why guys like to bully gals? not gentlemanly at all..!
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why now its so hard to spot a gentleman amongst all the guys. take my school for example, its always the guys who cut queues. they just cut in and pretend to talk to their frens and not caring about e pple behind. everytime when theres an assignment they will sabotage the girls. i know a girl who's not physically good loooking and she ALWAYS never fails to get teased repeatedly by mean guys. i dont know her too well but i can see she's putting up a frown everyday because of these ill brats. i can say almost 50% of the guys i 'know' are jerks and useless. the other half are a mix of either not so handsome, nerdy type which doesnt really suit me. all the supposedly good looking ones have bad character!
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if u choose to mix with the wrong crowd and you only see all the wrong behavior,how can anyone help you since no matter what is said,u will only see guys as jerks and will never notice those gentlemen.
In other words,you are asking for it yourself so dun blame guys. -
sounds like a rant thread......Originally posted by xinyi!:why now its so hard to spot a gentleman amongst all the guys. take my school for example, its always the guys who cut queues. they just cut in and pretend to talk to their frens and not caring about e pple behind. everytime when theres an assignment they will sabotage the girls. i know a girl who's not physically good loooking and she ALWAYS never fails to get teased repeatedly by mean guys. i dont know her too well but i can see she's putting up a frown everyday because of these ill brats. i can say almost 50% of the guys i 'know' are jerks and useless. the other half are a mix of either not so handsome, nerdy type which doesnt really suit me. all the supposedly good looking ones have bad character!
To answer your topic question I have a few answers (personal opinons, no offense to the guys. I'm a guy too) in mind.
1) To attract attention
2) To boost their ego as they cannot out-perform others in any other way
3) To prove they are 'superior'
4) Falling in law of nature, Stronger people bully them they bully the weaker
hmm your idea of a gentleman must have the follow qualities I suppose:
1) handsome
2) intelligent but not nerd type
3) mustn't have any kind of behaviour that you coined 'bad'
... and probably many others.....
Well, do remember that if you want to find a gentleman... that gentleman might be also find a lady to suit him
and a lady do analyse and rephrases what she wants to convey in a gentle manner -
maybe my standards are too high. i cant seem to bring myself to 'like' any guy deep enuf since my last serious relationship. i have been seeing girls for some time but its not really counted although we were rather close. this has been my history and ive put that aside. i wanted to start anew this yr and get a guy i can trust
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its fated.
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first, in order to get a guy, u need to make some friends and please, put urself in the correct group of friends. wrong company will get u nowhere.Originally posted by xinyi!:maybe my standards are too high. i cant seem to bring myself to 'like' any guy deep enuf since my last serious relationship. i have been seeing girls for some time but its not really counted although we were rather close. this has been my history and ive put that aside. i wanted to start anew this yr and get a guy i can trust
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Consider this, gals bullying guys, doesn't seem right either.
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xinyi!, i m afraid u are doomed to lead a single life u carry on with the expectations. U are looking for the perfect gentleman. Let me tell ya, there is no such thing. The jerks and brats are the real gentleman because they know how to survive in the environment . If lead in the right way, they will progress.
A nerd can survive too, but think again, a nerd is a nerd. At least he has money he can still find a wife. beautiful too....Both types can find women no problem. As long the uglier ones have cash. But for women, only beauty matters most for these men to choose them...not money or cash...
Likewise, a gentleman will look for a lady. This probably where the bad news comes in. There are lots of beautiful ladies around for him to choose but there is only a few gentlemen (according to your own version) to choose from for u. The competition is going to be intense. The most good looking suave, macho guys will also be looking for the most attractive, sexy, feminine women. Do u have what it takes to even compete? The well off guys can choose and dream of a beautiful damsel. Can u? -
All men are JErks and Brats in One basic way:
They go for the most beautiful women.
Eat that.No choice but u have to digest it. -
Jus base on your failed realationship hence u starts to hate guys.Originally posted by xinyi!:maybe my standards are too high. i cant seem to bring myself to 'like' any guy deep enuf since my last serious relationship. i have been seeing girls for some time but its not really counted although we were rather close. this has been my history and ive put that aside. i wanted to start anew this yr and get a guy i can trust
I thought u considering that Gu niang dude?
Not all guys are gentleman, jus some but wats the point? THe main thing is he must have good personalities.
If a guy don have a liking for u, they don give a shi t to u in anythng.
Those guys don like u at all so don expect them to give u in.
Cutting q shows how childish they are.
