how to stop....
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Ever experienced this..
A group of friends that pressurizing you to treat pizza hut...?
Supposed to be a joke...but it just lasts too long to be considered one..
for example..
they go on lik..
I call myself A in this case
they sae " today A shall treat every1 pizza hut! "
then everyone claim " OK!".
then for some reason every1 walk towards pizza hut e direction..
then i sae " since when i ever sae that??? "
then every1 juz ignore. so they walk to pizza hut e e counter there, and pretend that they want to go in.
it happens many many times....as in. like 2 times since school reopen, which is 4 days of school. gettin quite pissed...
n i walked off once they entered pizza hut......
the 2nd time i said nth n manage to divert the attention somewhere..
ok, it's not so bad lik they wan to cheat my money or something. but how to stop frens when dey playin jokes dat r too.........overboard..
nt that im their only target. but almost every1 get their fair share of teasing and foolin around. except some hu r (dunno y) always immune or the starters of the joke..
n im the one which always kenna by this very often. sometimes once i manage to change e topic n stop their joke. then dey just pretend nth happen...n continue wif e day.
all these teasin occur when eatin lunch outside after sch, eatin in sch all this. most of e time normally dun haf.
n some of my frens always pressurize mi to treat them small small things like fishball...for no reason.
den dey come up wif some shitty reason lik " u juz now watch movie very noisy den must compensate.."...-.-
i bear wif all this.....for so long.
when it gets too bad, then i start to raise my voice abit den my frens sae i attitude prob. lol. nt dat i haf no power amon my group of frens.....but mostly every haf the "follow majority" attitude. so once one guy mouth itchy start sayin dis kind of stuff every1 will follow lik a chain n start sprouting crap....
its somethin irritatin dat dey dun realize...., nt to sae dey do it intentionally..
dey noe i abit richer den avg pple den wann make use of pple lik dis. since every1 lik noe each other for so long, dats y i think dey dun care bein so thickskin n askin for a treat.....
i understand all this since i know some of them haf nort very good BG n some haf financial problems....so maybe if i blanjiah them one meal their burden will be lighten.
ironically, some of them haf more pocket money than me....-.-
sometimes when i feelin abit richer den i gif treat to 1 or 2 frens then the rest wan mi to be fair n gif every1 a treat. if not they complain im bias....
i know postin dis makes mi sound very stupid...lik very gullible. but i know whats goin on, but im obligin to everythin since i can afford to. but im afraid dis will become very annoyin as time pass and pple r takin advantage of it. sometrimes gif pple one inch they wan to take one metre from u......
outrageous...
so any advice? -
Go in with the rest. Order the most expensive stuffs...eat and give an excuse to leave the table (eg. go toilet if the toilet is outside the resturant) and remember to bring your mobile with you (that is if you have one lah) then sms one of them to foot the bill and meet you outside somewhere far away from the resturant.
Or simply just say "can...I treat and you all pay for it"
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Or you can summon the Chaos Ultimate Dragon,Originally posted by Scape_Goat_Token:Ever experienced this..
A group of friends that pressurizing you to treat pizza hut...?
Supposed to be a joke...but it just lasts too long to be considered one..
for example..
they go on lik..
I call myself A in this case
they sae " today A shall treat every1 pizza hut! "
then everyone claim " OK!".
then for some reason every1 walk towards pizza hut e direction..
then i sae " since when i ever sae that??? "
then every1 juz ignore. so they walk to pizza hut e e counter there, and pretend that they want to go in.
it happens many many times....as in. like 2 times since school reopen, which is 4 days of school. gettin quite pissed...
n i walked off once they entered pizza hut......
the 2nd time i said nth n manage to divert the attention somewhere..
ok, it's not so bad lik they wan to cheat my money or something. but how to stop frens when dey playin jokes dat r too.........overboard..
nt that im their only target. but almost every1 get their fair share of teasing and foolin around. except some hu r (dunno y) always immune or the starters of the joke..
n im the one which always kenna by this very often. sometimes once i manage to change e topic n stop their joke. then dey just pretend nth happen...n continue wif e day.
all these teasin occur when eatin lunch outside after sch, eatin in sch all this. most of e time normally dun haf.
n some of my frens always pressurize mi to treat them small small things like fishball...for no reason.
den dey come up wif some shitty reason lik " u juz now watch movie very noisy den must compensate.."...-.-
i bear wif all this.....for so long.
when it gets too bad, then i start to raise my voice abit den my frens sae i attitude prob. lol. nt dat i haf no power amon my group of frens.....but mostly every haf the "follow majority" attitude. so once one guy mouth itchy start sayin dis kind of stuff every1 will follow lik a chain n start sprouting crap....
its somethin irritatin dat dey dun realize...., nt to sae dey do it intentionally..
dey noe i abit richer den avg pple den wann make use of pple lik dis. since every1 lik noe each other for so long, dats y i think dey dun care bein so thickskin n askin for a treat.....
i understand all this since i know some of them haf nort very good BG n some haf financial problems....so maybe if i blanjiah them one meal their burden will be lighten.
ironically, some of them haf more pocket money than me....-.-
sometimes when i feelin abit richer den i gif treat to 1 or 2 frens then the rest wan mi to be fair n gif every1 a treat. if not they complain im bias....
i know postin dis makes mi sound very stupid...lik very gullible. but i know whats goin on, but im obligin to everythin since i can afford to. but im afraid dis will become very annoyin as time pass and pple r takin advantage of it. sometrimes gif pple one inch they wan to take one metre from u......
outrageous...
so any advice?
