Urgent Help Needed~
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i Got to know my gf 3 month ago and got together about 1 month le..
currently i am stuck in army.. and she always miss me alot and want to meet me and i also miss her alot... and both of us stay far apart i stay at tampines she stay at chua chu kang...
den now aday she always tell me she want to see me and she can't see me... what can i do haiz... sometime i tried to explain to her but... still the same..
i really dunno what to do... i really love her alot... please help and give me very good advise... please... i am in real pain now... always see her sad i really heart very pain..... -
there are various ways of communication.of course the best would be a face-to-face conversation with her,but ur in army now..
phone talks and emails to update her on ur current status should suffice.send pictures of urself when u bookout the next time.account to her ur army life and how ur adapting to it...if possible,the occasional army happenings u experience during trainings.
of course,u should inquire abt her current affairs too.make jokes that u'll make up to her when u come out of army to humour her.
most imptly,tell her that u love her.u too miss her as much as she does.
this should keep the relationship ongoing,if she understands ur agony as well.
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i have tried every thing possible but after awhile i come back to square 1.... haiz..... she been telling me that even if i say i miss her a million time it dosen change any thing...
i really dunno what to do leh... what am i even suppose to do i am so blur now... -
find a constant time to meet up with her....
when u meet her... or are at her room.... hide little "love notes" all over her room or in her stuff so that she'll find them slowly and unexpectantly...
surprise gifts or visits are great. doesn't have to be $$$ just something that says I thought of you. -
Talk on the phone with her everyday if you can. that should cure it le ba. you all are just together so its normal for her to miss you so badly after a while then not so serious already, cause you 2 are still in the honeymoon period. haha
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There's a limit to what you can do cos of work requirements, she has to accept that... can she? Even if you try your very very best, if she's the spoilt brat type and is still not satisfied, you're screwed also.
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Aiya, everytime the same thing pops up.
First few week in NS, the girl will miss you dearly and you'll also miss her alot.
After A few month, as communication become lesser ans lesser, she dont evern care you are dead or alive.
After a year, Silent Break.
This happened toooooo common. -
introduce her to me i take care her until your end of nsOriginally posted by Bobby84:i Got to know my gf 3 month ago and got together about 1 month le..
currently i am stuck in army.. and she always miss me alot and want to meet me and i also miss her alot... and both of us stay far apart i stay at tampines she stay at chua chu kang...
den now aday she always tell me she want to see me and she can't see me... what can i do haiz... sometime i tried to explain to her but... still the same..
i really dunno what to do... i really love her alot... please help and give me very good advise... please... i am in real pain now... always see her sad i really heart very pain.....
seriously ok bo
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O.O...
the love note is a good idea.. tks ^-^ -
good luck
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this really depends on how much work both parties wanna put into a relationship.....Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Aiya, everytime the same thing pops up.
First few week in NS, the girl will miss you dearly and you'll also miss her alot.
After A few month, as communication become lesser ans lesser, she dont evern care you are dead or alive.
After a year, Silent Break.
This happened toooooo common.
it can work... but it takes 2 hand to clap -
u are welcome...Originally posted by Bobby84:O.O...
the love note is a good idea.. tks ^-^
good luck!!!