Problem.....
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Hi guys
There is a group of guys in my class that i can't trust. But sometimes i will joke with them or play soccer with them. 1 of the guy happens to fall in love with my gf. Once in the canteen, when i am not around, he purposely sit infront of my gf. The problem is thats not where he usually sit. what is he thinking? My gf and I quarrelled 1 or 2 times cuz of him.
This guy, i saw him on bus. I greet him. Guess what? He did not even greet back or look at me, but he smile to himself. Crazy ass. In class he will be looking at me like i snatch away his gf.
And every now and then, his group of friends will say, "eh go play soccer leh.... Bring your gf along too..." I was like WTF?
And yesterday they ask, "eh want to watch movie? Bring ur gf along too leh..." I replied "don't want leh, for wat?" And they say "wah you steady lor..."
What is this group of people thinking? Helping that guy?
How am i suppose to deal with them? Are they playing mind games? -
get rid of such friends...they are not friends, but foes...
this type of people, jus ignore them..i suggest u dun even play soccer with them anymore...
get new friends....and take good care of your gf...show yr gf whos the better guy! good luck
cheers -
if you do not trust them just use some excuse to turn them down lar.
1) "my gf not free cos she got homework or housework to do."
2) "how come you all never bring your gf?"
3) " My gf do not know how to play soccer leh later she complain and complain how?"
4) " later my gf laugh at you for having such a poor skill then how?"
How to handle the guy hehe
Thats the fun part.
He is trying to make you angry thus in turn you will get jealous then anger set in and you will quarrel with your gf.
Smart move on his part.
how to counter.
1) tell your gf that the guy is acting very funny and you are jealous of his actions, then your gf will usually say haiz "u hor think so much for what". Tell her that u love her so much and kiss her. ;p
2) he smile at himself rite? look at him and laugh out loud. Repeat this everytime you see him but remember to stop when he comes near. -
continue to fren dem though....it wouldnt be nice to be foes with ur classmates.....Originally posted by Dead_Man_Inc:Hi guys
There is a group of guys in my class that i can't trust. But sometimes i will joke with them or play soccer with them. 1 of the guy happens to fall in love with my gf. Once in the canteen, when i am not around, he purposely sit infront of my gf. The problem is thats not where he usually sit. what is he thinking? My gf and I quarrelled 1 or 2 times cuz of him.
This guy, i saw him on bus. I greet him. Guess what? He did not even greet back or look at me, but he smile to himself. Crazy ass. In class he will be looking at me like i snatch away his gf.
And every now and then, his group of friends will say, "eh go play soccer leh.... Bring your gf along too..." I was like WTF?
And yesterday they ask, "eh want to watch movie? Bring ur gf along too leh..." I replied "don't want leh, for wat?" And they say "wah you steady lor..."
What is this group of people thinking? Helping that guy?
How am i suppose to deal with them? Are they playing mind games?
BUT
be careful....dey might juz backstab u....i suggest u dun get to close to dem or wad.....
as fer ur gf u reallie nid to let her feel dat u r protecting her from other guys....n make sure u win at the end of the day n prevent others from snatching ur gf away.......though gals r nt easily swayed away in terms of feelings but den juz be careful......
in cases like tis dun bring ur gf along when u go out with dem....n i m sure ur gf will noe dat dey r a bunch of no good pple.........yeap.......
n this is wad u call mind games.......can win de larh...depends on how u fight the war.....n i m sure u r one smart guy
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but i'm facing them everyday in class
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dats is the thing......u face dem everyday.....try to fren dem....juz beware of dem lorh.........Originally posted by Dead_Man_Inc:but i'm facing them everyday in class -
immaturity end of story
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aiyah help him larh......Originally posted by ghimpheng:immaturity end of story -
That's how you add +1 to your post?Originally posted by ghimpheng:immaturity end of story
If that's how you help others, then that's the only kind of help you shall get.
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Never quarrel again with your girlfriend over this kind of nonsense guy...or you'll fall into their scam and hurt your relationship with your girlfriend. <- This is very important.Originally posted by Dead_Man_Inc:Hi guys
There is a group of guys in my class that i can't trust. But sometimes i will joke with them or play soccer with them. 1 of the guy happens to fall in love with my gf. Once in the canteen, when i am not around, he purposely sit infront of my gf. The problem is thats not where he usually sit. what is he thinking? My gf and I quarrelled 1 or 2 times cuz of him.