Don expect 2 much of your dream dude, u must think whether he will like u or not.
U are having 2 high expectations.
U can find more when u go into University.
Concentrate on yours studies. -
u know wad? u r one of those local girls which i strongly detest, honestly. but wad the heck? it's u who is gonna find a guy in the end. i found my gal.Originally posted by xinyi!:why now its so hard to spot a gentleman amongst all the guys. take my school for example, its always the guys who cut queues. they just cut in and pretend to talk to their frens and not caring about e pple behind. everytime when theres an assignment they will sabotage the girls. i know a girl who's not physically good loooking and she ALWAYS never fails to get teased repeatedly by mean guys. i dont know her too well but i can see she's putting up a frown everyday because of these ill brats. i can say almost 50% of the guys i 'know' are jerks and useless. the other half are a mix of either not so handsome, nerdy type which doesnt really suit me. all the supposedly good looking ones have bad character!
and if u continue to be like this. then die single.
my apologies for being blunt. it's just the way i am. -
found your gal in a online way eh.Originally posted by The Emperor:u know wad? u r one of those local girls which i strongly detest, honestly. but wad the heck? it's u who is gonna find a guy in the end. i found my gal. and if u continue to be like this. then die single.
my apologies for being blunt. it's just the way i am.
THat's total bs. -
Means to get into relationship varies.
So let's be open about it.
Cheers -
lols, seriously speaking.
u kinda hate guys alot, dont you.
gentleman might hang around with those childish guys ya know...
what is ur defination of gentleman btw...
if u find the one who is handsome not nerdy and u did stead with him
and find out his personality sucks, whats the use.
its better to find one who is average and with better/good personality...
looks does matter but not all...
personality is the one which does the job when ur steading and not the looks. -
she hate guys because of a previous failed relationship.Originally posted by Eclipzer:lols, seriously speaking.
u kinda hate guys alot, dont you.
gentleman might hang around with those childish guys ya know...
what is ur defination of gentleman btw...
if u find the one who is handsome not nerdy and u did stead with him
and find out his personality sucks, whats the use.
its better to find one who is average and with better/good personality...
looks does matter but not all...
personality is the one which does the job when ur steading and not the looks.
Yeap, she can even consider that gu niang guy becuase he have good dressing taste and watsoever.
Are u sure u really in Jc or are u a sec 1 kid ard.
If u are not gentle enough don expect a gentleman especially that u opften whines alot when u have PMS -
i've nothing against u. so pls. back off.Originally posted by FBI:found your gal in a online way eh.
THat's total bs. -
u knew u did so Be a man and admit it.Originally posted by The Emperor:i've nothing against u. so pls. back off.
I feel disapointed for R seriously
Be a man! -
admit wad? wad did i do to stir ur fuss man? list it out. all of them. thanks a lot.Originally posted by FBI:u knew u did so Be a man and admit it.
I feel disapointed for R seriously
Be a man! -
People.
Lets not make her dislike for some guys become 'hate' to all guys.
In the first place. She don't hate guys.
Let's be objective yeah?
Cheers -
well.. she makes it sounds so..Originally posted by M©+square:People.
Lets not make her dislike for some guys become 'hate' to all guys.
In the first place. She don't hate guys.
Let's be objective yeah?
Cheers
anyway... good to voice out sometimes. it cures oneself. -
not necessary to do it here since it's Xinyi's whining topic.Originally posted by The Emperor:admit wad? wad did i do to stir ur fuss man? list it out. all of them. thanks a lot.
I don need to list it out, u know it better then me.
Last night.
U said u hate her this kind of gal and u found your gal on bike, but it's jus an online fantasy. Wait till u get one "real" gal then u correct Xinyi if not..
U are correcting yourself too. -
Yea, she did sound harsh in her first post.Originally posted by The Emperor:well.. she makes it sounds so..
anyway... good to voice out sometimes. it cures oneself.
But she redeemed herself in the second.
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FBI has already gone too far. How me and Emperor met has nothing to do at all with this topic. But he has to go and dig it out and make a fuss abt it.
Do you know how "real" my r/s with him is? After all you are not in this with us. How can you say it is bs when you dunno anything abt it? Pls shut up and stop making a fool out of yourself by complaining abt sth you dunno anything abt. -
i can sense something going on.
After all go ahead with the words of yours
It's is very "real" i can say
If there's nth u don need to b that angry abt i think.
It will only shows something when u become angry
U have a very nicce bf i can say -
hai
What am to do....
Cheers