I know you will not listern to what I am going to say but just hope you can clear your head first of the love clouds floating around.Originally posted by SnowGiant:Hi guys, previously I posted before, and thanks for all the help and advises, I given up previously due to a lack of courage, and back here asking for help from you all once again.
I recently got to know this girl from a social gathering of friends, and i was playfully hitting on her and having fun.
So as time goes by we exchanged numbers and chatted regularly online and in sms form.. so this day I was just jokingly ask if she had any female friends to tide me over for Chinese New Year.. and if they needed a tall guy to help out too, surprisingly, she said she would help me on this odd request.
Soon after I thought she might just brush it off and I dismissed it.
Next day she msged me and asked how is it going to be.. and I felt funny.. so i went on knowing more about her and she begun to share with me a lot of stuffs and I confided in her things of mine also.
The more things I learnt from her, i way I feel about her starts to grow also.. up to now we still maintained the nightly msgs and calls to check on each other. Its like we both got chemistry..
But Im still unsure.. how many girls will willingly help a guy and pose as a gf within 3 months of knowing each other..
and its like she is like ... 2 - 3 years older then me.. told me she had 4 bfs in the past who were all jerks (how come all girls say that sia) and she is quite pretty. :\
But I like her though.
Thing is.. should I or should I not go for her? Despite having the age gap?
Don't really wanna make a wrong choice also :\
PS: we going out soon.. geez.. for once I dunno wat to do..
1. posing as a bf doesn't means that she'll like u in the end.Originally posted by SnowGiant:Hi guys, previously I posted before, and thanks for all the help and advises, I given up previously due to a lack of courage, and back here asking for help from you all once again.
I recently got to know this girl from a social gathering of friends, and i was playfully hitting on her and having fun.
So as time goes by we exchanged numbers and chatted regularly online and in sms form.. so this day I was just jokingly ask if she had any female friends to tide me over for Chinese New Year.. and if they needed a tall guy to help out too, surprisingly, she said she would help me on this odd request.
Soon after I thought she might just brush it off and I dismissed it.
Next day she msged me and asked how is it going to be.. and I felt funny.. so i went on knowing more about her and she begun to share with me a lot of stuffs and I confided in her things of mine also.
The more things I learnt from her, i way I feel about her starts to grow also.. up to now we still maintained the nightly msgs and calls to check on each other. Its like we both got chemistry..
But Im still unsure.. how many girls will willingly help a guy and pose as a gf within 3 months of knowing each other..
and its like she is like ... 2 - 3 years older then me.. told me she had 4 bfs in the past who were all jerks (how come all girls say that sia) and she is quite pretty. :\
But I like her though.
Thing is.. should I or should I not go for her? Despite having the age gap?
Don't really wanna make a wrong choice also :\
PS: we going out soon.. geez.. for once I dunno wat to do..
Originally posted by SnowGiant:Hi guys, previously I posted before, and thanks for all the help and advises, I given up previously due to a lack of courage, and back here asking for help from you all once again.
I recently got to know this girl from a social gathering of friends, and i was playfully hitting on her and having fun.
So as time goes by we exchanged numbers and chatted regularly online and in sms form.. so this day I was just jokingly ask if she had any female friends to tide me over for Chinese New Year.. and if they needed a tall guy to help out too, surprisingly, she said she would help me on this odd request.
Soon after I thought she might just brush it off and I dismissed it.
Next day she msged me and asked how is it going to be.. and I felt funny.. so i went on knowing more about her and she begun to share with me a lot of stuffs and I confided in her things of mine also.
The more things I learnt from her, i way I feel about her starts to grow also.. up to now we still maintained the nightly msgs and calls to check on each other. Its like we both got chemistry..
But Im still unsure.. how many girls will willingly help a guy and pose as a gf within 3 months of knowing each other..
and its like she is like ... 2 - 3 years older then me.. told me she had 4 bfs in the past who were all jerks (how come all girls say that sia) and she is quite pretty. :\
But I like her though.
Thing is.. should I or should I not go for her? Despite having the age gap?
Don't really wanna make a wrong choice also :\
PS: we going out soon.. geez.. for once I dunno wat to do..
Originally posted by SnowGiant:thanks zeny and emperor who shook me up and woke me.
Maybe both of u are right ba.. who would choose me anyway.
Hah, since its for the fun of it, might as well try chasing her without high expectations and see what I get.. she is pretty afterall, so I dont lose out much. ;p
thanks all.