your first post ..

welcome to sgforums !
well .. it's natural for them to lose their skin elasticity cos the contractions involved during childbirth ...
accept it bah ...

with proper diet and exercise ... should be no problem to return to slimness ..
never ever get involved with any woman other than the wife ..... please for heaven's sake ... think of the children ... control yourself .... the main happiness in life is not sex .... but the cosyness in the family and also friends lah ...
take care of the wife, in case of post-natal depression ...