Is this called backstabbing?
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I'm not a clone or what you guys like to term as, joke accounts?
This is my one and only account on sgforums
Okay, So here goes..
I have really nice friends but theres these two, They are very close and is always making fun of me. I was always like whatever and tried to make friends with them and as time passed, They accepted me as we talked more and laughed alot
Then, One day.. In a un-named board, This guy came from nowhere and started whining about his life and I posted something totally pointless and then he started saying how my classmates and friends dislike me and always confide in him. NOTE: The two guys I mentioned also uses this same board
He said that those two guys say that I'm a ugly pig and all.. Yes, I know I'm ugly and overweight, But I'm already doing my best to break through.
Everytime I think about it I feel like dying because friends mean alot to me and backstabbing friends just hurts me, I asked one of my other friend if they disliked me and they said Was I on crack or something and they assured me that they don't know who the **** that internet dude was..
Now I'm still kinda angry as I don't know what to do in a situation like this.. I really feel like killing myself with a suicide note making those idiots guilty and haunting them.. Please, This is a plead for advice before I go berserk -
hey man...you noe friends come and go...some do stay...but majority...they just come and go...
some people just don't deserve to be your friend...you might be a loyal kid...sincere...trying to make the best of this friendship...but sometimes...there are people who do not deserve your kindness...this are the people who do not accept your differences...your bad points...this are what you call fair-weather friends...
my advice for you is screw them and make new friends...i am sure you have other good buddies except the 2 of them...primary...secondary...tertiary classmates...call for a gathering or something...try to get into their life...you might not make 2 best friends from those group...but at least you will made many other friends...and deepen your friendship within those groups...
and one last thing...sgforums people will always be your friend~~
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ask urself, is it worth killing urself for people u considered friends, but who do not consider u as a friend in return? They are not worth even 1 sec of ur time to spend to try to be friends with them.
Btw, have u asked them face to face if they really say such things about u? For all u know, it could be that guy anyhow say. Even if it is true that they say such stuff about u, u should thank ur lucky stars that u had found out who is ur true friends.
Don't do anything silly. They are not worth ur life. -
Hmm, you dont even know the online dude, how you know he is telling the truth? Why didnt you consider that he could just have found out your relationship with your friends and try to do something funny?
Check up before you even accuse your friends of backstabbing you. -
its not backstabbing coz got no knife
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i tot fi got say b4. those who claims tat they are new to sgforums are mostly clones
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think of a way to counter him.
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its not easy to make new friends... As they already have their grp of friends and if u ask them out, they might be always bz... and u will think differently...
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dont take what the person said too seriously
if someone posted something pointless when ur feeling down, ur bound to get a little angry and wanna do something to get back at the other person
same case applies here
dont get so agitated over what is possibly false.. -
You should know more good friends those who can help you in life and not those who'll make your life miserable. Get over them and move on.. Join a club in your nearby Community Center, know new friends and lose weight at the same time..
Life is short but you can make it good.. -
Thats what I'm thinking. Do you trust an unknown guy online more than you trust your friends?Originally posted by laurence82:Hmm, you dont even know the online dude, how you know he is telling the truth? Why didnt you consider that he could just have found out your relationship with your friends and try to do something funny?
Check up before you even accuse your friends of backstabbing you. -
There're bound to be some rotten apples among the good ones... Why lost a forest because of a tree?Originally posted by roflmao123:I'm not a clone or what you guys like to term as, joke accounts?
This is my one and only account on sgforums
Okay, So here goes..
I have really nice friends but theres these two, They are very close and is always making fun of me. I was always like whatever and tried to make friends with them and as time passed, They accepted me as we talked more and laughed alot
Then, One day.. In a un-named board, This guy came from nowhere and started whining about his life and I posted something totally pointless and then he started saying how my classmates and friends dislike me and always confide in him. NOTE: The two guys I mentioned also uses this same board
He said that those two guys say that I'm a ugly pig and all.. Yes, I know I'm ugly and overweight, But I'm already doing my best to break through.
Everytime I think about it I feel like dying because friends mean alot to me and backstabbing friends just hurts me, I asked one of my other friend if they disliked me and they said Was I on crack or something and they assured me that they don't know who the **** that internet dude was..
Now I'm still kinda angry as I don't know what to do in a situation like this.. I really feel like killing myself with a suicide note making those idiots guilty and haunting them.. Please, This is a plead for advice before I go berserk -
go kill yourself if you are so easily hurt by some petty talks behind your back.
the earth will not stop rotating without you. -
Don't worry about it ok....
You're getting too concerned. It's not significant. It's not meaningful. In this life you will find many bigger things.
Don't spend your energy and attention on this. -
This is backstab.
P.S. i have yet read your post. -
oh and if i was that annoymous guy and you killed yourself for me, i would feel immensely powerful. have you ever read the book I'm The King Of The Castle by Susan Hill?