why guys like to bully gals? not gentlemanly at all..!

• ne0matrix

  14 Jan 06, 23:21

  Wake up... you can't have the best of both worlds.
• larrenV2.003

  14 Jan 06, 23:24

  Me Me Me i'm very trusted....
• birdtalk

  15 Jan 06, 02:50

  i am a "nice" guy
• .Dark.Yuki.

  15 Jan 06, 02:53

  Nice Guys are hard to find...If there's many nice guys around would you be complaining?? Sometimes you should take a closer look at the people around you they can be nice people but you just don't see their nice side, if you they really are rotten then...oh well...at least you tried
  
  ps. SGforums have many nice guys too *hint*hint
• epImetheus

  15 Jan 06, 03:46

  Originally posted by .Dark.Yuki.:

  ps. SGforums have many nice guys too *hint*hint

  
  
• Komon

  15 Jan 06, 10:12

  Aiya! How old is her first?
• ShrodingersCat

  15 Jan 06, 10:34

  Eww. I'll die before I admit I'm being 'bullied' by someone.. unless you are in primary school lah.. or you have a super introverted, sheltered life, come on, don't act cute and if its really serious, it's time anyone learn to stand up for themselves. -shivers-
  
  It's one thing to say guys are inconsiderate. Yeah, guys in secondary school/JC are sometimes still quite immature. I remember being teased all the time - including one nice unforgettableone from my Sec 3 classmate asking me if I ever considered plastic surgery or am I going to go through life looking like this.. and that's on the first day of school in his class. But being inconsiderate doesn't mean they are 'bullying' you - nah... they just dont think you are important enough for them to make concessions to inconvenience themselves.
  
  Sure, some people never develop the thick skin required to counter remarks, and handle inconsiderate behaviour. But I've realised that when guys know you are sensible, have a sense of humour, can handle them and genuinely DO like them as friends - they stop being inconsiderate. So whining doesn't help.
  
• nanren4ever

  15 Jan 06, 12:37

  what age u in?
  
  If u are younger than 12 and in primary school, then of course the boys will be damn childish lor. Because they not yet puberty, and thinking is of a little kid.
  
  If u are in lower sec now, then its still normal because boys, even though got puberty, and supposed to be more mature, still cannot think properly.
  
  If u are in upper sec or JC/Poly/ITE/CI, and the class guys are like that, then congrats. U are in a school where the boys WILL never grow up.
• Simple_Bear

  15 Jan 06, 20:10

  If all men are gentlemen, then wat is the defination of gentlemen then?...
  
  
• poasdft

  15 Jan 06, 23:29

  Even the grown up men thinking are like little kids. Women have to liv with it just like how men live with women's habits like love for shopping , matrial things
• poasdft

  15 Jan 06, 23:31

  Originally posted by nanren4ever:

  what age u in?
  
  If u are younger than 12 and in primary school, then of course the boys will be damn childish lor. Because they not yet puberty, and thinking is of a little kid.
  
  If u are in lower sec now, then its still normal because boys, even though got puberty, and supposed to be more mature, still cannot think properly.
  
  If u are in upper sec or JC/Poly/ITE/CI, and the class guys are like that, then congrats. U are in a school where the boys WILL never grow up.

  when since Poly/ITE/JC are mature? Go into army and ORD after also not yet mature.....In fact gets worst..
• Devil1976

  16 Jan 06, 00:57

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  Did you check on her string of threads?
  Similiar complaints and quite a long list.
  But it's growing phrase...anyway.
  
  Cheers

  Yup. Age related growth.