I really wonder.........

• RSM

  10 Jan 06, 21:54

  .........why in the 21st century some people still can't accept or feeling uneasy towards the issue of guys going for an older woman for a relationship.
• SingaporeMacross

  10 Jan 06, 21:56

  well, you dont expect mindsets to change within 5 years right?
• RSM

  10 Jan 06, 21:58

  but... in the 21st century, such thing are damn normal right? Personally I have a relationship with a lady 2.5 years older than me.
• SingaporeMacross

  10 Jan 06, 22:01

  my friend's sister's husband is 10 years older than her!
• eon

  10 Jan 06, 22:02

  Catherine Zeta Jones n that old geezer
• masteryap

  10 Jan 06, 22:04

  the problem is not lies on the age but the
  love between them......
• RSM

  10 Jan 06, 22:05

  Originally posted by SingaporeMacross:

  my friend's sister's husband is 10 years older than her!

  what i mean is the girl older than the guy not the guy older than the girl
• klishcia

  11 Jan 06, 00:18

  Well, if the age gap difference is only 1-3 yrs, can be accepted. If too much, may look like mama bring her son out, you know?
• drx

  11 Jan 06, 00:27

  Originally posted by RSM:

  .........why in the 21st century some people still can't accept or feeling uneasy towards the issue of guys going for an older woman for a relationship.

  humm who are this people ?
  
• mystiv

  11 Jan 06, 00:31

  Originally posted by klishcia:

  Well, if the age gap difference is only 1-3 yrs, can be accepted. If too much, may look like mama bring her son out, you know?

  then why papa bring his daughter out can?
• Devil1976

  11 Jan 06, 11:10

  Originally posted by mystiv:

  then why papa bring his daughter out can?

  
• FBI

  11 Jan 06, 11:11

  a few years older can but like ard 10 years i don think it's acceptable.
• rainee

  11 Jan 06, 11:15

  There are always people who are against certain things in life...
  
  Do what you think is right, and dun listen to them...
  
  We can never shut everyone's mouth, the best is to just ignore them...
• FBI

  11 Jan 06, 11:17

  seriously i date a year older sister b4. ANd she don mind at all.
• FeowFeow

  11 Jan 06, 11:35

  2.5 years older than you is quite acceptable what! It's Not like, you're 20 & she's 59 (which are becoming more common in countries like Australia).
  
  If it's true love, it's true love. If you wanna be with her, & vice versa, why should you let people who don't know a damn thing about your love, stop you? : )
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Originally posted by RSM:

  but... in the 21st century, such thing are damn normal right? Personally I have a relationship with a lady 2.5 years older than me.

• dragg

  11 Jan 06, 11:39

  i can accept.
  
  but what is the range you are talking about?
• changb57

  11 Jan 06, 11:56

  Originally posted by RSM:

  but... in the 21st century, such thing are damn normal right? Personally I have a relationship with a lady 2.5 years older than me.

  I have a guy friend who married a woman who is 9 yrs older.....
  
  and they are still as loving...this woman is once a divorce and with a son who is 12 yrs old....what u say???
• Yunhaier

  11 Jan 06, 19:58

  Originally posted by RSM:

  .........why in the 21st century some people still can't accept or feeling uneasy towards the issue of guys going for an older woman for a relationship.

  Are you bothered personally by this issue or are you bothered about what they think of your relationship?
  
  Interestingly, the latter doesn't matter as much as the former.
  
  Cheers
• dragg

  11 Jan 06, 20:51

  Originally posted by changb57:

  I have a guy friend who married a woman who is 9 yrs older.....
  
  and they are still as loving...this woman is once a divorce and with a son who is 12 yrs old....what u say???

  i personally think that below within 10 yrs range is ok.