hw to let her cool down??? she's totally ignoring me liao...
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i had an heated arguement with a very close friend.. its purely friend .. no chemistry... but then she's very persistent to ignore me even i apologised to her.. how to make her cool down.. she's totally refusing to hear me out and tok to me either...
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for the time being leave her alone and sms her tml...
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Leave her alone after a few days everything will be back to normal.
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normally these kind of ignorance wont last very long... since both of u are good friends and who wants to lose a friend over an argument? so just apologise and leave it
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wat have u done tat makes her so angry?
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you can do it too!
no la. leave it alone la, sms later lor. -
First tell us what the argument is about..
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leave it.
you have already apologised. if she wants to forgive you she will call you sooner than later.
otherwise thats it!!! -
let her cool down for a week or so, then sms her a greet msg ask whether she is fine. if she's still ignoring you, she is still angry and she need a life!
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i hve endless experience in these... there are 2 approach...
1) leave her alone... let her cool down. whentings r over, she will be fine.
2) GO fIND HER!!! Face to face explanation and toks can sort tings out very fast. Provided u muz koe her very well lah!!
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i agree...go find her and talk face to face...
surely a friend will not be so petty right? i think she just doing it to spite you..
appologise to her plus a stalk of flower to cheer her up? -
How old are the both of you?Originally posted by TaeWoon:i had an heated arguement with a very close friend.. its purely friend .. no chemistry... but then she's very persistent to ignore me even i apologised to her.. how to make her cool down.. she's totally refusing to hear me out and tok to me either...
What kinda arguement? -
if she's ignorin u means things hvn't cool dwn yet..
b patient...
gals r weird creatures... -
letting her cool down = you fuck off and stop bothering her till she feels she comfortable to talk to you. leave her a message like
" please call me when you feel like talking " -
hmmx....if the arguement is based on something that she cant cant tolerate at all..i think the best is u leave her alone for a few days...
let her cool of maybe 3 or 4 days?
sms her to apologise..then say if she feel better...u be willing to chat up with her... -
time will cool her down..the more u try to talk to her,the more u infuriate her..
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u have apologised.
don't put girls on the pedestral. -
3 weeks already.. i sms her and said sorry.. she said i nv hv any self reflection and think highly of mysf.. i dun understand what she meant... after she told me not to msg her anymore... what SHO I DO????
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Girls are like that.. Sulk until got no tomorrow.. Sorry I'm stereotyping but I really think most girls are like that don't know why... Don't think guys are like that leh...
Give her one good SMS. Tell her that whatever it is you are truly sincerely sorry and regretful of what you have said or done. Add on that you have absolutely no intention of ruining the great friendship that you had with her and if she thinks that what you have said or done is strong enough to break up such a wonderful friendship and that no amount of sincere apologies can erase your actions or words then tell her it is such a waste to lose a friend like this and it was great having her as a friend. After that, if she accepts your apoly good. If not, don't waste your time. 1 friend like this lost, you can get 100 more friends who are more forgiving. So does not matter.
Anyway what was the arguement about? -
Have you reflected on yourself?Originally posted by TaeWoon:3 weeks already.. i sms her and said sorry.. she said i nv hv any self reflection and think highly of mysf.. i dun understand what she meant... after she told me not to msg her anymore... what SHO I DO???? -
of cos i did.. but.. how would she noe if i reflected myself?.. she only wants me to regrets ..
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Why must she be bother with the fact of whether you've reflected on yourself..? But at least you've done something on your part for your own good...?Originally posted by TaeWoon:of cos i did.. but.. how would she noe if i reflected myself?.. she only wants me to regrets ..
Then again... What you make of it even after you've reflected on yourself? -
It's all your fault.
Yes, your fault.
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is there no other way out.. no other alternative ... she shuns me completely and im as if invisible to her now. i tried to talk to her but she reacted as if never heard me.. im so depressed now...
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take her advise.Originally posted by TaeWoon:3 weeks already.. i sms her and said sorry.. she said i nv hv any self reflection and think highly of mysf.. i dun understand what she meant... after she told me not to msg her anymore... what SHO I DO????