Pay 1000 life to uses its effect to destroy both field and hands,
FOr each card deal 300 damage to the opponent's life points.
With Priorty u get to use the effect first. hahaahaha...
Oops Got carried away.... -
say "f u" and den laugh
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If it's just a joke, it's just a joke.Originally posted by Scape_Goat_Token:Ever experienced this..
A group of friends that pressurizing you to treat pizza hut...?
Supposed to be a joke...but it just lasts too long to be considered one..
for example..
they go on lik..
I call myself A in this case
they sae " today A shall treat every1 pizza hut! "
then everyone claim " OK!".
then for some reason every1 walk towards pizza hut e direction..
then i sae " since when i ever sae that??? "
then every1 juz ignore. so they walk to pizza hut e e counter there, and pretend that they want to go in.
it happens many many times....as in. like 2 times since school reopen, which is 4 days of school. gettin quite pissed...
n i walked off once they entered pizza hut......
the 2nd time i said nth n manage to divert the attention somewhere..
ok, it's not so bad lik they wan to cheat my money or something. but how to stop frens when dey playin jokes dat r too.........overboard..
nt that im their only target. but almost every1 get their fair share of teasing and foolin around. except some hu r (dunno y) always immune or the starters of the joke..
n im the one which always kenna by this very often. sometimes once i manage to change e topic n stop their joke. then dey just pretend nth happen...n continue wif e day.
all these teasin occur when eatin lunch outside after sch, eatin in sch all this. most of e time normally dun haf.
n some of my frens always pressurize mi to treat them small small things like fishball...for no reason.
den dey come up wif some shitty reason lik " u juz now watch movie very noisy den must compensate.."...-.-
i bear wif all this.....for so long.
when it gets too bad, then i start to raise my voice abit den my frens sae i attitude prob. lol. nt dat i haf no power amon my group of frens.....but mostly every haf the "follow majority" attitude. so once one guy mouth itchy start sayin dis kind of stuff every1 will follow lik a chain n start sprouting crap....
its somethin irritatin dat dey dun realize...., nt to sae dey do it intentionally..
dey noe i abit richer den avg pple den wann make use of pple lik dis. since every1 lik noe each other for so long, dats y i think dey dun care bein so thickskin n askin for a treat.....
i understand all this since i know some of them haf nort very good BG n some haf financial problems....so maybe if i blanjiah them one meal their burden will be lighten.
ironically, some of them haf more pocket money than me....-.-
sometimes when i feelin abit richer den i gif treat to 1 or 2 frens then the rest wan mi to be fair n gif every1 a treat. if not they complain im bias....
i know postin dis makes mi sound very stupid...lik very gullible. but i know whats goin on, but im obligin to everythin since i can afford to. but im afraid dis will become very annoyin as time pass and pple r takin advantage of it. sometrimes gif pple one inch they wan to take one metre from u......
outrageous...
so any advice?
If you can't be bother, nobody else really can.... -
*yawns*
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Try to pick on those immune ones or starters of joke, jokingly. See how they like it.
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Leave them.. They're either trying to force you out of the group or simply pick on you
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wow..your language suggests that you are still young..
anyway, maybe they are young too, and thinks that you have $$ to spare.
Get true friends, and not those who only ask you to spend on them!
Just says you have very little pocket money, and see who stays with you -
just say " omg tumy pain, need go toilet" then take the chance to run away
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Who ask you to tell everybody that you stay in private house?
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Lousy lah. I acivate Trap card Divine Punishment and negate the effect of your chaos emperor dragon. After that, I summon Chaos Soldier and whack you for 3000 Life points.Originally posted by Sekundes:Or you can summon the Chaos Ultimate Dragon,
Pay 1000 life to uses its effect to destroy both field and hands,
FOr each card deal 300 damage to the opponent's life points.
With Priorty u get to use the effect first. hahaahaha...
Oops Got carried away.... -
Just quit hanging out with them?
