Hmm, it's hard to ask you not to stop thinking or think of other stuff in the case. Even though you tried to remain ignorant but in your heart you still dying to know everything right?Originally posted by binarynwitz:I realised i forgot to mention it in my post. I'll just reply it here to gain a post count.
Maybe someone here could give some advice as to what i should do, to improve my temper etc.
agreed.trust is v impt in the r/s.u gotta trust ur gf.at least she doesn't flirt wif others in front of ya..Originally posted by NekoRin:Hmm, it's hard to ask you not to stop thinking or think of other stuff in the case. Even though you tried to remain ignorant but in your heart you still dying to know everything right?
One advise I suggest is to learn to understand your girlfriend, in her shoes. Think of how it feels when someone who loves you keeps probing you on everything, keeping tabs on your every movement. Go washroom need to report like it's in the army. It doesn't feel good and feels there is a lack of trust right?
In the beginning it will be hard, but it's a key step in building a good relationship. Trust is important. No one will entrust their hearts and lives to a person who doesn't trust them. So, think more before flaring up. Harsh words don't need effort to throw out but it does takes alot of effort to re-piece everything you both have build once the damage is done. There are millions of ways to show her that you care without using provocative words and anger to convey your love to her.![]()
You are 15? How long have you been together with your gf?Originally posted by binarynwitz:I know i'm a very possessive and short-tempered guy, but i tried to control myself with regards to my girlfriend, but sometimes, i really cannot control myself.
Incident:
We were eating together in Macdonalds when my girlfriend were talking to this other guy (who used to fancy her) about that guy's crush, in front of me. The problem is, she was having a headache before, and wasn't even responsive to me. Yet she talked to him like nothing happened to her. Then she didn't even tell me who that guy likes. I don't really care who he likes, but the point is, she refuses to tell me. We made a promise not to keep anything from one another. If she cannot tell me, at least don't wave it in front of me and yet keep me out of reach.
The problem is, she have told me far more personal and darker things than this stupid little thing in the past. I'm starting to have doubts. I know she still loves me and i really love her, but i'm starting to have doubts about how she really feels..
And i know i sound childish and a MCP. So no need for that.
that's young!Originally posted by Devil1976:You are 15? How long have you been together with your gf?
Because she is respecting that person's privacy. What's wrong with that?????Originally posted by binarynwitz:I know i'm a very possessive and short-tempered guy, but i tried to control myself with regards to my girlfriend, but sometimes, i really cannot control myself.
Incident:
We were eating together in Macdonalds when my girlfriend were talking to this other guy (who used to fancy her) about that guy's crush, in front of me. The problem is, she was having a headache before, and wasn't even responsive to me. Yet she talked to him like nothing happened to her. Then she didn't even tell me who that guy likes. I don't really care who he likes, but the point is, she refuses to tell me. We made a promise not to keep anything from one another. If she cannot tell me, at least don't wave it in front of me and yet keep me out of reach.
The problem is, she have told me far more personal and darker things than this stupid little thing in the past. I'm starting to have doubts. I know she still loves me and i really love her, but i'm starting to have doubts about how she really feels..
And i know i sound childish and a MCP. So no need for that.
is normal and try not to think too much.Originally posted by binarynwitz:I know i'm a very possessive and short-tempered guy, but i tried to control myself with regards to my girlfriend, but sometimes, i really cannot control myself.
Incident:
We were eating together in Macdonalds when my girlfriend were talking to this other guy (who used to fancy her) about that guy's crush, in front of me. The problem is, she was having a headache before, and wasn't even responsive to me. Yet she talked to him like nothing happened to her. Then she didn't even tell me who that guy likes. I don't really care who he likes, but the point is, she refuses to tell me. We made a promise not to keep anything from one another. If she cannot tell me, at least don't wave it in front of me and yet keep me out of reach.
The problem is, she have told me far more personal and darker things than this stupid little thing in the past. I'm starting to have doubts. I know she still loves me and i really love her, but i'm starting to have doubts about how she really feels..
And i know i sound childish and a MCP. So no need for that.
A year.Originally posted by Devil1976:You are 15? How long have you been together with your gf?
Originally posted by binarynwitz:I know i'm a very possessive and short-tempered guy, but i tried to control myself with regards to my girlfriend, but sometimes, i really cannot control myself.
Incident:
We were eating together in Macdonalds when my girlfriend were talking to this other guy (who used to fancy her) about that guy's crush, in front of me. The problem is, she was having a headache before, and wasn't even responsive to me. Yet she talked to him like nothing happened to her. Then she didn't even tell me who that guy likes. I don't really care who he likes, but the point is, she refuses to tell me. We made a promise not to keep anything from one another. If she cannot tell me, at least don't wave it in front of me and yet keep me out of reach.
The problem is, she have told me far more personal and darker things than this stupid little thing in the past. I'm starting to have doubts. I know she still loves me and i really love her, but i'm starting to have doubts about how she really feels..
And i know i sound childish and a MCP. So no need for that.
Originally posted by binarynwitz:A year.
And thanks, everyone. I pretty much figured out what you guys said on my own, being a counsellor myself. Thanks to all who responded.
some sort of pig.Originally posted by ETboy:btw wads a MCP ?
Sorry, but somehow I failed to see much arrogance in that statement he made. Being a 'counsellor' has got not much to do with age...Originally posted by megatron:gee,,u not only possessive n control freak..u arrogant as well..n so young sum more.."COUNSELLOR"...
Male Chauvinist Pig (Da Nan Ren Zhu Yi)Originally posted by ETboy:btw wads a MCP ?