Change of heart ?
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Hi all,
Been following this forum for a quite a while now ... finally decided to sign up .. haha
Anyway, i got to know tis gal abt 2 mths ago, and we sort of hitted off quite well, chatting over the fone everyday for almost 2 weeks and even met up 3 times in 1 week... so i thought, i stood a good chance in wooing her rite ? if she wasn't interested she would have given "excuses" abt not meeting or not free etc rite ..
Actually, when it comes to gals i REALLY like, i dunno y i become a bit shy ... normal galfrens or gals im not interested in, im pretty cool n i can talk crap etc w/out thinking so much ... but wif her i must admit i wasnt myself 100% in tat sense... So i asked her over the fone, whether she knew i was interested in her, and she said so obvious ... haha But then, she came up wif all sort of excuses tat she wasn't ready to be in r/ship etc even though when i said im willing to "wait" a while as long as i know i have a chance ...
U guys think i should have asked her in person? i sort of regret asking her over the fone leh... would it have made a difference ? ever since she made it clear in a way, she wasnt interested, i stopped calling or msg her n she didnt take initiative to msg me once ..., guess she was only interested in the attention, but somehow i think there's more to it that she didnt want to say ...
cheers -
dun be in a rush ba, allow both more time to know each other better..
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Well... Whether you should have done it or not, you've already DONE it...?Originally posted by Regal:Hi all,
Been following this forum for a quite a while now ... finally decided to sign up .. haha
Anyway, i got to know tis gal abt 2 mths ago, and we sort of hitted off quite well, chatting over the fone everyday for almost 2 weeks and even met up 3 times in 1 week... so i thought, i stood a good chance in wooing her rite ? if she wasn't interested she would have given "excuses" abt not meeting or not free etc rite ..
Actually, when it comes to gals i REALLY like, i dunno y i become a bit shy ... normal galfrens or gals im not interested in, im pretty cool n i can talk crap etc w/out thinking so much ... but wif her i must admit i wasnt myself 100% in tat sense... So i asked her over the fone, whether she knew i was interested in her, and she said so obvious ... haha But then, she came up wif all sort of excuses tat she wasn't ready to be in r/ship etc even though when i said im willing to "wait" a while as long as i know i have a chance ...
U guys think i should have asked her in person? i sort of regret asking her over the fone leh... would it have made a difference ? ever since she made it clear in a way, she wasnt interested, i stopped calling or msg her n she didnt take initiative to msg me once ..., guess she was only interested in the attention, but somehow i think there's more to it that she didnt want to say ...
cheers -
dont make my mistake. take it slow...
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wouldnt make a diff to me.. but that's juz me..
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sounds so like my ex...
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u are rushing things. gals dun like guys to rush things. take it slowly until she reveals she likes u. so what if she agrees to meet u? she could jus have like u as a friend.Originally posted by Regal:Hi all,
Been following this forum for a quite a while now ... finally decided to sign up .. haha
Anyway, i got to know tis gal abt 2 mths ago, and we sort of hitted off quite well, chatting over the fone everyday for almost 2 weeks and even met up 3 times in 1 week... so i thought, i stood a good chance in wooing her rite ? if she wasn't interested she would have given "excuses" abt not meeting or not free etc rite ..
Actually, when it comes to gals i REALLY like, i dunno y i become a bit shy ... normal galfrens or gals im not interested in, im pretty cool n i can talk crap etc w/out thinking so much ... but wif her i must admit i wasnt myself 100% in tat sense... So i asked her over the fone, whether she knew i was interested in her, and she said so obvious ... haha But then, she came up wif all sort of excuses tat she wasn't ready to be in r/ship etc even though when i said im willing to "wait" a while as long as i know i have a chance ...
