maturity
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a girl jst said tt i was not mature..
and she was the same age at mi...younger if u count the months...17 now...
okie, obvious, it had been in my mind since haiz....
how can i change that..??
i wanna change tt!!
wat do girls look 4 ..for maturity..?? -
no cross-posting
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sry i delete the one at the other forum..Originally posted by FireIce:no cross-posting -
Which one should i close?Originally posted by FireIce:no cross-posting
ee nee meenee maii nee moh.
*scratch head* Don't know leh.
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1) the way you actions.Originally posted by yuntian:a girl jst said tt i was not mature..
and she was the same age at mi...younger if u count the months...17 now...
okie, obvious, it had been in my mind since haiz....
how can i change that..??
i wanna change tt!!
wat do girls look 4 ..for maturity..??
2) the way you think.
3) the way you plan for the future.
4) The amount of money you can earn.
5) The understanding you can give.
6) The way she can be proud of you.
Think over the few points first.
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maybe she wants you to think more into the future and plan for yourself? I am not sure what maturity she is talking about. is it how you handle things? or the way you communicate? But its common girls mature faster than guys. 17 still really really really young. its ok to be childish when you can.Originally posted by yuntian:a girl jst said tt i was not mature..
and she was the same age at mi...younger if u count the months...17 now...
okie, obvious, it had been in my mind since haiz....
how can i change that..??
i wanna change tt!!
wat do girls look 4 ..for maturity..?? -
Yuntain,
this is how gilrs are like.
now they tell you this, when you are 35 years old, they might say you not interesting because you too muture.
go and find someone which will appreciate you.
you can't get everyone to love / like you.
but there will be one that will.
Search and you will find. -
DONT talk about games too much. Concentrate on your school work. Becox there is one girl told me that i am not mature because I PLAYED TOO MUCH GAMES.
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the girl meant mentality maturity rather than appearance suffer more setbacks and willing to change and willing to learn from mistakes and have good character will be best XD
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Yuntian,
Maturity canNot be cultivated nor gained in 1 day. It comes from life's experience, & how much & how willing you are to learn from mistakes. If you don't want to learn, you don't grow/mature. Lotsa people in their 50s behave like spoiled brats still.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by yuntian:a girl jst said tt i was not mature..
and she was the same age at mi...younger if u count the months...17 now...
okie, obvious, it had been in my mind since haiz....
how can i change that..??
i wanna change tt!!
wat do girls look 4 ..for maturity..?? -
actually, what's wrong with being not matured? I find myself living a serious life when I'm being matured and then life isn't so fun anymore. On the other hand, when I hang out with my friends, I act stupid like a clown and it cheers them up, and it makes myself laugh like crazy too. Often, the kids laugh so much more than adults, they do lead a happier life. What I am saying is, when I am a kid at times, I find life so much more interesting and happier. Though I probably cannot act like a kid all the times, imagine doing monkey faces in front of M1's directors and managers during a serious business meeting.
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Well I do say this for the sake for another guy whose the same age as ya.Originally posted by yuntian:a girl jst said tt i was not mature..
and she was the same age at mi...younger if u count the months...17 now...
okie, obvious, it had been in my mind since haiz....
how can i change that..??
i wanna change tt!!
wat do girls look 4 ..for maturity..??
Though he likes my girl, but my girl rejected him sayign he was immature.
I do say that what girls really want is something that they feel secure about.
The guy that tried to wooed my girl was kind of big mouth kind, no sense of respect for my girl too.
The most amazing thing he did before My girl and I were an item,
was he challenged me pool, and used some mushy sentence like
" Hey (My gals Name) why never cheer me on, See now i losing.. "
Haha... this is somethings he says sometimes.
And before we're an item he goes like
"Hey Sekundes I treat u as my god Bro."
Then my thought I was like wtf I want a guy like as a god bro ?
No special Relation, all he wanted was to be closer to my gal,
haha... Because at that time, I was a very close fren to my gal.
He might have the character for the girls who likes this kind of stuff but I think he got the wrong idea on how to deal with girls.
Different girls like different things.
So...
There might be a girl who likes ur style after all ya know ? Its just not mean to be, it aren't mean to be. -
yuntian:
if it's your looks, then there's not much you can do...
but attitude and thinking wise, that's something you can work on.. -
Hmm...experience?
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yeah, the outlook and mentality after experience.Originally posted by hyperactivechatterbox:Hmm...experience?
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most people whom say that are normally not mature themselves.
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Hmm...yeah i suppose. I said that to my ex gf.Originally posted by dragg:most people whom say that are normally not mature themselves.
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join the army
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why do we have the same views?Originally posted by nightsky87:join the army
relax,u'll grow up sooner or later -
Haiz...must stike a balance lah. Depends on what you say, how you react, and when you do so.
Around your best friends and buddies you can act like amonkey and enjoy your life away but when you are around ppl who you are going to make an impression on, you better watch your behaviour. I mean, if a girl comes up to me and says and does childish things then obviously I wont like her right? On the other hand, if she starts an intelligent conversation, then I might find it kinda enjoyable.
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You guys at the same age as well?Originally posted by beavan:why do we have the same views?
relax,u'll grow up sooner or later