stage fright and initiating a tok is a totally different thing...Originally posted by Swordyx:after sometime i learned that...... it is something hard to explain so i would write it down as example for readers to understand......
when u get up the stage u have a stage fear, but y u so scared of, if it was other ppl, do u think the person acted shy would make the stage livlier ( spelling wrong ) or happier? but if ur thick skinned, and just chiong up the stage and say HI loudly, wouldnt it be better? like to girls, most of the sec 1 in the class is like girl sit left boy sit right, and the girl talk to girl boy talk with boy.
i just kept thinking y they so shy, after all we all are classmates saying something like 'hi' or 'ur pretty' is no big deal RIGHT? i just wanna noe that y we have that kind of feeling? any love expert or any pro expert would help me or my classmate overcome this kind of wierd thinking? i am halfway convinced by myself that be BRAVE...... but help me walk the other half way, i would welcome any reply, or any advice, ( even doing meditation )
You don't need to be brave but you need to be confident.Originally posted by Swordyx:after sometime i learned that...... it is something hard to explain so i would write it down as example for readers to understand......
when u get up the stage u have a stage fear, but y u so scared of, if it was other ppl, do u think the person acted shy would make the stage livlier ( spelling wrong ) or happier? but if ur thick skinned, and just chiong up the stage and say HI loudly, wouldnt it be better? like to girls, most of the sec 1 in the class is like girl sit left boy sit right, and the girl talk to girl boy talk with boy.
i just kept thinking y they so shy, after all we all are classmates saying something like 'hi' or 'ur pretty' is no big deal RIGHT? i just wanna noe that y we have that kind of feeling? any love expert or any pro expert would help me or my classmate overcome this kind of wierd thinking? i am halfway convinced by myself that be BRAVE...... but help me walk the other half way, i would welcome any reply, or any advice, ( even doing meditation )
BroOriginally posted by Swordyx:after sometime i learned that...... it is something hard to explain so i would write it down as example for readers to understand......
when u get up the stage u have a stage fear, but y u so scared of, if it was other ppl, do u think the person acted shy would make the stage livlier ( spelling wrong ) or happier? but if ur thick skinned, and just chiong up the stage and say HI loudly, wouldnt it be better? like to girls, most of the sec 1 in the class is like girl sit left boy sit right, and the girl talk to girl boy talk with boy.
i just kept thinking y they so shy, after all we all are classmates saying something like 'hi' or 'ur pretty' is no big deal RIGHT? i just wanna noe that y we have that kind of feeling? any love expert or any pro expert would help me or my classmate overcome this kind of wierd thinking? i am halfway convinced by myself that be BRAVE...... but help me walk the other half way, i would welcome any reply, or any advice, ( even doing meditation )
It's really a mentality thing (block?) in your head. Just like when one says 'hi', there could be a thousand ways to say it... And what he really meant by what he said...Originally posted by Swordyx:after sometime i learned that...... it is something hard to explain so i would write it down as example for readers to understand......
when u get up the stage u have a stage fear, but y u so scared of, if it was other ppl, do u think the person acted shy would make the stage livlier ( spelling wrong ) or happier? but if ur thick skinned, and just chiong up the stage and say HI loudly, wouldnt it be better? like to girls, most of the sec 1 in the class is like girl sit left boy sit right, and the girl talk to girl boy talk with boy.
i just kept thinking y they so shy, after all we all are classmates saying something like 'hi' or 'ur pretty' is no big deal RIGHT? i just wanna noe that y we have that kind of feeling? any love expert or any pro expert would help me or my classmate overcome this kind of wierd thinking? i am halfway convinced by myself that be BRAVE...... but help me walk the other half way, i would welcome any reply, or any advice, ( even doing meditation )