You won't die one lah. They aren't even friends to begin with if they keep pissing you off. Why make your life so miserable because of some childish ginnas? Haha. -
after reading the story of yours...i believe that they are hinting you...
though they treat it like a joke, but for ur case, you didn't treat it like one, then just tell them that then...
if they are richer then you...then go ahead...tell them...you can treat them...(those poorer the you onlyS) those richer then you, just tell them straight in the face...if they don't agree...say u bias...then forget about them being your frenz...they just treat you to be like atm...
as such...if everytime they do this kind of 'joke' to you...over time, when u can't stand it. then u treat them, they will do the same trick to make u treat them over and over again...so becareful about that...
if you want to hang out with them, you can tell them that you will treat them, but not those that is so expensive like the pizza hut...treating pizza hut..obviously they are treating you like an ATM!!...if they just want you to treat them at least once, tell them that they need to have a reason to get you to treat them, not treating them lunch or dinner without any reason...
if you must treat them, go somewhere cheaper...if they insist on pizza hut...they don't have ur interest at heart, didn't think in terms of ur shoes...then you might as well go and find another group of friends to hang out with...
friends need to have mutal understanding..at least...but your friends doesn't have any to begin with...
if the next time it happens to you again..just play along with them lor..go into pizza hut...tell them to take a sit and order...get the richest fren of urs to place order, get him to call the waiter or waitress over there, so as such they will know who to go to to take orders...meanwhile you say excuse me, you have to go to the washroom, (if you know how long they take to order, then wait til they order finish then you come out) and order a share for yourself, and say "Separate Bill Please!!"
do NoT make an excuse and go off home in pizza hut, that will make you look bad...or if you want, then go into pizza hut, when ordering you just immediately tell them that go dutch..pay for your own in other words...then if they still want to eat...then carry on...giving the reason, they like to assume things...and you don't...simple and clear cut...i does that to my friends too...
if they ask you why separate bill, then you just tell them straight in the face, did i agree to treat you, no right, so you guys for your own food...voice it out...
they just not sure the limit to joking...so get the message clear to them that you can take jokes but not too much... -
i got 2 buddies that we always go out.. so there's this guy who's richer den us so we always joke wif him to pay for us or treat us to bah blah.. but of cos when bill comes we pay our own or if reali no money ask him pay first den we pay him back some other time.. he not offended wif us.. heng sia.. lol.. but bloody hell when got gals ard he sure treat the gals 1..
he oso gt treat us or help us pay part of it when he's in gd mood or special occasions like bdae.. -
Eee... How you whack me ? My chaos Dragon also 3000 attack,Originally posted by shade343:Lousy lah. I acivate Trap card Divine Punishment and negate the effect of your chaos emperor dragon. After that, I summon Chaos Soldier and whack you for 3000 Life points.
When u summon chaos Soldier I open the trap card, Bottomless trap hole.
Out of game your chaos. Since you never take priorty.
No effect is used
Then I summon my chaos soldier and go into battle phrase and whack you 6k damage.
Then I during 2nd Main pHrase I activate the effect of Chaos Ultimate Dragon again. wait can right ? haha...
This is fun haha.... -
Wow, kuku, u play Yu-Gi-Oh! here... my hand got full set of Exodia horz... u all all die..Originally posted by Sekundes:Eee... How you whack me ? My chaos Dragon also 3000 attack,
When u summon chaos Soldier I open the trap card, Bottomless trap hole.
Out of game your chaos. Since you never take priorty.
No effect is used
Then I summon my chaos soldier and go into battle phrase and whack you 6k damage.
Then I during 2nd Main pHrase I activate the effect of Chaos Ultimate Dragon again. wait can right ? haha...
This is fun haha.... -
Divine Punishment not only negates the effect but destroy the monster as well.Originally posted by Sekundes:Eee... How you whack me ? My chaos Dragon also 3000 attack,
When u summon chaos Soldier I open the trap card, Bottomless trap hole.
Out of game your chaos. Since you never take priorty.
No effect is used
Then I summon my chaos soldier and go into battle phrase and whack you 6k damage.
Then I during 2nd Main pHrase I activate the effect of Chaos Ultimate Dragon again. wait can right ? haha...
This is fun haha....
You activate Bottomless trap hole I activate Solemn Judgement and chain lor. -
OoOriginally posted by shade343:Divine Punishment not only negates the effect but destroy the monster as well.
You activate Bottomless trap hole I activate Solemn Judgement and chain lor.
I so long nv play le... diaoz..
Nvm u chain solemn i also chain, if not wrong only 1 solemn per deck ? -
Aiya, u play exodia set, use 2 morphing jar and 1 cards destruction let u cry...Originally posted by Ayukat:Wow, kuku, u play Yu-Gi-Oh! here... my hand got full set of Exodia horz... u all all die..
hahaha
we very gay le..
Playing Yu gi oh here. diaoz.. -
Tell them either they stop or keep a distance with them. If they are after your money then its meaningless to be friends with them. Be smart in choosing friends..
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next time dun bring money or bring very little money n when they ask u to blanjah, u tell them u no money
they die die wanna check let them check lor. -
Next time dun bring money ask them to treat u
