Can anyone advise me?
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I recently got to know a girl through onlineÂ… we went out twice, and then I msg her asking whether she got a stead.. she said she had a complicated relationship with one of her male friends and they got close quite recently too, before I knew her. I like her at the first sight and since she knew I like her( I didnÂ’t tell her directly but she knew from my msg), she had been rather cold and turned down my dates. I still like her but dunno what is the appropriate way to deal with the dilema now? Can anyone advise me?
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firstly... u need to find out what's gg on with her and the other guy now..
den we can talk again okay. -
You said you like her at first sight. I think you need to rethink your priorities.
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But if i ask her what is gg on between she and that guy, wouldnt it be intrusive of her privacy? Although i liked her at first sight, but i knew she's a decent girl and i wish she and i can know each other better...
So, do u think i should buy anything or what action i ought to take? -
obviously she is not interested in you.
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you tink of her daily? badly?
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Ya lor... She's always in my mind... She always replied my msg, she told she had two online frens b4 but she neva went out with them so i'm quite lucky lor... But now she told me she quite busy with work... i also saw her working b4 and she worked OT... But if a gal likes a guy, she would always find some time to see him rite? Am i thinking too much or she is avoiding me now?
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Another online date? Wow...do keep us inform if you succeed...
but frankly speaking, knowing some1 thru online, and only met her twice, love at first sight, that might not lead to long-lasting love if thats what you are looking for...
Before you embarked onto a r/s, know the person well first. Her hobbies, interests, even her friends and family and background hor..dun jump into it just because she looks pleasant or chio..haha..
If she really turns down yr dates, probably its a hint to you? Or she thinks that its too fast too furious, so you should take it slower?
Try again with a milder sms like "hows your day?" instead of " wana go out dinner?" Keep that for a while, maintain contacts thru your whatever online means, and maybe she will open up more to you about her complicated r/s. From then, talk n talk n talk..wait for opportunity to strike...
good luck dude! -
Thanks 4 ur advice... May god bless me...
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wow she only had 2 online frens and u and her go date le worx siao siao
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If she's not interested in you, what can you do?Originally posted by lktlkygr:But if i ask her what is gg on between she and that guy, wouldnt it be intrusive of her privacy? Although i liked her at first sight, but i knew she's a decent girl and i wish she and i can know each other better...
So, do u think i should buy anything or what action i ought to take?