do your friends..
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what do you call friends who always criticise you whenever they see you? e.g. appearance etc. i mean why do they have to do this when they are your FRIENDS. it's not those kind of teasing criticism but those "look-down-on-you" kind of comments made. do they really care or are they condemning you? don't they ever care about other people's feelings? most of my friends are like this. is it me or is it them? what seems to be the problem? sometimes i just can't blend in with them. i feel lonely at times. outcasted. maybe because im not those rich kids who flaunt their money around (no offence to anyone in sgforums). it's not that i don't want to, it's i can't. i don't have that kind of money. why can't singaporeans be cool, as in COOL instead of following by the book being so stuck-up. you know, no rules, relax.. one serious problem with singaporeans is we are followers; we do what other people do and not do it "your-own-style". you get what i mean, no originality. y'all have friends like this?
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its juz too bad...dats life...
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as a matter of fact,i have such frens too.
jus be urself.be normal.
the moment they feel that their jokes or teasings ain't getting any responses they wanna see,they'll think that it is v silly of them to have done such things and would thus stop.
rmb my fren..be ignorant.
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it fated
maybe u wanna find new friends..no pt stayin wif them -
slowly mix with other's group who treat u more closer...
when they go out, they jio u...
when recess, together eat...
groups that u can tok to, mix around, respect u etc -
noted.Originally posted by yuko-ogura:as a matter of fact,i have such frens too.
jus be urself.be normal.
the moment they feel that their jokes or teasings ain't getting any responses they wanna see,they'll think that it is v silly of them to have done such things and would thus stop.
rmb my fren..be ignorant. 
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I will dump this friends rite away.Originally posted by twiggies:what do you call friends who always criticise you whenever they see you? e.g. appearance etc. i mean why do they have to do this when they are your FRIENDS. it's not those kind of teasing criticism but those "look-down-on-you" kind of comments made. do they really care or are they condemning you? don't they ever care about other people's feelings? most of my friends are like this. is it me or is it them? what seems to be the problem? sometimes i just can't blend in with them. i feel lonely at times. outcasted. maybe because im not those rich kids who flaunt their money around (no offence to anyone in sgforums). it's not that i don't want to, it's i can't. i don't have that kind of money. why can't singaporeans be cool, as in COOL instead of following by the book being so stuck-up. you know, no rules, relax.. one serious problem with singaporeans is we are followers; we do what other people do and not do it "your-own-style". you get what i mean, no originality. y'all have friends like this? -
haa.. recess.. i don't have that anymore mate.. thanks for your kind advise anyways.. but i don't have the time to mix with new group of people.. in fact, i have differ groups of friends but in all the differ groups, most of them are the same.. you know..Originally posted by Eclipzer:slowly mix with other's group who treat u more closer...
when they go out, they jio u...
when recess, together eat...
groups that u can tok to, mix around, respect u etc -
great ideaOriginally posted by zeny:I will dump this friends rite away.
and i can eat crackers facing the wall everyday.. -
juz b alone loh...Originally posted by twiggies:great idea and i can eat crackers facing the wall everyday..
study hard...
dat was wat i did durin my Os yr...
but i wasn't on bad terms wif my frens...
juz rather quiet...n stopped hangin out... -
haa. nth to study already man. last sem in poly. enlisting soon.Originally posted by alwaysdisturbed:juz b alone loh...
study hard...
dat was wat i did durin my Os yr...
but i wasn't on bad terms wif my frens...
juz rather quiet...n stopped hangin out... -
it's time to get yourself a new group of friends dude...
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if they make fun of u just give them a face and say" har har"
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DUMP THOSE SO-CALLED FRIENDS NOW ... in the army u will make friends that will stick to u through hardshipOriginally posted by twiggies:haa. nth to study already man. last sem in poly. enlisting soon.
But of cus if u are those sabo kings or u dun adapt well with others type, tat would be a different story altogether. -
u r not alone!
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yes you are not alone just be yourself and be comfy in your self do not be daunted by other ppl's comments they are just plain gossipy and jealous.....
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only good friends criticise one another when you are in the wrong, the fact that maybe they want you to change for the better.
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those are not friends, they are critics!!!
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i've a friend like that too. i'm trying to stay away from him but my other friends think he's a fun and interesting person to get along with. Issit sth wrong with me or them? >_<
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you need psychiatric help.Originally posted by twiggies:what do you call friends who always criticise you whenever they see you? e.g. appearance etc. i mean why do they have to do this when they are your FRIENDS. it's not those kind of teasing criticism but those "look-down-on-you" kind of comments made. do they really care or are they condemning you? don't they ever care about other people's feelings? most of my friends are like this. is it me or is it them? what seems to be the problem? sometimes i just can't blend in with them. i feel lonely at times. outcasted. maybe because im not those rich kids who flaunt their money around (no offence to anyone in sgforums). it's not that i don't want to, it's i can't. i don't have that kind of money. why can't singaporeans be cool, as in COOL instead of following by the book being so stuck-up. you know, no rules, relax.. one serious problem with singaporeans is we are followers; we do what other people do and not do it "your-own-style". you get what i mean, no originality. y'all have friends like this?
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most of them ma.Originally posted by twiggies:haa.. recess.. i don't have that anymore mate.. thanks for your kind advise anyways.. but i don't have the time to mix with new group of people.. in fact, i have differ groups of friends but in all the differ groups, most of them are the same.. you know..
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dats gd...u can get urself new grp of frens in the army...Originally posted by twiggies:haa. nth to study already man. last sem in poly. enlisting soon.
bmt, ocs, sispec....blah blah....
when r u enlistin?
most likely i'll c u in tekong.... -
maybe they aren't yr friends in the first place
they are called yr worst enermies
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It all depends on their comments, whether they r constructive or nt...
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u regd them as ur best frens or else dun bother