Originally posted by ChairmanJay:
if she admit she is a playgirl last time, will u accept her?
The same girl who recently played those mind games?
The same girl who ran around chasing other boys in another thread of yours?
And as things stand right now, she is still a player who enjoys mind games.
Her actions are telling me so.
Look at her actions rather than kill your brain cells over what she said.So when she tells you she was a player,
and she is still behaving like a player, you are going to listen to what your gut is telling you.
My gut tells me this:She is asking for permission to continue doing what she is doing.
She is asking for permission to abuse you.
She is telling you upfront what you can expect in a relationship with her.
If you accept her regardless, you are asking to be emotionally raped.
There is no strong undying love at this point. DonÂ’t expect her to move mountains for you.Your irrational thoughts right now are as follows:Why is she telling me all this?
Maybe she feels guilty about not appreciating me in the past?
Maybe she loves me so much that she is telling me she has changed for my sake?
Ignore all those irrational thoughts. Listen to what your gut is telling you.Has she changed any facts by simply making a comment?
No.
Words are cheap. Observe her actions a little longer.
Patience is a virtue.Good luck and take care.
