there is no such thing as true friends?
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I treat friends from the heart and yet some of the friend i know are just making use of me ... i feel depressed now... cos people u care, actually treat u as unimportant.. and when i want to stop caring, i can't help but feel sad
am i a fool?? i forgive and forget some of my fren's mistakes andoverlook their flaws cos i want to accept my friends as who they are. . and yet... when i know their attitude changed after somethings happened, i try feel very sianz... very disheartened with friends around me...
maybe i should fake myself infront of the people i used to care... it hard..
Maybe there is no such thing as a true friends? I don't ask for friendship that last forever but at least when we were friends, i hope it true...am im too navie for my idea? -
come on leave them behind and look for better friends...Originally posted by skyliner_:I treat friends from the heart and yet some of the friend i know are just making use of me ... i feel depressed now... cos people u care, actually treat u as unimportant.. and when i want to stop caring, i can't help but feel sad
am i a fool?? i forgive and forget some of my fren's mistakes andoverlook their flaws cos i want to accept my friends as who they are. . and yet... when i know their attitude changed after somethings happened, i try feel very sianz... very disheartened with friends around me...
maybe i should fake myself infront of the people i used to care... it hard..
Maybe there is no such thing as a true friends? I don't ask for friendship that last forever but at least when we were friends, i hope it true...am im too navie for my idea? -
Does the Tooth Fairy and Santa Claus exist?
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dun cry for people who are not worthy of ur tears.
i have true frens, quite a number of them too, they are always there for me and lift up my spirit when im down.
in ur case, they are probably ur acquaintances.
i have seen through quite a lot of people.. the people around me who i treated as frens. but under certain circumstances, i saw the selfish and ugly side of them. perhaps pple say 'ren bu wei ji tian zhu di mie" (one should always think for onself first) is true..
stop allowing them to make use of u. dun have too much expectation from a fren and u wun be disappointed.
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agreed with sekundes.Originally posted by Sekundes:come on leave them behind and look for better friends... -
Totally agree.Originally posted by Sekundes:come on leave them behind and look for better friends...
" True Friends are like stars, you can't always see them but you know that they are always there." -
there are true friends around jz that u havent met them yet so jz chill la....
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Yup dere is true frenz... but its up to u to find out...mb de frenz u have now r not treating u nicely...den since they dun appreciate i suggest u leave them...although saying is easier den done... mb u should trying to mingle with other frenz...and forget bout those frenz u have...
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welcome to the real world
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the only person you can truely trust, is not even yourserlf.
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All my friends I have, sad to say, non is a true friend. When I need serious help, all run away.
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Hey, i can understand ur feeling, some of my so-called freinds are like that too, sometimes i felt like a fool being used, but this is wat u n i hav chsen to "help" them? Perhaps we invited the unwanted sadness to our own self?Originally posted by skyliner_:I treat friends from the heart and yet some of the friend i know are just making use of me ... i feel depressed now... cos people u care, actually treat u as unimportant.. and when i want to stop caring, i can't help but feel sad
am i a fool?? i forgive and forget some of my fren's mistakes andoverlook their flaws cos i want to accept my friends as who they are. . and yet... when i know their attitude changed after somethings happened, i try feel very sianz... very disheartened with friends around me...
maybe i should fake myself infront of the people i used to care... it hard..
Maybe there is no such thing as a true friends? I don't ask for friendship that last forever but at least when we were friends, i hope it true...am im too navie for my idea?
Well, friends in a NICE word = always there for u
put in an AWFUL word = making use of each other
The world is practical, sigh ~ -
Wait for the special one~
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there is but it is Very hard to find !Originally posted by skyliner_:I treat friends from the heart and yet some of the friend i know are just making use of me ... i feel depressed now... cos people u care, actually treat u as unimportant.. and when i want to stop caring, i can't help but feel sad
am i a fool?? i forgive and forget some of my fren's mistakes andoverlook their flaws cos i want to accept my friends as who they are. . and yet... when i know their attitude changed after somethings happened, i try feel very sianz... very disheartened with friends around me...
maybe i should fake myself infront of the people i used to care... it hard..
Maybe there is no such thing as a true friends? I don't ask for friendship that last forever but at least when we were friends, i hope it true...am im too navie for my idea? -
Sometimes it's just hard to definite what's 'true' and what's not... Friends like ordinary humans, make mistakes...Originally posted by skyliner_:I treat friends from the heart and yet some of the friend i know are just making use of me ... i feel depressed now... cos people u care, actually treat u as unimportant.. and when i want to stop caring, i can't help but feel sad
am i a fool?? i forgive and forget some of my fren's mistakes andoverlook their flaws cos i want to accept my friends as who they are. . and yet... when i know their attitude changed after somethings happened, i try feel very sianz... very disheartened with friends around me...
maybe i should fake myself infront of the people i used to care... it hard..
Maybe there is no such thing as a true friends? I don't ask for friendship that last forever but at least when we were friends, i hope it true...am im too navie for my idea? -
Hi
All of us have different personalities.
All of us have different expectation of friends.
It's just that you havent meet up friends that match your expectations and click with your personality. I'm sure one day your dream can be fulfilled. Meanwhile have to lower your expectation. -
you have to take it.
the world is created in such a way.. -
True friends exist, some permanently, some temporarily cos people are suceptible to change over time.
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Agreed there are true fren who are sincere ones around... but they are hard to find and rare ... most of my frens are the fxxx type ones
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Hey skyliner,Originally posted by skyliner_:I treat friends from the heart and yet some of the friend i know are just making use of me ... i feel depressed now... cos people u care, actually treat u as unimportant.. and when i want to stop caring, i can't help but feel sad
am i a fool?? i forgive and forget some of my fren's mistakes andoverlook their flaws cos i want to accept my friends as who they are. . and yet... when i know their attitude changed after somethings happened, i try feel very sianz... very disheartened with friends around me...
maybe i should fake myself infront of the people i used to care... it hard..
Maybe there is no such thing as a true friends? I don't ask for friendship that last forever but at least when we were friends, i hope it true...am im too navie for my idea?
Dont feel too sad lah...
I've the same experience some few wks ago when my frens actually betrayed me and this really wasted our friendship cos I cant accept ppl who take me for granted n treat me like an idiot...
I have tried to accept their flaws cos I have my own flaws as well but wat they did really tested my limits and I have been trying to put a "mask" whenever we r together n I feel so "fake"... so not me...
I've fimally decided to cease our friendship... thou its a pity cos they were once there for me when I needed someone but sometimes when its fated to end something, it'll end somehw... no matter hw reluctant...
The abv r jus my thots for your reference only... depends on hw ur case is... IF there isn't a need to end the friendship then try to salvage it
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mom is right...nvr trust any friend 100%...only ur kinship can be trusted.
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Trust no one.
Kinship also cannot be 100% trusted. I have 100% trust in my parents only . -
Trust no one......its harsh but true
Not saying to close up and be hostile to everyone but just don't put yur heart and trust into others too much.
If a husband/wife can betray or desert you, what more a friend?
The only people worth trusting are one's parents (in general)