how to save a rushed courtship?
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Originally posted by bladez87:what has this got to do with me being happy? haha. ya la. but quite true.
i in a pitfall,
i refuse to let others save me
i just want to continue being in the hole.
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Yun is evil?Originally posted by M©+square:Yunnie is vampire leh.
Evil la....
M© is not.
then MC is vampire...coz u dun sleep at night de mah.
and the Devil is devil of course. -
Originally posted by M©+square:Your skill not there yet la....
Must do more training
no la.. u really cannot read my mind leh.
i was expecting u to state wat are the 3. -
/me steps on bladez87Originally posted by bladez87:what has this got to do with me being happy? haha. ya la. but quite true.
i in a pitfall,
i refuse to let others save me
i just want to continue being in the hole.
i push u further into the hole.
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jus let him..he will wake up soonOriginally posted by browniebaobao:/me steps on bladez87
i push u further into the hole. -
jus let him..he will wake up soonOriginally posted by browniebaobao:/me steps on bladez87
i push u further into the hole. -
ya...more or less waking up liao. but wake up doesnt mean give up. lol.
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in a world filled with women who gives mixed signals u need to open ur eyes big enough for the ones who give u the real deal.Originally posted by bladez87:ya...more or less waking up liao. but wake up doesnt mean give up. lol. -
but how to know who gives the real or who gives the fake?Originally posted by dokono:in a world filled with women who gives mixed signals u need to open ur eyes big enough for the ones who give u the real deal.
i dont know. so i trust my heart and feelings, and shall wait for her. timing is always not on my side. but yet i have awaken to know my mistakes and am learning from them.
should i have another chance with her, i will try my best not to repeat the mistakes i made. -
my guess is the chance is low to be back with her again, in fact almost impossible.Originally posted by bladez87:but how to know who gives the real or who gives the fake?
i dont know. so i trust my heart and feelings, and shall wait for her. timing is always not on my side. but yet i have awaken to know my mistakes and am learning from them.
should i have another chance with her, i will try my best not to repeat the mistakes i made.
But dun worry, whenever a new gal comes along again, learn from ur mistakes. before u do something post something in this forum and ask for advice. Don't do anything rash. Most importantly, be patient when u are chasing a gal. U dun have to see ur own liking for her, rather whether she likes u or not. Just keep treating her a friend whom u do not have feelings for until u are very very sure she likes u. -
things are fine, yet unfine. so what is fine and unfine? dont know. but i got feeling she ignoring me. hmm...let it continue ? or should i do something?
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sometimes the best solution is to ignore her. it's up to u actually. if u hang around her all the time she will think u have nothing to do and ur life revolves around her only. Instead hang around with a few buddies and play some sports.Originally posted by bladez87:things are fine, yet unfine. so what is fine and unfine? dont know. but i got feeling she ignoring me. hmm...let it continue ? or should i do something? -
/ignore thread
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yup i understand le! i know what i must do. what i should do! thanks people!
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darn it! understand it is 1 thing! but i find it so hard to apply it.
is like ytd i understand and could apply it. but today the feelings surface again and i cant apply it. -
the solution is to go out and have fun and meet more friends. Spend more time with ur family members. Remember: just focus on having fun, dun go out look for a target. FUN FUN FUN...and just forget about those feelings.Originally posted by bladez87:darn it! understand it is 1 thing! but i find it so hard to apply it.
is like ytd i understand and could apply it. but today the feelings surface again and i cant apply it. -
exam period now la. how to go out. haha. who to go out with also. lol. make new friends ah. hard liao. considering i quite anti social and dont have wide circle of friends. o any AA outings lately? lol
keep thinking of her, also no mood study la...haha -
remember the world is ur fish. she's not the only girl. U must have a mentality such that the less u think of her, the more desirable u are. It's her loss not to have u, not urs.Originally posted by bladez87:exam period now la. how to go out. haha. who to go out with also. lol. make new friends ah. hard liao. considering i quite anti social and dont have wide circle of friends. o any AA outings lately? lol
keep thinking of her, also no mood study la...haha -
that mentality will lead to arrogance will it not? i trying to build my confidence now. but that is like sooo way out. you got msn? add me ba. so you can kai dao me if you are willing. [email protected]Originally posted by dokono:remember the world is ur fish. she's not the only girl. U must have a mentality such that the less u think of her, the more desirable u are. It's her loss not to have u, not urs.
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it's all very common sense. dun be so despo can already...and u are still so young, all the time in the world to find the right one for u.Originally posted by bladez87:that mentality will lead to arrogance will it not? i trying to build my confidence now. but that is like sooo way out. you got msn? add me ba. so you can kai dao me if you are willing. [email protected]
thanks. you been a great help throughout.
it's not arrogance. It's called self-respect. she has already made herself very clear to u. no point pestering her because i see no result. friends yes but consider this: since she is now ur friend she is also the same status as ur other male friends, nothing more even though u may still harbour feelings for her. -
self respect...hmm. i have a friend who waited 4-5years before his gf finally accepted him.Originally posted by dokono:it's all very common sense. dun be so despo can already...and u are still so young, all the time in the world to find the right one for u.
it's not arrogance. It's called self-respect. she has already made herself very clear to u. no point pestering her because i see no result. friends yes but consider this: since she is now ur friend she is also the same status as ur other male friends, nothing more even though u may still harbour feelings for her.