U guys think i should have asked her in person? i sort of regret asking her over the fone leh... would it have made a difference ? ever since she made it clear in a way, she wasnt interested, i stopped calling or msg her n she didnt take initiative to msg me once ..., guess she was only interested in the attention, but somehow i think there's more to it that she didnt want to say ...
cheers
now, she tells u "not ready for a r/s'', to translate that code, it means: ''sorry, i dun consider u as a bf material. pls stop buggin me.'' That explains why she becomes less interested in u.
dude, stop thinking of all kinds of reasons why she rejected u. the fact is, she has no interest in u after she revealed her answer to u. It's time to leave her alone. -
get on with your life
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exactlyOriginally posted by nightsky87:get on with your life -
Originally posted by Regal:Hi all,
Been following this forum for a quite a while now ... finally decided to sign up .. haha
Anyway, i got to know tis gal abt 2 mths ago, and we sort of hitted off quite well, chatting over the fone everyday for almost 2 weeks and even met up 3 times in 1 week... so i thought, i stood a good chance in wooing her rite ? if she wasn't interested she would have given "excuses" abt not meeting or not free etc rite ..
Actually, when it comes to gals i REALLY like, i dunno y i become a bit shy ... normal galfrens or gals im not interested in, im pretty cool n i can talk crap etc w/out thinking so much ... but wif her i must admit i wasnt myself 100% in tat sense... So i asked her over the fone, whether she knew i was interested in her, and she said so obvious ... haha But then, she came up wif all sort of excuses tat she wasn't ready to be in r/ship etc even though when i said im willing to "wait" a while as long as i know i have a chance ...
U guys think i should have asked her in person? i sort of regret asking her over the fone leh... would it have made a difference ? ever since she made it clear in a way, she wasnt interested, i stopped calling or msg her n she didnt take initiative to msg me once ..., guess she was only interested in the attention, but somehow i think there's more to it that she didnt want to say ...
cheers
In simple, it was a rejection.
If she liked you, you can even send her a snail mail and she would have agreed.
A phone call and asking in person would make some difference, but it wouldn't matter if you ain't part of her list.
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Yunhaier v straightfwd wo.Originally posted by Yunhaier: In simple, it was a rejection.
If she liked you, you can even send her a snail mail and she would have agreed.
A phone call and asking in person would make some difference, but it wouldn't matter if you ain't part of her list.
Cheers
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btw who ask who to go out and who call who first?
going out with u or chatting with u daily does not mean she love/like u -_-
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This is not the best cut.Originally posted by yuko-ogura:Yunhaier v straightfwd wo.
Should have seen some other thread...he did the cut through, fast and painless. -
thats how it should beOriginally posted by M©+square:This is not the best cut.
Should have seen some other thread...he did the cut through, fast and painless. 
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The way of ninja.Originally posted by coffeeortea:thats how it should be -
no, it is nt a change of heart.....
she probably got a bit scared by u.......
but den, if u view it from another point, dat gal is in the wrongg....by giving him so much attention which eventually leads to this misunderstanding,...........
u shld take it slowly....hahahaz
nvr mind dude, this teaches u to be smarter next time...... -
Ya friends, you should take these nice people words seriously. I truly agree in what they say. As my circumstances, I happen to fond on a girl very seriously in my Church, we pay a lot of attention to one another, chat with each other in msn whenever either one of us online and ask each other out during our leisure. She take notice of me most of the time when I wasn't with her and even sms/call me and ask where am I? and I was like you, thought she likes me and stood a chance with her so I confess to her and guess what she says? She says that she only treat me like a very best of the best friend in her life only, nothing more than that.Originally posted by Regal:Hi all,
Been following this forum for a quite a while now ... finally decided to sign up .. haha
Anyway, i got to know tis gal abt 2 mths ago, and we sort of hitted off quite well, chatting over the fone everyday for almost 2 weeks and even met up 3 times in 1 week... so i thought, i stood a good chance in wooing her rite ? if she wasn't interested she would have given "excuses" abt not meeting or not free etc rite ..
Actually, when it comes to gals i REALLY like, i dunno y i become a bit shy ... normal galfrens or gals im not interested in, im pretty cool n i can talk crap etc w/out thinking so much ... but wif her i must admit i wasnt myself 100% in tat sense... So i asked her over the fone, whether she knew i was interested in her, and she said so obvious ... haha But then, she came up wif all sort of excuses tat she wasn't ready to be in r/ship etc even though when i said im willing to "wait" a while as long as i know i have a chance ...
