up to you. As long as you know that the girl is using you and will dump you once her bf comes out of ns and you are willing to be her playmate then go ahead. No one here can stop you.
Since you walk this path please do not come back and complain why she dump you later since you are willing and she did not force you. -
What CAN you doOriginally posted by bcoz_i'm_worth_it:I need advise.. Anyone can help mi??
She is my ex stead n is e 1st gal I truly in luv wif.. 4 yrs ago she dump me n hurts me deeply.
Nov 2005, she starts to contact me back n she wan to meet me. I have a very complicated feeling b4 I meet her. Of coz I wish to meet her coz I reali miss her but I scare tat I will fall for her again. Tat wat in my mind b4 I meet her.
We finally meet up. We share a very happy time recap of our beautiful memories. She tells mi tat she was very sorry abt last time n she was very regret. She say so far I am e only guy tat care n devotes her. After den, we meet up regularly ard her void deck to chit chat n joke ard. We r more den frenz, we r like soul mate tat share each other problems.
Thing happen as wat I expected. I reali fall in love wif her. I canÂ’t control my feeling. I had tell her my feeling n her ans tat she has feelin for me oso but e problem is tat she already have a bf n they has been together for 2 yrs.
Her bf is now servicing ns so we only can msg n meet during weekday. Her weekend and public holiday have to accompany her bf.
I feel tat I am sort of her scandal coz we always msg each other till late nite n meet up without letting her bf noe. She even has another phone line for me to msg her so tat her bf wun found out. Although we r purely fren nv even hold or hug each other. I very feel bad to her bf. He sure hurts deeply if he found out n oso I dun wish tat mi gf does tat to mi in e further.
I already try to control mi feeling toward her. My feeling is all kept in my heart. Tat hurts men.
Did she noe tat she r hurting both me n her bf?? Do she noe how much I suffer during those weekends especially xmas n new yr eve. I was so lonely n miserable. Wat I can do is to wait for her msg every nite. She only noe how to complain to me abt he bf. She say her bf only noe to play game dun reali care abt her. She den have to help to wash n iron his army uniform. If tat so y u still wan to be wif him??
Have you asked her that question
She did tell me tat she canÂ’t give me anything. She say she scare to hurts me again. I wondering y she wan to contact mi in e beginning. I reali wan to noe wat was in her heart?? Do I stand a place in her heart?? Or she need me juz bcoz she r lonely when her bf in camp??
I always think tat I wun lose to her bf. I have e looks, gd character n I love n care for her. E only thing is tat IÂ’m poor n bad family background. There is lot of gals out there waiting for mi seriously.
My friends say I am stupid. I can simply choose any gals tat love me more. My ans: I dun love them I dun wan to hurts them I dun believe love can develop
If I truly love her n I wan to make her happy for e rest of her life wat should I do?? -
Originally posted by bcoz_i'm_worth_it:
I need advise.. Anyone can help mi??
She is my ex stead n is e 1st gal I truly in luv wif.. 4 yrs ago she dump me n hurts me deeply.
Nov 2005, she starts to contact me back n she wan to meet me. I have a very complicated feeling b4 I meet her. Of coz I wish to meet her coz I reali miss her but I scare tat I will fall for her again. Tat wat in my mind b4 I meet her.
We finally meet up. We share a very happy time recap of our beautiful memories. She tells mi tat she was very sorry abt last time n she was very regret. She say so far I am e only guy tat care n devotes her. After den, we meet up regularly ard her void deck to chit chat n joke ard. We r more den frenz, we r like soul mate tat share each other problems.
Thing happen as wat I expected. I reali fall in love wif her. I canÂ’t control my feeling. I had tell her my feeling n her ans tat she has feelin for me oso but e problem is tat she already have a bf n they has been together for 2 yrs.
Her bf is now servicing ns so we only can msg n meet during weekday. Her weekend and public holiday have to accompany her bf.
I feel tat I am sort of her scandal coz we always msg each other till late nite n meet up without letting her bf noe. She even has another phone line for me to msg her so tat her bf wun found out. Although we r purely fren nv even hold or hug each other. I very feel bad to her bf. He sure hurts deeply if he found out n oso I dun wish tat mi gf does tat to mi in e further.
I already try to control mi feeling toward her. My feeling is all kept in my heart. Tat hurts men.
Did she noe tat she r hurting both me n her bf?? Do she noe how much I suffer during those weekends especially xmas n new yr eve. I was so lonely n miserable. Wat I can do is to wait for her msg every nite. She only noe how to complain to me abt he bf. She say her bf only noe to play game dun reali care abt her. She den have to help to wash n iron his army uniform. If tat so y u still wan to be wif him??
She did tell me tat she canÂ’t give me anything. She say she scare to hurts me again. I wondering y she wan to contact mi in e beginning. I reali wan to noe wat was in her heart?? Do I stand a place in her heart?? Or she need me juz bcoz she r lonely when her bf in camp??
I always think tat I wun lose to her bf. I have e looks, gd character n I love n care for her. E only thing is tat IÂ’m poor n bad family background. There is lot of gals out there waiting for mi seriously.
My friends say I am stupid. I can simply choose any gals tat love me more. My ans: I dun love them I dun wan to hurts them I dun believe love can develop
If I truly love her n I wan to make her happy for e rest of her life wat should I do?? You have unresolved issues with her and because you also have weak emotional control, by exposing yourself to temptation, in which you ALREADY knew you will succumb, you are being lead on by circumstances freely. If you know that you will fall in love with her again... YOU WOULDÂ…when the right condition surface. Your mind and heart have zero resistance against her and this scenario is a reiterated cycle you have gone through four years ago.
If that cannot make you learn, karmic cycle will return and attempt to haunt you again.