This guy, i saw him on bus. I greet him. Guess what? He did not even greet back or look at me, but he smile to himself. Crazy ass. In class he will be looking at me like i snatch away his gf.
And every now and then, his group of friends will say, "eh go play soccer leh.... Bring your gf along too..." I was like WTF?
And yesterday they ask, "eh want to watch movie? Bring ur gf along too leh..." I replied "don't want leh, for wat?" And they say "wah you steady lor..."
What is this group of people thinking? Helping that guy?
How am i suppose to deal with them? Are they playing mind games?
What you need to do now is to distance your girlfriend with those group of guys that you disliked. The next time they asked you to bring your girlfriend along, just tell them she doesn't want to join cos she's bored everytime she joins in. (Make it seems like they're the ones who bored her out...but don't say it directly) Don't bother to invite your girlfriend, just go alone. But if she's unhappy about it, then cancel the entire thing with your friends and hang out with her instead.
Don't waste your time thinking if they're playing mind games or not. Ignore that guy who's so in love with your girlfriend, do not greet him next time...but give him a big wide smile everytime...just like if you're mocking at him. He's a loser, so don't worry about it and remember to SMILE at him. Keep your friendship at a distance with any friends whom you think aren't sincere in being friends with you or have a hidden agenda for being friends with you. Communicate when necessary and be normal. If anyone tries to be unreasonable, threaten you with their friendship crap (applying peer pressure), then you have every right to return them their attitude right at their face (don't start any fight).
Try to source out new friends and bond the new friendship...cos you're going to need better friends.
Oh...and never be a wimp and try to be diplomatic if any of your friends tries to take a shot at you and put you down. Take up the arguement and show them that they've picked on the wrong person to put down. <- This is important too, or else a lot of people will be all over you pretty soon. How else are you going to protect your girlfriend if you're always trying to be the nice person? Protect yourself and you'll gain the strength to protect her against whatever loser plans that is plotting against the both of you.
That's pretty all for you and that group of losers. Last thing, spend more time with your girlfriend and keep it exclusive to the both of you. No sharing of any information about what's going on with you and your girlfriend and where you both dated and ate, just make sure that nobody else know anything and keep them guessing for eternity. It's none of their business anyway.
It's difficult maintaining friendship and relationship as you have to please both sides. But you must pick to be with your girlfriend if you're forced to decide. And spend more quality time with your girlfriend. <- Remember this.
Good luck, I know it's not going to be easy from now on. -
your gf v pretty har? if not why your friends keep buaya her?Originally posted by Dead_Man_Inc:but i'm facing them everyday in class -
nice one......yeah.....dun worry u r obviously at the advantage side.....hahahaz.......Originally posted by parn:Never quarrel again with your girlfriend over this kind of nonsense guy...or you'll fall into their scam and hurt your relationship with your girlfriend. <- This is very important.
What you need to do now is to distance your girlfriend with those group of guys that you disliked. The next time they asked you to bring your girlfriend along, just tell them she doesn't want to join cos she's bored everytime she joins in. (Make it seems like they're the ones who bored her out...but don't say it directly) Don't bother to invite your girlfriend, just go alone. But if she's unhappy about it, then cancel the entire thing with your friends and hang out with her instead.
Don't waste your time thinking if they're playing mind games or not. Ignore that guy who's so in love with your girlfriend, do not greet him next time...but give him a big wide smile everytime...just like if you're mocking at him. He's a loser, so don't worry about it and remember to SMILE at him. Keep your friendship at a distance with any friends whom you think aren't sincere in being friends with you or have a hidden agenda for being friends with you. Communicate when necessary and be normal. If anyone tries to be unreasonable, threaten you with their friendship crap (applying peer pressure), then you have every right to return them their attitude right at their face (don't start any fight).
Try to source out new friends and bond the new friendship...cos you're going to need better friends.
