Lonely.. Does it mean being a loser?
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you're being too critical and stereotypical. obviously, you havent seen a true friend but only many fair-weather frieds.Originally posted by Edgar_Davids:please lah u guys watch too much movies or emotional dramas, remember, in real life, there is no real friend, it's all a matter of self-benefits
mankind has always been selfish, nowadays it's a society of intense competition where people vie for benefits and plot against one another, lots of eerie and nasty vindictive stabbing in the back, there is no real friend, whether in schools or in workplaces
those large crowd sitting together and chatting merrily among themselves u really think they are best of friends..? On the outside, they may be so, but on the inside, their behaviours are the epitome of evil contemplation -
sounds like u get backstab by ur close or normal frens b4 didn't uOriginally posted by Edgar_Davids:please lah u guys watch too much movies or emotional dramas, remember, in real life, there is no real friend, it's all a matter of self-benefits
mankind has always been selfish, nowadays it's a society of intense competition where people vie for benefits and plot against one another, lots of eerie and nasty vindictive stabbing in the back, there is no real friend, whether in schools or in workplaces
those large crowd sitting together and chatting merrily among themselves u really think they are best of friends..? On the outside, they may be so, but on the inside, their behaviours are the epitome of evil contemplation -
From the way you've described it, I think I'm a lifeless freak too!Originally posted by roflmao123:I have no real friends.. The only ones that I feel that click alot with me is friends I knew from the internet.
I have real friends that we chat on MSN, But Whenever I ask them out to watch movie or anything they just find some excuse not to go and say "See first"
Whenever they go out, They never ever call me or ask me.. Now I know this group of christians friends, They never ever called me out or whatever but after I went to their church a few times, They call me out and help me out all those and just kept me wondering if they only wanted to be my friend because they think I'm a christian or want me to be one?
I have a really good friend from primary school and we kept contacting each other although blowing hot and cold, But I'm calling him 9 out of 10 times most of the time and 6 out of the 9 times, He says hes busy or something.. And I feel that he only calls me when he needs something.
My relatives dislikes me, My cousins makes fun of me and disrespects me.. I won't elaborate because this is a serious family problem.
Sometimes I just feel that why am I enduring all these when I can end it all?
I try my best to help people around me but it seems that people just feel that I have a bad attitude or what, I really have no one to confide except sometimes I talk to my dog.. I don't know what people think of me but it seems that they see me a weirdo and a very lonely and sad person.
My only way of releasing the pain is through playing games, sleeping or making fun of people on an un-named forum.. Am I a lifeless freak?
And you KNOW WHAT...?? If you're UNHAPPY with your life, just CHANGE IT! And if you think your attitude is giving you SERIOUS PROBLEM with people around you and it BOTHERS IT ALOT, CHANGE THAT TOO!
But while you're still ALONE most of the time, I say why not you just enjoy it...??
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Originally posted by The man who was death:2 only, one is the noiseology one and another one is basketball one.
will try to go out more -
Dude, u know what? I really pity you man.. Obviously u haven't met a true friend yet. Else you would have never said those words. I am glad and would like to thank God that I have not just one but more then 3 true friends. Those were there when I needed them. They were there thru thick and thin with me. I really mean it.. Especially this gal fren I have, is always by my side. We understand each other better then our gf/bf do us.. Yah.. Thats true friendship..Originally posted by Edgar_Davids:please lah u guys watch too much movies or emotional dramas, remember, in real life, there is no real friend, it's all a matter of self-benefits
mankind has always been selfish, nowadays it's a society of intense competition where people vie for benefits and plot against one another, lots of eerie and nasty vindictive stabbing in the back, there is no real friend, whether in schools or in workplaces
those large crowd sitting together and chatting merrily among themselves u really think they are best of friends..? On the outside, they may be so, but on the inside, their behaviours are the epitome of evil contemplation
And to thread starter, Are you even reading these replies? I am sorry but I don't see you replying or even acknowledging all those good people who have taken sometime to reply n try to help you. I know you must be real sad and all. But if you noticed it, you not replying to them is already a major flaw in your behaviour. So first change it. Change the way you treat people and they will change the way they treat you.
Best will be for you to go and interact with people who have common interests. Like you said you like playing computer games then y not join clans and make more good frens? You will have a common topic to talk about and from that you can go to other topics.
Anyways, you are what you think you are. So why not think that u are a great n friendly guy and start behaving like one! =)
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I think sometimes friends can be a burden.
It's gd to spend time alone sometimes.
You'll realise the person who really needs ur attention, is yourself.
Or your family members. Or maybe your dog.
At least you've a dog to listen to you.
I listen to my dog.
But if you really need friends, do meet up with real people rather than spend time behind the PC (like me
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I think somehow the Internet has pulled everyone closer (virtually) but made people (physically) more friendless.
