Need help (A Chinese New Year quest)
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Hi guys, previously I posted before, and thanks for all the help and advises, I given up previously due to a lack of courage, and back here asking for help from you all once again.
I recently got to know this girl from a social gathering of friends, and i was playfully hitting on her and having fun.
So as time goes by we exchanged numbers and chatted regularly online and in sms form.. so this day I was just jokingly ask if she had any female friends to tide me over for Chinese New Year.. and if they needed a tall guy to help out too, surprisingly, she said she would help me on this odd request.
Soon after I thought she might just brush it off and I dismissed it.
Next day she msged me and asked how is it going to be.. and I felt funny.. so i went on knowing more about her and she begun to share with me a lot of stuffs and I confided in her things of mine also.
The more things I learnt from her, i way I feel about her starts to grow also.. up to now we still maintained the nightly msgs and calls to check on each other. Its like we both got chemistry..
But Im still unsure.. how many girls will willingly help a guy and pose as a gf within 3 months of knowing each other..
and its like she is like ... 2 - 3 years older then me.. told me she had 4 bfs in the past who were all jerks (how come all girls say that sia) and she is quite pretty. :\
But I like her though.
Thing is.. should I or should I not go for her? Despite having the age gap?
Don't really wanna make a wrong choice also :\
PS: we going out soon.. geez.. for once I dunno wat to do.. -
Go for it dood!! Age is not a factor !!...Not unless the age gap is like 10 years...
2 or 3 years is not so bad...are you going to let it stop you from having a good time with someone whom you really feel special for? No man...since u two are really close and stuff go for it!!!!! and all teh best dood!! -
I know you will not listern to what I am going to say but just hope you can clear your head first of the love clouds floating around.Originally posted by SnowGiant:Hi guys, previously I posted before, and thanks for all the help and advises, I given up previously due to a lack of courage, and back here asking for help from you all once again.
I recently got to know this girl from a social gathering of friends, and i was playfully hitting on her and having fun.
So as time goes by we exchanged numbers and chatted regularly online and in sms form.. so this day I was just jokingly ask if she had any female friends to tide me over for Chinese New Year.. and if they needed a tall guy to help out too, surprisingly, she said she would help me on this odd request.
Soon after I thought she might just brush it off and I dismissed it.
Next day she msged me and asked how is it going to be.. and I felt funny.. so i went on knowing more about her and she begun to share with me a lot of stuffs and I confided in her things of mine also.
The more things I learnt from her, i way I feel about her starts to grow also.. up to now we still maintained the nightly msgs and calls to check on each other. Its like we both got chemistry..
But Im still unsure.. how many girls will willingly help a guy and pose as a gf within 3 months of knowing each other..
and its like she is like ... 2 - 3 years older then me.. told me she had 4 bfs in the past who were all jerks (how come all girls say that sia) and she is quite pretty. :\
But I like her though.
Thing is.. should I or should I not go for her? Despite having the age gap?
Don't really wanna make a wrong choice also :\
PS: we going out soon.. geez.. for once I dunno wat to do..
a) she just able to chat well with you but that does not mean she will be taking you as her bf.
b) she got 4 bfs before what makes you think she will chose you at all? Come on do you really think you are better looking than them?
c) Best friends share very close stuff.
bf and gf does not cos each are afarid they will say something which each party do not like and thus split up.
Try not to think so much lar..ok the more you think the more you feel you love her and in the end she reject you... -
1. posing as a bf doesn't means that she'll like u in the end.Originally posted by SnowGiant:Hi guys, previously I posted before, and thanks for all the help and advises, I given up previously due to a lack of courage, and back here asking for help from you all once again.
I recently got to know this girl from a social gathering of friends, and i was playfully hitting on her and having fun.
So as time goes by we exchanged numbers and chatted regularly online and in sms form.. so this day I was just jokingly ask if she had any female friends to tide me over for Chinese New Year.. and if they needed a tall guy to help out too, surprisingly, she said she would help me on this odd request.
Soon after I thought she might just brush it off and I dismissed it.
Next day she msged me and asked how is it going to be.. and I felt funny.. so i went on knowing more about her and she begun to share with me a lot of stuffs and I confided in her things of mine also.
The more things I learnt from her, i way I feel about her starts to grow also.. up to now we still maintained the nightly msgs and calls to check on each other. Its like we both got chemistry..
But Im still unsure.. how many girls will willingly help a guy and pose as a gf within 3 months of knowing each other..
and its like she is like ... 2 - 3 years older then me.. told me she had 4 bfs in the past who were all jerks (how come all girls say that sia) and she is quite pretty. :\
But I like her though.
Thing is.. should I or should I not go for her? Despite having the age gap?
Don't really wanna make a wrong choice also :\
PS: we going out soon.. geez.. for once I dunno wat to do..
2. ur feelings for her may grow, because of wad u r thinking right now (u're thinking too much)... still, it doesn't means she'll love u back.
3. she had 4 bfs in the past who were jerks.. tt doesn't means she has gotten over everyone single of them yet. u may be just a substitute in her eyes.
4. u can try pursuing her, but do not give much expectation that it'll work first.. just in case u get urself hurt real badly.
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Originally posted by SnowGiant:Hi guys, previously I posted before, and thanks for all the help and advises, I given up previously due to a lack of courage, and back here asking for help from you all once again.
I recently got to know this girl from a social gathering of friends, and i was playfully hitting on her and having fun.
So as time goes by we exchanged numbers and chatted regularly online and in sms form.. so this day I was just jokingly ask if she had any female friends to tide me over for Chinese New Year.. and if they needed a tall guy to help out too, surprisingly, she said she would help me on this odd request.
Soon after I thought she might just brush it off and I dismissed it.
Next day she msged me and asked how is it going to be.. and I felt funny.. so i went on knowing more about her and she begun to share with me a lot of stuffs and I confided in her things of mine also.
The more things I learnt from her, i way I feel about her starts to grow also.. up to now we still maintained the nightly msgs and calls to check on each other. Its like we both got chemistry..
But Im still unsure.. how many girls will willingly help a guy and pose as a gf within 3 months of knowing each other..
and its like she is like ... 2 - 3 years older then me.. told me she had 4 bfs in the past who were all jerks (how come all girls say that sia) and she is quite pretty. :\
But I like her though.
Thing is.. should I or should I not go for her? Despite having the age gap?
Don't really wanna make a wrong choice also :\
PS: we going out soon.. geez.. for once I dunno wat to do..
Seriously, if it is in the spirit of fun, posing as a girlfriend/boyfriend doesn't signify anything.
Just go with the flow; you have yet to discover enough to make a decision for yourself.
Cheers -
thanks zeny and emperor who shook me up and woke me.
Maybe both of u are right ba.. who would choose me anyway.
Hah, since its for the fun of it, might as well try chasing her without high expectations and see what I get.. she is pretty afterall, so I dont lose out much. ;p
thanks all.
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Originally posted by SnowGiant:thanks zeny and emperor who shook me up and woke me.
Maybe both of u are right ba.. who would choose me anyway.
Hah, since its for the fun of it, might as well try chasing her without high expectations and see what I get.. she is pretty afterall, so I dont lose out much. ;p
thanks all. -
I thought dont lower the bar just cos ur lonely?
oh well..jus go for it ba. What have u got to lose? -
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Go for it dude wat r U waiting for?...
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U could go with the flow. Go in with an open mind. Do not invest too much of ur heart in the "r/s" until u r pretty serious abt it n she's serious too.