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Its only 10 + sleeps to our 1/2 year relationship . It has never been easy as I am seldom an patient. Many a times , I have tried to suppress my impatientness successfully . Yes , I failed sometimes.
Let's talk a abit about my girl : She is stubborn, impatient , choosy , high-profile mood swinger . Yes , she has many bad traits . She has many good ones too . I believe loving someone is an acceptance of both good and bad.
We sometimes do quarrel over trivia matters, here again , I suppress it by admitting that's my fault although sometimes that's not my fault . just like yesterday , we went dining with a group of my friends , all of us was aware that the food wasnt great ...and started pinpointing who choose the place. She told me that place was my choice ! Again, I tried to defend myself, but i gave in ...again .
Breakup was something she would sugguest during the first time when there is a third party involvement ( not for her , but me , no I am not interested in some1 else ) . I am very 101% confident of how I feel towards her , however sometimes the things makes me have doubts in her . Yes, I spoken to her before , she gave me a blank face with nil reply.
I want to continue loving her , hopefully together we will , till the end of life .
And she hope she will do the same. -
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is this a declaration thingy or a seek for help?Originally posted by Devil1976: .....
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heng i dun need write essays liao.. read too much of this england i will die.
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yes , please , help me ....i dun want to let go !
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What is forcing you to let go?Originally posted by Mudslide:yes , please , help me ....i dun want to let go !
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I think you worry too much about things that have yet to happen. Relax, and enjoy the present moments. Learn to cherish things that you have now so that even if you couldn't be with her in the end, at least you will have the memories.Originally posted by Mudslide:yes , please , help me ....i dun want to let go !
And what is meant to be will be
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I am worried that I let her become too stubborn , too bad - tempered , pamper her too much , I cant be let her bad traits got better of her....it has become a habit already ....
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Is this a 'going blind' declaration thingy...Originally posted by StarPuppy:is this a declaration thingy or a seek for help?
Poster is feeling the shakes under his feet and the 'red light'... He do not wish to give up nor does he truly know how long can he hold on to things... It's like... Just closing your eyes and praying.... -
How old are the both of you...?Originally posted by Mudslide:I am worried that I let her become too stubborn , too bad - tempered , pamper her too much , I cant be let her bad traits got better of her....it has become a habit already .... -
Hmm...it is rather hard to change a person's character. But maybe you can try to communicate with her and tell her that it is bothering you? Hopefully she will listen and try to change for the sake of the relationshipOriginally posted by Mudslide:I am worried that I let her become too stubborn , too bad - tempered , pamper her too much , I cant be let her bad traits got better of her....it has become a habit already .... -
You consider the outcome and weigh it out.Originally posted by Mudslide:I am worried that I let her become too stubborn , too bad - tempered , pamper her too much , I cant be let her bad traits got better of her....it has become a habit already ....
You might have placed too much emphasis onto yourself, you thought that all her traits was caused by you directly or indirectly.
Maybe she might have did it on purpose to repel you, directly or indirectly.
It could be one of her ways to mess you up and let you think that you've failed the r/s.
Wise up and think through.
What do you want to achieve from this present state?
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No , that's not her intention , that happens to even to her own brother and parents.Originally posted by M©+square:You consider the outcome and weigh it out.
You might have placed too much emphasis onto yourself, you thought that all her traits was caused by you directly or indirectly.
Maybe she might have did it on purpose to repel you, directly or indirectly.
It could be one of her ways to mess you up and let you think that you've failed the r/s.
Wise up and think through.
What do you want to achieve from this present state?
Cheers
I wont name it acheivement, I dun want anything back , for God damn sake , I told her , how 's she going to work outside ...
What I want is a stable relationship , not something undecisive ... -
24 , 25 for me.Originally posted by Devil1976:How old are the both of you...? -
Well, she is still your gf, ain't she? Then why do you call it indecisive?Originally posted by Mudslide:No , that's not her intention , that happens to even to her own brother and parents.
I wont name it acheivement, I dun want anything back , for God damn sake , I told her , how 's she going to work outside ...
What I want is a stable relationship , not something undecisive ... -
What I'll say is still the same,Originally posted by Mudslide:No , that's not her intention , that happens to even to her own brother and parents.
I wont name it acheivement, I dun want anything back , for God damn sake , I told her , how 's she going to work outside ...
What I want is a stable relationship , not something undecisive ...
Weigh your situation. Think far, not just hope and wishes to carry your r/s.
At this point of time, you already know what you want. Which is good.
Yet you want a person to change to become what you wish to have. Which is bad.
Change requires time and weathering. You may not see the product weathering. You might be one of the process of it.
I hope you get what i'm trying to say.
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In the future , hopefully, I want her to be my wife, I am 101% sure and certain.Originally posted by M©+square:What I'll say is still the same,
Weigh your situation. Think far, not just hope and wishes to carry your r/s.
At this point of time, you already know what you want. Which is good.
Yet you want a person to change to become what you wish to have. Which is bad.
Change requires time and weathering. You may not see the product weathering. You might be one of the process of it.
I hope you get what i'm trying to say.
Cheers
I am already , from the 1st day , ready to , not the support actor , but the main character . -
Hmm...101% sure?Originally posted by Mudslide:In the future , hopefully, I want her to be my wife, I am 101% sure and certain.
I am already , from the 1st day , ready to , not the support actor , but the main character .
Is she sure as well?
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I am afraid not .Originally posted by M©+square:Hmm...101% sure?
Is she sure as well?
Cheers
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/patsOriginally posted by Mudslide:I am afraid not .
Learn to take things easy.
You're too sure about this relationship, that's when it will break apart together with your heart.
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i must be sure to lead , not be follower .Originally posted by M©+square:/pats
Learn to take things easy.
You're too sure about this relationship, that's when it will break apart together with your heart.
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So be it.Originally posted by Mudslide:i must be sure to lead , not be follower .
I wish you the best.
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I said you're confused...Originally posted by Mudslide:In the future , hopefully, I want her to be my wife, I am 101% sure and certain.
I am already , from the 1st day , ready to , not the support actor , but the main character .