a confession
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u know sometimes when u have this sudden urge to tell someone u like her but u hold back beacuse u fear the repercusions??had this feeling for a long time,did not tell the gals that i liked previously and always wondered why i didnt do it back then.
I recently fell for this gal and i do know her,and this strong emotional feeling starts to re-surface.I dont want to stay in further agony so i decided to tell her how i felt.However shes a very shy gal,i mean really shy,never had i met such ppl before,so a phone confession is out,i dropped her a mail at midnight yesterday.
sad to say i havent received any replies,i just hope at least she gives me a reply then leave me hanging in the air,even a no is much better than nothing.
shd i ask her if she receives the mail or shd i ask her again?hai~~~ -
how come your problem so similar to mine...
until now i no gf. so sad for me.
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hai sucks right,i tot we could become one,and the feelings were so strong,it seems strange that other attributes become so trival,that strange feelings just bind u and her together,hai~~
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Never use mail or SMS if you're sincere. Do it in person, at least you get an answer.
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You should ask her instead of dropping her a mail. What if she doesn't check her mail daily?! hmm...
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yes,you are a man, so just be one and be brave!!Originally posted by aRcTiC_sTaR:Never use mail or SMS if you're sincere. Do it in person, at least you get an answer. -
email is not the way ba..
if she's not interested, she can even say that she did not receive. -
Email = no definate answer.
You can wake til the sun don't shine and you won't get a reply. Yes... saves you the embarassment and stuff... but leaves you hanging... and lets her drop you like a bad habit.
I tried this and I got really lucky that she saw it a half an hour later... in your case... she might even ignore the message and pretend nothing happened. -
i tried thru msn.. and .. outcome was good.. bt nt exactly acceptance... bt good as at least i told her hw i Feel..
DUN HAVE REGRET IN LIFE
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would u like to try asking her on the phone, or in person? the response would be better that way
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yea man.... i tried sms b4.... didnt work... would let the gal think u r not sincere in the 1st place also... pluck up the courage and do it on the phone... in person wld b best bt if u are like me who cant put it in words in front of the gal then tell her over the phone.Originally posted by aRcTiC_sTaR:Never use mail or SMS if you're sincere. Do it in person, at least you get an answer.
think u shld call her now to ask her directly.... dun mention abt the mail.... ask and confess over the phone -
similar to me too.
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similiar to me too...my friens told my crush i like er and she tot they were jokin
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for me i sms her cos we are separated by a causeway. den she keep telling me now is friends only. in future she duno. i abit dun understand also.
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smetimes the ans gals give guys are veri hard to guess....
some times is becux they are not decided that's y they say now friends 1st or smething like tat....
but i think it's better to give a clear yes or no.... else actuali quite hurt and unfair for the guy....
agree with me, ladies and gentlemen?? -
Originally posted by falling_stars:smetimes the ans gals give guys are veri hard to guess....
some times is becux they are not decided that's y they say now friends 1st or smething like tat....
but i think it's better to give a clear yes or no.... else actuali quite hurt and unfair for the guy....
agree with me, ladies and gentlemen??
In the game of love, being ambiguous is part of the game. -
Originally posted by aRcTiC_sTaR:Never use mail or SMS if you're sincere. Do it in person, at least you get an answer.
holy shi t... -
Very well.Originally posted by Parka: In the game of love, being ambiguous is part of the game.
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You can set your email to request a read-receipt when she reads your email. What happens is when she opens your email, her email program automatically send an email back to your inbox to notify you that she had read the email. She can't deny she never read your email when you have this.Originally posted by browniebaobao:email is not the way ba..
if she's not interested, she can even say that she did not receive. -
how to set?Originally posted by geodome:You can set your email to request a read-receipt when she reads your email. What happens is when she opens your email, her email program automatically send an email back to your inbox to notify you that she had read the email. She can't deny she never read your email when you have this. -
Well, i thk most probably she din know how to reply back since she's a shy girl...
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well obviously she doesnt like u, unless she never checks her mail. then again...if u really want to make sure the message goes into her head jus call to meet for coffee.Originally posted by SVG84R:u know sometimes when u have this sudden urge to tell someone u like her but u hold back beacuse u fear the repercusions??had this feeling for a long time,did not tell the gals that i liked previously and always wondered why i didnt do it back then.
I recently fell for this gal and i do know her,and this strong emotional feeling starts to re-surface.I dont want to stay in further agony so i decided to tell her how i felt.However shes a very shy gal,i mean really shy,never had i met such ppl before,so a phone confession is out,i dropped her a mail at midnight yesterday.
sad to say i havent received any replies,i just hope at least she gives me a reply then leave me hanging in the air,even a no is much better than nothing.
shd i ask her if she receives the mail or shd i ask her again?hai~~~
If she rejects, u should know there's no chance for u. Full-stop. No other reasons.
If she accepts, there's still hope.
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hey man ,
Just wanted 2 drop a word of encouragement , if you really like this girl, just tell her how u feel , do it through a phone cuz face 2 face confessions may end up being her ignoring u for the rest of ur life situations .. trust me lol..
If you're afraid then just think ... the worst thing that could happen 2 u is her rejecting u politely.. no girl would throw it in ur face and luagh at u or anything like that unless her heart is made of ice =.= Most successful people in the world today r people who rise up to challenges no matter how many times they fail . So take this as a challenge cuz if u jus give up too easily ur not gonna b successful in anything . take my word for it call her , DONT THINK ABOUT IT , thinking will only increase your fear of absolutely nothing . jus pick the phone up dial her number and suck ur guts up and never slam the phone in fear . i mean think of it as just talking 2 another person .
=) good luck .