Eh need some advice from experienced people~ 1st date~
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Where to go for first date? :X
How should i present myself on that day??
How can i make her feel confident in me??
Should i buy her any presents or??
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Answered in the same order above:Originally posted by X k:Where to go for first date? :X
How should i present myself on that day??
How can i make her feel confident in me??
Should i buy her any presents or??
Cineleisure catch movie, coz I notice almost everyone does that.
Business wear, no tie, no coat, and 3 stalks of fresh cut roses for the lady.
She's more occupied trying to make you feel confident in her already.
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GV better.Originally posted by ditzy:Answered in the same order above:
Cineleisure catch movie, coz I notice almost everyone does that.
Business wear, no tie, no coat, and 3 stalks of fresh cut roses for the lady.
She's more occupied trying to make you feel confident in her already.
As above.
Casual wear. No need flowers.
Never talk to a woman before ah?
Just pay for the dinner. Girls dig that.
Answer, same order as above. -
1st date
movie, beach, coffee, etc
Presentation Just wear something neat, & suitable for the occasion & where you're going. Nothing more awkward than dressing outta place.
Confidence Huh? Confidence takes time to build.
Presents Something small & impersonal if you hafta. Otherwise, don't need. You wouldn't wanna scare her off on your 1st date. Just tell her you didn't get a present as you want her to be comfortable. Think she'll understand.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by X k:Where to go for first date? :X
How should i present myself on that day??
How can i make her feel confident in me??
Should i buy her any presents or?? -
Tells us something about the girl lah. What if she is the active type? The people above me just say bring her go see movie. Write do everything about the girl lah, eg her hobbie. then we can give you a more accurate ans.
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Oh yeah.
Choice of movie is also important.
No movies on the life of Marquis de Sade on the first date.
That's a nono. -
Eh actually i know her quite some yrs liao but few yrs bo see her
anyway she the friendly type and a libra too ^^ same as me~ -
Wear casually . We girls like to overdress
Go out for a movie or coffee - something casual and friendly
Just be yourself but that doesn't mean tell her all the negative things in your life.
Be humourous . A guy without a humour is a stick in the mud and deserved to be left there. -
yeh and just pay for the meal.Originally posted by fymk:Wear casually . We girls like to overdress
Go out for a movie or coffee - something casual and friendly
Just be yourself but that doesn't mean tell her all the negative things in your life.
Be humourous . A guy without a humour is a stick in the mud and deserved to be left there. -
Go to the movies, treat her to nice lunch (choose a quiet place) so can chit chat. If she is the sporty type, suggest going to East Coast- roller blade/ cycle. Then have a picnic/ ice-cream.
Be neat & presentable- Wear short sleeve/ polo shirt & long pants/ jeans.
Don't wear T-shirt, bermuda & flip flop.
No need to buy her presents just yet.
Remember to send her home if u can.
Don't forget to tell her u enjoyed being with her. -
In order:Originally posted by X k:Where to go for first date? :X
How should i present myself on that day??
How can i make her feel confident in me??
Should i buy her any presents or??
1. Movie, makan, coffee. Tried and tested. Cliched, but works.
2. Just wear casually. You're already nervous enough as it is... wear some clothes you're comfortable in.
Of course, wearing an orange spandex bodysuit with swimming trunks while wearing SBO and helmet is asking for trouble.
3. Be confident, and she'll be confident. Even if you're not confident, just act confident. Chances are she won't know the difference.
4. Unless if it's Valentine's day/her birthday/any other special occasion.... no. -
eh thats also a prob sia i dont know how to be humourous :XOriginally posted by fymk:Wear casually . We girls like to overdress
Go out for a movie or coffee - something casual and friendly
Just be yourself but that doesn't mean tell her all the negative things in your life.
Be humourous . A guy without a humour is a stick in the mud and deserved to be left there. -
Boy , you have no chance with me thenOriginally posted by X k:eh thats also a prob sia i dont know how to be humourous :X
But never mind - maybe still got chance with the girl .....just be urself
. If you know her for a few years - then no problem there . Just talk normally , discuss your life ( positive only) , and ask her about hers. Girls tend to let guys talk alot without jumping into the conversation then complain the guy is boring....so involve her in the conversation . -
1. Pay for her meal, it's expected especially for the first date.Originally posted by X k:Where to go for first date? :X
How should i present myself on that day??
How can i make her feel confident in me??
Should i buy her any presents or??
2. Dun talk too much abt urself and abt ur past r/s if u do have one before.
3. Try to make her laugh but dun be a joke in front of her. Dun try to joke becos u want to but respond according to the situation. It will make u humourous.
4. Dun praise her more than one sentence for the entire date. For eg. "You look great." That's all. If not, she will think u are tryin to get into her good books.
5. Pay attention to what she's saying.
6. Make ur topics short, light and positive only.
7. Dun buy presents. U dun owe her anything.
8. If u sense that she's not paying any attention to u or something's not right, quickly suggest to go home.
9. Relax. It's only a date. She doesnt owe u anything and so do u. U are both tryin to find out more from one another. -
good luck!
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Just wear casual but be smart(meaning no loose clothes and faded T-shirt),no present.Go for a buffet! Can eat and at the same time chit-chat.Talk abt the food,current affair,big news or find out abt each other hobbies...Ran out of topic,can keke go pick up more food while at the same time think of topics to say!Also observe abt their body language! First outing really counts! It really determine whether both of u can develop further.
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Haahahahhaaha... you know, my 1st date was there too hahahaOriginally posted by ditzy:Answered in the same order above:
Cineleisure catch movie, coz I notice almost everyone does that.
Business wear, no tie, no coat, and 3 stalks of fresh cut roses for the lady.
She's more occupied trying to make you feel confident in her already.
As above. -
1. Meal / coffee. Somewhere where both of you can chat. Or shopping (only if you enjoys it too). Some concert. Esplanade. Some art gallery. Some 'hot' event.Originally posted by X k:Where to go for first date? :X
How should i present myself on that day??
How can i make her feel confident in me??
Should i buy her any presents or??
2. Just be yourself. And don't look like a mud in the face or a 'mountain tortise'... Have a bit of taste at least.. If you can, be 'in trend' but don't overdo it.
3. Chat and talk with her. Just be friendly and be yourself. Once you're not yourself, you'll feel weird. And ultimately she'll feel weird too.
4. No need unless it's a special occasion. If you need to, try to buy something 'small' but in fashion. -
i would suggest u bring her to somewhere tt u can chat and learn more about each other...rather than in a cinema, do nothing but stare screen....
for example, zoo....
can chat abt wat animal she likes....walk around...see children in the children playground...etc etc....
jst wear somthing casual...tt u like... -
Wear casually - but not until you look very sloppy. Chances are she'll dress up properly, so try to match it without clouding her.
Don't buy gifts unless it's her bday or vday.
Everything else is really about being yourself. -
Where to go for first date? :X
Where to go: A chicken slaughter farm
How should i present myself on that day??
How can i make her feel confident in me??
Should i buy her any presents or??
Presentation: A singlet stained with chicken blood, a cleaver in your hand as deco if you one.
Make her feel confident: Take her to go bungee jumping and assure her everything will be alright. You yourself should be confident that everything should be alright too. If you do not have confidece that she will feel confident that you will make everything confidently safe, pray.
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