Vday?
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haha... i know there are a lot of love topics here... but...
just wanna know whether i should go out with this guy a not? known him online for 2 years+ le, recently just started chatting with hm again... he's a friend of my good friend who's in Australia now...
the thing is... from his nickname and questions i asked i think he's interested in me. he offered to accompany me on Valentine's day. so i'm wondering .. should i? i mean he seems OKAY online... but yeah, appearances can decieve, huh? =P
Also, am i too young to be involved in this? i'm 17 going 18 le... my mum and uncle advised me to get a bf only when i'm 21... so... oh yes, he's one year older.
how?
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u wanna go out, den go out with him lor. if u dun wan refuse him lor. its ur choice !!!Originally posted by Crystal_Dumpling:haha... i know there are a lot of love topics here... but...
just wanna know whether i should go out with this guy a not? known him online for 2 years+ le, recently just started chatting with hm again... he's a friend of my good friend who's in Australia now...
the thing is... from his nickname and questions i asked i think he's interested in me. he offered to accompany me on Valentine's day. so i'm wondering .. should i? i mean he seems OKAY online... but yeah, appearances can decieve, huh? =P
Also, am i too young to be involved in this? i'm 17 going 18 le... my mum and uncle advised me to get a bf only when i'm 21... so... oh yes, he's one year older.
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You met him in person before?
How close are you to him? How well you know him? From online? Or in real person? You meet up with him often?
Ultimately.. How do you feel about him?
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Nope, never... but i'm gonna email my Australia friend to check up on himOriginally posted by Devil1976:You met him in person before?
How close are you to him? How well you know him? From online? Or in real person? You meet up with him often?
Ultimately.. How do you feel about him? 
Haha. I also don't know... co i've never met up with him b4? but I kind of like another guy... -
if u dont like him that much then dont spend the valentines day with him. he might get the wrong idea and think you're interested in being more than friends. then later he'll be disappointed...
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yeah dun waste his time. And urs.
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dun give the wrong idea. valentine's day some more.
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V-day, most prob i will be alone this year....so strange feeling..
but then, may join the friend friend outing...haha...
since you haven meet him before, and you feel awakward, y not join devil and gang for the friend friend's outing on V-day. At the same time, you can bring him along..
so, you get to spend V-day with him, and you will not be paisei about it.. (provided you dont have intention to be alone with him lah) -
too young to be involved? its not like you are getting a bf right?Originally posted by Crystal_Dumpling:haha... i know there are a lot of love topics here... but...
just wanna know whether i should go out with this guy a not? known him online for 2 years+ le, recently just started chatting with hm again... he's a friend of my good friend who's in Australia now...
the thing is... from his nickname and questions i asked i think he's interested in me. he offered to accompany me on Valentine's day. so i'm wondering .. should i? i mean he seems OKAY online... but yeah, appearances can decieve, huh? =P
Also, am i too young to be involved in this? i'm 17 going 18 le... my mum and uncle advised me to get a bf only when i'm 21... so... oh yes, he's one year older.
how?
if you feel like having a date.. i feel you should go. Never know what will happen. Maybe you will like him?
I feel dont make things complicated. Its just a date on vday. He did not express his feelings or whatever right? Just go and see how things go..
But just be careful of sending the wrong signal or whatever. -
hhmm..why not go out with him some other days. Definitely not on V day for the 1st date..unless u really like him
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Uh, he kind of did. which is damn weird... still trying to contact my Australia friend =/ but i think the two of them don't know each other THAT well?Originally posted by Chris10:too young to be involved? its not like you are getting a bf right?
if you feel like having a date.. i feel you should go. Never know what will happen. Maybe you will like him?
I feel dont make things complicated. Its just a date on vday. He did not express his feelings or whatever right? Just go and see how things go..
But just be careful of sending the wrong signal or whatever.
Lol..still don't know what to do... prob spend vday with friends i guess
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Why put in considerations when you've having so much complications? Not certain with what you feel for him... Interested in another guy...? Perhaps should just slow down on pace and see how things go..? Afterall, there shouldn't be much hurry yeah..?Originally posted by Crystal_Dumpling:Nope, never... but i'm gonna email my Australia friend to check up on him
Haha. I also don't know... co i've never met up with him b4? but I kind of like another guy...
If it's just a simple meet up with this guy, maybe it's ok? If he has already expresses his feelings for you and you don't want him to get the wrong idea, I don't suppose it's a good idea to go 1-1 with him on Valentine's day...? How about going out with your friends and just inviting him along to see how things go...? -
yo crystal,
you shopping alone before? like buyu cloth and shoes?
you try this pair and that pair and then you calculate your budget, the style, your feeling and at the end with reasonable risk, you buy the shoe you think you like.
Serveral weeks later, its either the shoes fits you well and it stay with you, or the shoe bit your feet and you shelf it.
at least get to see the person, then decide what to do next.
come on, in singapore whwat can go wrong, just dress decent.
yeah, many will tell you it is not your fault that you dress a bit sexy.
still dress decent if you have no intention to invite "sexy" action from the guy.
good luck -
no harm going on a date with this guy... it will jux b a normal date without any need to intend anything...
but seriously reconsider whether u wanna spend ur v-day with him as a first date... personally also think that it will send wrong signals to the guy...
wat's more u seem to not yet made up ur mind which guy u wanna b with yet... i wld say take ur time n nt rush into anything -
can u afford a date? ROFL..Originally posted by Matthew Lim Li Hao:go out with me. i am a poor virgin
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take it as a normal date
dun think too much -
dun get involved. okz i'm being selfish cos i was a bigger market for myselfOriginally posted by Crystal_Dumpling:haha... i know there are a lot of love topics here... but...
just wanna know whether i should go out with this guy a not? known him online for 2 years+ le, recently just started chatting with hm again... he's a friend of my good friend who's in Australia now...
the thing is... from his nickname and questions i asked i think he's interested in me. he offered to accompany me on Valentine's day. so i'm wondering .. should i? i mean he seems OKAY online... but yeah, appearances can decieve, huh? =P
Also, am i too young to be involved in this? i'm 17 going 18 le... my mum and uncle advised me to get a bf only when i'm 21... so... oh yes, he's one year older.
how?