is lesbianism acceptable generally on an asians' pov?
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i consider myself someone who experienced it as i was an ex-lesbian. i still do have the occasional hots for girls sometimes but i start to get jealous when i see girls who are better than i am. i have dated a girl way back in 2001 and the relationship has cooled down a lot since we were both busy with our own stuff.. we have had close contact and done many sweet and memorable things together but i plan to keep this a secret and not let my parents know about this. i still meet up with this girl sometimes but we were no longer officially dating.
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actually, no,people may see it as very weired... but new age people may like it.. or even bisexual..
if u happy can liao, y bother wat other think?
u also not say need the others tat gv u look to eat right? -
do what you like with your life. you only have one, and if you dont do it the way you want it to be, you will regret, and it'll be too late
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Do you mean you got turned on by girls? As in sexually?
I believe that if you wish for something, and as long as it is not against any rules, heck care with what others are kpkb-ing abt, and go ahead with what you have always wanted to do
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i have no objection as long as you keep away from my girlfriend
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try to stick to heterosexual relationships if you can.
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I think her case is more like bi sexualism...seems like she prefers both girls and guys at the same time
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Why get bothered by it? After all you said you're an 'EX'- lesbian. It's not as if you are one right now... You don't have to tell anybody else about your past
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Originally posted by xinyi!:i consider myself someone who experienced it as i was an ex-lesbian. i still do have the occasional hots for girls sometimes but i start to get jealous when i see girls who are better than i am. i have dated a girl way back in 2001 and the relationship has cooled down a lot since we were both busy with our own stuff.. we have had close contact and done many sweet and memorable things together but i plan to keep this a secret and not let my parents know about this. i still meet up with this girl sometimes but we were no longer officially dating.
I have to specifically study, individually, such cases to make a more accurate judgement.
However, in a general view of Lesbianism, it doesn't really matter to me. It is just the astrological influence/impact that comes with Lesbianism, for almost all the time, a Gay person's Love life is afflicted astrologically.
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its juz a childish act...
most juz decide to head back the normal way...
so dun waste time...
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First of all, do let me intro some catagory of lesbian to you.Originally posted by xinyi!:i consider myself someone who experienced it as i was an ex-lesbian. i still do have the occasional hots for girls sometimes but i start to get jealous when i see girls who are better than i am. i have dated a girl way back in 2001 and the relationship has cooled down a lot since we were both busy with our own stuff.. we have had close contact and done many sweet and memorable things together but i plan to keep this a secret and not let my parents know about this. i still meet up with this girl sometimes but we were no longer officially dating.
1) Those who got hurt by bf(s) and decide to turn les.
These are the catagory that has the highest chance of turning back straight cause simple to say, what they experiece in straight r/s will have a fair chance of experiencing it in the homosexual r/s. When it comes to feelings, it's the same. No such things as girls understand girls better thus they can withold the r/s better.
2) Those who are born les. (ok...I know this might lead to some argumentative comments from some)
These people, no matter how much they hate to be les, there's no way for them to have likings for guys unless of course they are determine enough to lie to themselves that they like their guy partner.
3) Those who are curious.
These people are often reffered as confused and undecisive or are more open to experiments. On nicer terms, they are explorer.
There are many other more but ultimately all I can tell you is, just be yourself and be true to your own heart. It doesn't matter if you are les or straight. -
You mean you cannot even make up your mind? I stopped reading at this sentence.Originally posted by xinyi!:i was an ex-lesbian. -
fuc.k the free world! Its ok to me!