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one close friend will do.
i like being a loner, than to stick wif bunch of hypocrises who bad-mouth and back-stab from back. -
i think you should quit wallowing in self pity and get a life loh..i also don have much friends..and my bf juz went overseas and im sort of all alone now as im very dependent on him.Originally posted by roflmao123:I have no real friends.. The only ones that I feel that click alot with me is friends I knew from the internet.
I have real friends that we chat on MSN, But Whenever I ask them out to watch movie or anything they just find some excuse not to go and say "See first"
Whenever they go out, They never ever call me or ask me.. Now I know this group of christians friends, They never ever called me out or whatever but after I went to their church a few times, They call me out and help me out all those and just kept me wondering if they only wanted to be my friend because they think I'm a christian or want me to be one?
I have a really good friend from primary school and we kept contacting each other although blowing hot and cold, But I'm calling him 9 out of 10 times most of the time and 6 out of the 9 times, He says hes busy or something.. And I feel that he only calls me when he needs something.
My relatives dislikes me, My cousins makes fun of me and disrespects me.. I won't elaborate because this is a serious family problem.
Sometimes I just feel that why am I enduring all these when I can end it all?
I try my best to help people around me but it seems that people just feel that I have a bad attitude or what, I really have no one to confide except sometimes I talk to my dog.. I don't know what people think of me but it seems that they see me a weirdo and a very lonely and sad person.
My only way of releasing the pain is through playing games, sleeping or making fun of people on an un-named forum.. Am I a lifeless freak?
mayb u can take up some sport or what loh. -
go out and breathe some fresh air.. oso make new frens..
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kewl. you can count me in too. the singapore lonely-loser club.
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Hey we are like living in parallel universeOriginally posted by roflmao123:I have real friends that we chat on MSN, But Whenever I ask them out to watch movie or anything they just find some excuse not to go and say "See first"
Whenever they go out, They never ever call me or ask me.. Now I know this group of christians friends, They never ever called me out or whatever but after I went to their church a few times, They call me out and help me out all those and just kept me wondering if they only wanted to be my friend because they think I'm a christian or want me to be one?
I have a really good friend from primary school and we kept contacting each other although blowing hot and cold, But I'm calling him 9 out of 10 times most of the time and 6 out of the 9 times, He says hes busy or something.. And I feel that he only calls me when he needs something.
My relatives dislikes me, My cousins makes fun of me and disrespects me.. I won't elaborate because this is a serious family problem.
Sometimes I just feel that why am I enduring all these when I can end it all?
I try my best to help people around me but it seems that people just feel that I have a bad attitude or what, I really have no one to confide except sometimes I talk to my dog.. I don't know what people think of me but it seems that they see me a weirdo and a very lonely and sad person.
My only way of releasing the pain is through playing games, sleeping or making fun of people on an un-named forum.. Am I a lifeless freak?
u can look thu my previous posts... our scenario are quite similar & i can UNDERSTD ur agony
I wene thru a long period of self-reflection but ended up being self-critical, & went on a downward spiral of depression & helplessnessOriginally posted by Cold&Cool:Loneliness...
It can be said part of everyone's life. Just like me. I don't know how many true friends do I have. But at least I know I have friends with me in school. However, did you try asking yourself why don't you have friends?
Is it your characters?
What is it that you have done that make you not have friends?
If nothing's wrong, maybe you are just imagining things. Just cheer up and make friends around you.
I rely pondered "Do i hav some serious personality flaw or am i that replusive??"
But apparently not... my frens wld come over & say hi when they see on the street (thou they wld NEVER contact me ), i've no probs making casual frens with classmates, part-time colleague
Now, the only prob is NO ONE ever contacts me.... aft i lost my hp contact list, i'm rely mystified till now most of closer frens didn't even sms me once for months (esp during the festive seasons..
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But life's too short to be wallowing in self-inflicted agony.... maybe it's jus luck or karma? like why are some ppl borne mentally or physically handicapped? is this a punishment? no explanations rite? maybe someone can enlightment me on areas regarding luck & karma etc for rationalizing why bad things happen to nice ppl? -
Loneliness seems to be in all of us, that's why we seek galfriend/boyfriend, friends, having children, having family. the reason of doing all these is to have companion and avoid loneliness. Some people cannot stand loneliness as it will make them go mad.
However, you can always join social activites like Religon studies, mountain climbing, tour to occupy yourself. Just be comfortable and at peace with yourself, and avoid the negative feelings like 'I am lonely so I am a loser'.
You are free alone and you can seek to do what you like. Take up a hobby like origami, reading, etc and you will find yourself not lonely anymore.
