help with my bro please..
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warning:long story but please help
hi guys , i've found out some problems about my brother(he's older than me) lately..
i happened to step onto this website few months ago and i found out my brother post on this forum too.(hopefully he didn't saw my topic(he usually post on CHIT-CHAT only) , and if he did see my topic , please act as if you didn't, cause it makes me feel akward and i don't wan it to affect our relationship) I decided to check out what he had posted before by searching his name..i know this is rude as it invades his privacy but i just want to understand him more.
Most of his topics are okay , but i found out that he shoplift from shops occasionally.In the topic , he asked about how the others felt about people who shoplifts from shops , though most of them gave him negative responses , i have a feeling that he's gonna continue to do it.
He did told me that he stole a teddy bear from a shop he worked in before but he later changed it by saying the boss gave it to him when i gave a WTF response.
I want him to realise that shoplifting ain't gonna be so lucky all the time , he's already 18 and if he is caught , the penalty he is going to receive isn't worth all the excitement he gets from stealing.I don't want the whole family suffer with him if he did got caught. You guys should know how bad it is...Please help me..
By the way , he also mentioned how his computer got spoilt in a topic and asked for help. I know that the reason why the cpu was spoilt is because he downloaded too much porno and all those virus also went into the cpu when he was downloading those porn , the cpu had 40gig but he already occupied around 15gigs with only those vid.Worse of all , he doesn't clean the cpu by running those anti-virus and anti-spyware program , i was always the one who does all the job but i gave up this time. He did asked me why i didn't care when the cpu was spoilt and i told him that the cpu is gonna spoil anyway after it's repaired. I hope he realised it and dun download those porn into the computer which is meant for the both of us to use.(im currently using his labtop now)
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i dunnoe if he will change his ways but im sure he will be very pissed. now spill his name.
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there's one way....call 999 and ur bro will be gone...
keeping porn is illegal but not looking..
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i can't spill his name out , im already risking it by posing this with a name which i use on the net
there's one way....call 999 and ur bro will be gone... Laughing
keeping porn is illegal but not looking.. Twisted Evil
I definitely won't do that , i kinda feel that he's already the best bro one could ever had , just that he has a few bad traits -
my fren learnt his lesson oni after he was locked up twice.Originally posted by rpgragnarok:i can't spill his name out , im already risking it by posing this with a name which i use on the net
there's one way....call 999 and ur bro will be gone... Laughing
keeping porn is illegal but not looking.. Twisted Evil
I definitely won't do that , i kinda feel that he's already the best bro one could ever had , just that he has a few bad traits -
hi, i'm 798's sister. my brother is a pervert, i can't take it anymore.
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btw there's a quote button to quote ppl's quote...Originally posted by rpgragnarok:i can't spill his name out , im already risking it by posing this with a name which i use on the net
there's one way....call 999 and ur bro will be gone... Laughing
keeping porn is illegal but not looking.. Twisted Evil
I definitely won't do that , i kinda feel that he's already the best bro one could ever had , just that he has a few bad traits -
Your brother's nick start with an "a" right?
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x2.Originally posted by shade343:Your brother's nick start with an "a" right?
if not, then it's 'h' or 'o'. -
go edit lah...Originally posted by shade343:Your brother's nick start with an " " right? -
what help do you need? u seems to b capable of helping others, i mean ur bros. and yes, you dun seems to b happy doing it.
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u bro how old...18 years and above still canot tell different between right and wrong?
u family well to do so yr bro only do all this for fun only? u bro got nothing to od?
personally i dun knwo why u bro so excited over what he did?
please stealing is not exciting...if i want to do it i rob the bank! go to jail still ppl look at me differently...want to do do it big!
as for porn please lah cannot even learn the basics of comp maintenance to prevent some spyware and malware!
i tink nowsdays youngsters too free nothing better to do! -
edit simi ?Originally posted by SBS9828X:go edit lah... -
shoplifting is a big no no please stop it
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Porn is illegal?
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it might be a compulsive behavior to shoplift/steal...it creates a sense of wellness in these people...
if its serious, have to seek psychiatrists help..
so you have to monitor his behavior lor...
actually, you can just mentioned his nick out..because you made it pretty obvious...or r u the clone?
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how to monitor...even if i know whats he's doing , i dun dare directly talk to him cause he will only say "ya lar ya lar , i will change". Then 2 months later , he will say he got another teddy bear from his boss..Originally posted by darknessfall:it might be a compulsive behavior to shoplift/steal...it creates a sense of wellness in these people...
if its serious, have to seek psychiatrists help..
so you have to monitor his behavior lor...
actually, you can just mentioned his nick out..because you made it pretty obvious...or r u the clone?
As for his name , for those who already knew who is it , please do not PM him or tell him about this matter.Though i dunno how the hell you guys found out who is it. -
rpgranarok also post in gamefaqs
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just don't use the stuff he stole. i think they bs one la.Originally posted by rpgragnarok:how to monitor...even if i know whats he's doing , i dun dare directly talk to him cause he will only say "ya lar ya lar , i will change". Then 2 months later , he will say he got another teddy bear from his boss..
As for his name , for those who already knew who is it , please do not PM him or tell him about this matter.Though i dunno how the hell you guys found out who is it. -
Yes i do post in gamefaqs.Originally posted by Agenda:rpgranarok also post in gamefaqs 
but usually i only reads the post , its getting quiet over there..
As for using the stuff , well , he didn't even bother to use the stuff he stole , he juz left it lying around i think..As for the bear , he gave it to my little cute cousin.lol. -
hello all, i hope i am not offending everyone with what i am about to say cos i am not from sg, but doesnt bad behavior earn a bad caneing? and as far as porn, that is disgusting. it is for low lifes who like nothing better to look at women. porn is for those who cannot control their sexual desires in the right manner. as far as ur bro is concerned, i would get him counciling, both for the porn, and the shop lifting.
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what you said is 99.9% right and I dun think it is offending any 1Originally posted by xiao_mei2005:hello all, i hope i am not offending everyone with what i am about to say cos i am not from sg, but doesnt bad behavior earn a bad caneing? and as far as porn, that is disgusting. it is for low lifes who like nothing better to look at women. porn is for those who cannot control their sexual desires in the right manner. as far as ur bro is concerned, i would get him counciling, both for the porn, and the shop lifting. -
u stated on how to find his nickOriginally posted by rpgragnarok:As for his name , for those who already knew who is it , please do not PM him or tell him about this matter.Though i dunno how the hell you guys found out who is it.
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WTF. Bro what you doing online! I told you not to use my computer you fcuktard. stop using the damn computer now.
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ok u need to get a life. stop shop lifting and looking at porn and get some counseling or something.
for goodness sake u r gonna rip u and ur brother apart.
y dont u get some since in ur head and do what is right.Originally posted by targa4:WTF. Bro what you doing online! I told you not to use my computer you fcuktard. stop using the damn computer now.