Oh...and never be a wimp and try to be diplomatic if any of your friends tries to take a shot at you and put you down. Take up the arguement and show them that they've picked on the wrong person to put down. <- This is important too, or else a lot of people will be all over you pretty soon. How else are you going to protect your girlfriend if you're always trying to be the nice person? Protect yourself and you'll gain the strength to protect her against whatever loser plans that is plotting against the both of you.
That's pretty all for you and that group of losers. Last thing, spend more time with your girlfriend and keep it exclusive to the both of you. No sharing of any information about what's going on with you and your girlfriend and where you both dated and ate, just make sure that nobody else know anything and keep them guessing for eternity. It's none of their business anyway.
It's difficult maintaining friendship and relationship as you have to please both sides. But you must pick to be with your girlfriend if you're forced to decide. And spend more quality time with your girlfriend. <- Remember this.
Good luck, I know it's not going to be easy from now on. -
hahaha muz be de lorh the gf muz be damn chio.........Originally posted by FBI:your gf v pretty har? if not why your friends keep buaya her? -
Get rid of these guys quickly. Do yourself and your gf a favour, and get to know other people. Just becos they're your classmates dosen't meanm you NEED to hang with them after school. If you truly love your gf then you'll protect her from these horny b@st@rds.Originally posted by Dead_Man_Inc:Hi guys
There is a group of guys in my class that i can't trust. But sometimes i will joke with them or play soccer with them. 1 of the guy happens to fall in love with my gf. Once in the canteen, when i am not around, he purposely sit infront of my gf. The problem is thats not where he usually sit. what is he thinking? My gf and I quarrelled 1 or 2 times cuz of him.
This guy, i saw him on bus. I greet him. Guess what? He did not even greet back or look at me, but he smile to himself. Crazy ass. In class he will be looking at me like i snatch away his gf.
And every now and then, his group of friends will say, "eh go play soccer leh.... Bring your gf along too..." I was like WTF?
And yesterday they ask, "eh want to watch movie? Bring ur gf along too leh..." I replied "don't want leh, for wat?" And they say "wah you steady lor..."
What is this group of people thinking? Helping that guy?
How am i suppose to deal with them? Are they playing mind games? -
You know what they say,
Keep Your Friends close, Keep Your Enemies Closer...
On a lighter note,
I do say u can forgo these frens of urs..
They might not be what u call real friends.
But hey, ur not not married, they still stand a chance.
So how do you keep ur gf's heart ?
This is the game of love ya know kid...
Anyway, U sound young. Too young to be worried about this.
So is it like or love for u ?
Are u sure its love for u ?
Cheers dude... -
His friends right? Just IGNORE them lah... It could be some sort of mind game if you PLAY ALONG with them... So no point.Originally posted by Dead_Man_Inc:Hi guys
There is a group of guys in my class that i can't trust. But sometimes i will joke with them or play soccer with them. 1 of the guy happens to fall in love with my gf. Once in the canteen, when i am not around, he purposely sit infront of my gf. The problem is thats not where he usually sit. what is he thinking? My gf and I quarrelled 1 or 2 times cuz of him.
This guy, i saw him on bus. I greet him. Guess what? He did not even greet back or look at me, but he smile to himself. Crazy ass. In class he will be looking at me like i snatch away his gf.
And every now and then, his group of friends will say, "eh go play soccer leh.... Bring your gf along too..." I was like WTF?
And yesterday they ask, "eh want to watch movie? Bring ur gf along too leh..." I replied "don't want leh, for wat?" And they say "wah you steady lor..."
What is this group of people thinking? Helping that guy?
How am i suppose to deal with them? Are they playing mind games? -
i'm sure its love for me...Originally posted by Sekundes:You know what they say,
On a lighter note,
I do say u can forgo these frens of urs..
They might not be what u call real friends.
But hey, ur not not married, they still stand a chance.
So how do you keep ur gf's heart ?
This is the game of love ya know kid...
Anyway, U sound young. Too young to be worried about this.
So is it like or love for u ?
Are u sure its love for u ?
Cheers dude...
will not worry that much if that guy have confident or wat..
but he's acting cowardly..
thx guys for all ur replies.. -
friend or foe... all are rivals for love..
may the best man wins!