Your friend do not want to go out b'cos they are occupy with hobby or they like to be alone. Friend who share the same hobby with you would like to go out with you. Havent you heard of 'birds of the same feather flock together'. So, be more open-minded. -
yeh lor forumer here say correct man! fren not need many can find one true be there for u enought oredi...all frens and socialising..important and can bring u far but is all for show only......i am also a loner and i like to be alone...never will get mad or seow dingdong.....soew also need doc to vertified one u tink i keng can seow oredi meh? seow can excuse everything meh? as for gaming i thumbs up and game online can play wif mani ppl all iver the world veri fun...or join sg forlum outings lor....disturb ppl here good some forumers or ppl fing they can tok over phone very well but write here hean hampthumb leeft right centre from top bottom side by us very fun hahaha
move one and lonliness rules
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lonely boi reporting
well sometimes feel like loser
sometimes not -
schizos? Gollum? My preciousssssssssssssssssOriginally posted by confusedboi:lonely boi reporting
well sometimes feel like loser
sometimes not -
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Eh why u are so sad? Life is not bad for you .. you are healthy and can see, play games... unlike those people suffer from poverty and died of hunger.. you are much better well off..Originally posted by roflmao123:I have no real friends.. The only ones that I feel that click alot with me is friends I knew from the internet.
I have real friends that we chat on MSN, But Whenever I ask them out to watch movie or anything they just find some excuse not to go and say "See first"
Whenever they go out, They never ever call me or ask me.. Now I know this group of christians friends, They never ever called me out or whatever but after I went to their church a few times, They call me out and help me out all those and just kept me wondering if they only wanted to be my friend because they think I'm a christian or want me to be one?
I have a really good friend from primary school and we kept contacting each other although blowing hot and cold, But I'm calling him 9 out of 10 times most of the time and 6 out of the 9 times, He says hes busy or something.. And I feel that he only calls me when he needs something.
My relatives dislikes me, My cousins makes fun of me and disrespects me.. I won't elaborate because this is a serious family problem.
Sometimes I just feel that why am I enduring all these when I can end it all?
I try my best to help people around me but it seems that people just feel that I have a bad attitude or what, I really have no one to confide except sometimes I talk to my dog.. I don't know what people think of me but it seems that they see me a weirdo and a very lonely and sad person.
My only way of releasing the pain is through playing games, sleeping or making fun of people on an un-named forum.. Am I a lifeless freak?
No matter what, be happy!
i think maybe be ur relative and cousins have done some injustice to you bt hey dude, why bother with those people and let them affected your life. Dude, you decide how your life is to be like. Get out to the real world and befriend more.
Maybe for the christian friends, they do not know you well initially and as time goes by, they start to know more about you and start to help you more. -
for me...i have friends , but whenever they jio me out , i always reject with some lame excuses. i know in my heart i wanna go out with them badly , but i dont know why my mouth reject them straight away when they jio me out. i dont know whats happening to me , at times i felt very lonely @ home , i dont like to be a loner. i used to go out with them a lot , almost everday during holidays , but ever since i enter ns , i realise im drifting further n further away from them. i started to be a anti-social person. i dont know when i can return to my usual self. sigh
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Step out of yr home and seek a life-time partner! I know a lot of people will says it depend on fate! But if u nvr take the first step ,how r u going to get closer to the 'fate'? A life time partner is the one that will really appreciate u,love u ,share yr happiness,sadness and care for u! She is the one really going to spend rest of yr life together with u.....As what some people say join forum outing or whatever to broaden yr social circle..I met my partner thru forum outing!Originally posted by roflmao123:I have no real friends.. The only ones that I feel that click alot with me is friends I knew from the internet.
I have real friends that we chat on MSN, But Whenever I ask them out to watch movie or anything they just find some excuse not to go and say "See first"
Whenever they go out, They never ever call me or ask me.. Now I know this group of christians friends, They never ever called me out or whatever but after I went to their church a few times, They call me out and help me out all those and just kept me wondering if they only wanted to be my friend because they think I'm a christian or want me to be one?
I have a really good friend from primary school and we kept contacting each other although blowing hot and cold, But I'm calling him 9 out of 10 times most of the time and 6 out of the 9 times, He says hes busy or something.. And I feel that he only calls me when he needs something.
My relatives dislikes me, My cousins makes fun of me and disrespects me.. I won't elaborate because this is a serious family problem.
Sometimes I just feel that why am I enduring all these when I can end it all?
I try my best to help people around me but it seems that people just feel that I have a bad attitude or what, I really have no one to confide except sometimes I talk to my dog.. I don't know what people think of me but it seems that they see me a weirdo and a very lonely and sad person.
My only way of releasing the pain is through playing games, sleeping or making fun of people on an un-named forum.. Am I a lifeless freak?