There are two sides to this story: the first being the part of her using you as a substitute for her boyfriend, which you probably knew it, but decide to play that role because she has effectively exploited that vulnerable in you to provide her the company she needs and you servilely obey what she wants of you.
The second side of this tale is that she could be dropping hints for you... to 'rescue' her from her plight... to be her knight in shining armour. She may need you to 'do' something before she could leap ships (Relationship).
Regardless of either side, you have failed in your previous lesson and will serve to face the reiterated consequences. You are likely to be assaulted with guilt, uncertainty, doubts and confusion than happiness from this crisis.
I very feel bad to her bf. He sure hurts deeply if he found out n oso I dun wish tat mi gf does tat to mi in e further.
If you canÂ’t play such games, donÂ’t even think about it.
Cheers -
Hey man, im in a similar situation as you. I totally understand how you feel. Although in my case, my ex was more passive. I know she has feelings for me, but she just isnt willing to leave her bf. Like you, i dont have the money to compete with him, another thing is time. Now he's serving police ns, he can spend all the time he have with her (she works long hrs), while i have to carry on my internship till march.Originally posted by bcoz_i'm_worth_it:I need advise.. Anyone can help mi??
She is my ex stead n is e 1st gal I truly in luv wif.. 4 yrs ago she dump me n hurts me deeply.
Nov 2005, she starts to contact me back n she wan to meet me. I have a very complicated feeling b4 I meet her. Of coz I wish to meet her coz I reali miss her but I scare tat I will fall for her again. Tat wat in my mind b4 I meet her.
We finally meet up. We share a very happy time recap of our beautiful memories. She tells mi tat she was very sorry abt last time n she was very regret. She say so far I am e only guy tat care n devotes her. After den, we meet up regularly ard her void deck to chit chat n joke ard. We r more den frenz, we r like soul mate tat share each other problems.
Thing happen as wat I expected. I reali fall in love wif her. I canÂ’t control my feeling. I had tell her my feeling n her ans tat she has feelin for me oso but e problem is tat she already have a bf n they has been together for 2 yrs.
Her bf is now servicing ns so we only can msg n meet during weekday. Her weekend and public holiday have to accompany her bf.
I feel tat I am sort of her scandal coz we always msg each other till late nite n meet up without letting her bf noe. She even has another phone line for me to msg her so tat her bf wun found out. Although we r purely fren nv even hold or hug each other. I very feel bad to her bf. He sure hurts deeply if he found out n oso I dun wish tat mi gf does tat to mi in e further.
I already try to control mi feeling toward her. My feeling is all kept in my heart. Tat hurts men.
Did she noe tat she r hurting both me n her bf?? Do she noe how much I suffer during those weekends especially xmas n new yr eve. I was so lonely n miserable. Wat I can do is to wait for her msg every nite. She only noe how to complain to me abt he bf. She say her bf only noe to play game dun reali care abt her. She den have to help to wash n iron his army uniform. If tat so y u still wan to be wif him??
She did tell me tat she canÂ’t give me anything. She say she scare to hurts me again. I wondering y she wan to contact mi in e beginning. I reali wan to noe wat was in her heart?? Do I stand a place in her heart?? Or she need me juz bcoz she r lonely when her bf in camp??
I always think tat I wun lose to her bf. I have e looks, gd character n I love n care for her. E only thing is tat IÂ’m poor n bad family background. There is lot of gals out there waiting for mi seriously.
My friends say I am stupid. I can simply choose any gals tat love me more. My ans: I dun love them I dun wan to hurts them I dun believe love can develop
If I truly love her n I wan to make her happy for e rest of her life wat should I do?? -
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Your wife from china ? vietnam?Originally posted by KopiKia:1. My wife does not surf the net.
2. My wife is not singaporean, she can hardly read english.
3. My wife not so free to spy on me, she got other better things to do.
4. I am not afraid of my wife.
5. What I said was unbiased and said without any form of guilt. It was from the bottom of my heart.
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when u were her bf, she dump u...
now is she going to dump her bf to be with u...
and after that dump u again to be with another guy
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it's obviously she's fcuk-up. if you seriously want her, make use of the vulnerable position she is in - break-up their relationship, then thrust yourself inside her life. a woman's insecurity is the best weapon. she also invest quite a lot of trust in you, so I reckon you are in a very good position to achieve what you want.
It is very easy to trace her boyfriend, especially when he's in BMT. All you need to know is his company (coy) and platoon. I am sure you can syphon this information from her easily. You can extract more personal information on him if you know NSF admin clerks who are based on Pulau Tekong, eg. address, NRIC, blood type, academic records, etc.
What better way is to start a rumour in his platoon about you and his gf? If he's the jealous sort who is unable to accompany her when she needs him, his jealousy will fuel his rage and his inability to meet up with her will only compound his anger.. He can destroy himself and his relationship. All he needs is a catalyst. -
Hiyahs.
In the circumstances your facing, its actually one simple yet sophiscated problem.
Firstly, i see that your a sensible, considerate and devoted guy. I would recommand you to wait and see how it goes.
Who knows she might be taking you as a substitude since her current bf is in NS. If she really cant forget you in the first place, she would have contacted you long before.
You got to make sure its not just an unrequited relationship that only you is putting your love into it wheras shes simply making good use out of you.
Anyway no girls can tolerate doing such torturous chores for guys when they dont even have the slightest feeling for him.But sad to say, the girl that you love deeply is doing it for him.
Just wait patiently and you will see light one day, i assure you.
PS: im not here to flame that your girl is bad.. Im clearly stating facts. -
My friend, i have only one thing to ask you, what do you believe in?
Go ahead with no regrets.
I wish you all the best.