U guys think i should have asked her in person? i sort of regret asking her over the fone leh... would it have made a difference ? ever since she made it clear in a way, she wasnt interested, i stopped calling or msg her n she didnt take initiative to msg me once ..., guess she was only interested in the attention, but somehow i think there's more to it that she didnt want to say ...
cheers
Not to mention, my heart sink deeply, but what to do? just move on lor....
So hard to make a girl fall for you nowadays....
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Some girls just want you as a good friend. If you think about it, there might be some good girls around that you want to keep as your good friend forever.
We all know that most relationships won't last (depending on your age, maturity and stability) especially if you're still a teenager. If you're able to see it this way, there might be occasions that you decide to keep her as a friend instead of risk losing her someday. -
So you prefer essay style instead ar?Originally posted by yuko-ogura:Yunhaier v straightfwd wo.
Cheers -
Originally posted by coffeeortea:thats how it should be
Ki siao....Originally posted by M©+square:The way of ninja.
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it cld bcos she enjoyed your company, tatz y she is okie w talking to u on e phone, and hang out as friends...
prob wat she feels is: lack of chemistry btw u two
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well i tink wad is done is done, dun cry over it too much le........
sometimes these kind of things reallie cannot rush one.....
u muz also see for urself whether is she suitable for u or not and look from another perspective..........dun be blinded by love...........
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bro ask you something you know this gal for only 2 months. Then you want her to be your gf ? err... a bit too fast rite?? she hardly know you ...Originally posted by Regal:Hi all,
Been following this forum for a quite a while now ... finally decided to sign up .. haha
Anyway, i got to know tis gal abt 2 mths ago, and we sort of hitted off quite well, chatting over the fone everyday for almost 2 weeks and even met up 3 times in 1 week... so i thought, i stood a good chance in wooing her rite ? if she wasn't interested she would have given "excuses" abt not meeting or not free etc rite ..
Actually, when it comes to gals i REALLY like, i dunno y i become a bit shy ... normal galfrens or gals im not interested in, im pretty cool n i can talk crap etc w/out thinking so much ... but wif her i must admit i wasnt myself 100% in tat sense... So i asked her over the fone, whether she knew i was interested in her, and she said so obvious ... haha But then, she came up wif all sort of excuses tat she wasn't ready to be in r/ship etc even though when i said im willing to "wait" a while as long as i know i have a chance ...
U guys think i should have asked her in person? i sort of regret asking her over the fone leh... would it have made a difference ? ever since she made it clear in a way, she wasnt interested, i stopped calling or msg her n she didnt take initiative to msg me once ..., guess she was only interested in the attention, but somehow i think there's more to it that she didnt want to say ...
cheers
nvm just treat this as a learning experience...
is normal to be shy with the gal the you like.. everyone does that.
Especailly if is your first few experenice with love. -
haha... dun worry guys, i sort of know i rushed into asking her too soon... but then again, i didnt want her to lead me on either ... depends on how u look at it i guess
I must admit i wanted to know straightaway and see how things were progressing between us ... like wat u guys said, if she were interested in me, she would have "hinted" at me when i asked her then...
Im not crying over split milk, guess next time i'll use a different tactic to woo gals. I'll just treat her as normal fren ... see wat happens
anyway, she's NOT the only fish in the sea...so im quite cool abt it 
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yeah tt's gd.Originally posted by Regal:haha... dun worry guys, i sort of know i rushed into asking her too soon... but then again, i didnt want her to lead me on either ... depends on how u look at it i guess
I must admit i wanted to know straightaway and see how things were progressing between us ... like wat u guys said, if she were interested in me, she would have "hinted" at me when i asked her then...
Im not crying over split milk, guess next time i'll use a different tactic to woo gals. I'll just treat her as normal fren ... see wat happens anyway, she's NOT the only fish in the sea...so im quite cool abt it