Should I confess to her on her birthday or valentines day?
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v day jus another day la... jus keep her guessingOriginally posted by wonderamazement:Yep V-DAY is my D-DAY
but still, I dunno can pluck up courage or not... 
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confess=risk, accept=r/s, reject=no more frens.
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spotted her at an promotional event last aug.Originally posted by wonderamazement:Who's the her??
something stopping me frm...(other than my mum ard)
been thinking abt her since -
aiyo... wait for gals to do it... i tink mayb till the end of days then can....Originally posted by dokono:i have to warn u from doing that. let her do it to u. if not u will make a fool of urself. -
Originally posted by bismarck:spotted her at an promotional event last aug.
something stopping me frm...(other than my mum ard)
been thinking abt her since 
Love @ first sight? Oh by the way i did not confess yet...i think b4 her birthday betta, besides i dun dare give her presents today for V-Day cos got so many guys give her, i scared what i give is inferior..... -
might be even better. though the odds are much higher.Originally posted by wonderamazement: Love @ first sight? Oh by the way i did not confess yet...i think b4 her birthday betta, besides i dun dare give her presents today for V-Day cos got so many guys give her, i scared what i give is inferior.....
anyway if u succeeded and she cares abt quality more than quantity, u can win her heart even with a copy of TNP
just kidding on the papers part -
O RLYOriginally posted by bismarck:might be even better. though the odds are much higher.
anyway if u succeeded and she cares abt quality more than quantity, u can win her heart even with a copy of TNP
just kidding on the papers part .....besides i think i will not even have the courage to do it in the end, anything to boost self confidence like anxiety de-stresser? -
tell someone if you don't do it... he can kick you in the nuts... literally.Originally posted by wonderamazement:O RLY .....besides i think i will not even have the courage to do it in the end, anything to boost self confidence like anxiety de-stresser?
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Oh man, i think she just wants to be good friends...that's all we can ever be man....f*ck man...
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Would you rather she hate you...?Originally posted by wonderamazement:Oh man, i think she just wants to be good friends...that's all we can ever be man....f*ck man... -
Of course not, but i think if you view it from another angle, things may seem positive..so i'm damned confused now!!Originally posted by DrTech:Would you rather she hate you...?
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Love cannot be forced..Originally posted by wonderamazement:Of course not, but i think if you view it from another angle, things may seem positive..so i'm damned confused now!! -
Haiz...i really don't know now..i don't think i wanna hear the truth cos it wil hurt, it's like you keep thinking there's hope but when she tells you NO, then it's a diff story...
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i made a confession on V-day. Jus wait for the Results.. jus like secondary waiting for O level like tat...haaa... hope it turn out well...
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so...whats the final result?
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she said she needs to think abt it.. i decide to gif her a wk to think thru.. cant rush her wah... i gng thailand for training for a month soon hopefully get a positive reply from her...
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no u mus wait for her to choose u. saying it makes u look desperate for her love. must be sharp to catch her hints for eg. " So are we together now?". Something like that.Originally posted by falling_stars:aiyo... wait for gals to do it... i tink mayb till the end of days then can.... -
i hope u expect for the worst possible situation. Think abt it: Assuming she has a lot of feelings for u, will she need a lot of time to think abt it? Think like a detective. Do not let her mixed signals confuse u.Originally posted by Rod1984:she said she needs to think abt it.. i decide to gif her a wk to think thru.. cant rush her wah... i gng thailand for training for a month soon hopefully get a positive reply from her... -
that's y i say dun confess but learn to read signals. Gals sometimes will not tell u directly one.Originally posted by wonderamazement:Haiz...i really don't know now..i don't think i wanna hear the truth cos it wil hurt, it's like you keep thinking there's hope but when she tells you NO, then it's a diff story... -
heh i also had the same thing..now too late and have to wait for her bd to give her things...but the most of the class know abt it already..Originally posted by wonderamazement:She asked why I so gd to her before...then ask is it becos I like her...haiz so confused...should I have confessed then? -
she is happy and excited on the day i gif her flowers.... and promise to hav dinner wif me tis wk... i screw up by confessing to her...tat consider a signal?
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wad do u mean screw up? can u be more specific?Originally posted by Rod1984:she is happy and excited on the day i gif her flowers.... and promise to hav dinner wif me tis wk... i screw up by confessing to her...tat consider a signal? -
how specific.? she call back after receiving my flowers.. she sounds very happy and excited about that, i ask her wanna to come out for dinner on tat day. she said she duno wat time fang gong.? so i wait lor.. in the end she got to work OT. soo she say "hope is tis wk" so i okay lor.. ard midnite i msg her "is there a possibility btw us".... nxt morning den she reply, she need to think thru it.. so i wait lor..till nw..
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hey i got news for u: if a gal is really interested in u, she will make it clear what time and when she will meet up with u.Originally posted by Rod1984:how specific.? she call back after receiving my flowers.. she sounds very happy and excited about that, i ask her wanna to come out for dinner on tat day. she said she duno wat time fang gong.? so i wait lor.. in the end she got to work OT. soo she say "hope is tis wk" so i okay lor.. ard midnite i msg her "is there a possibility btw us".... nxt morning den she reply, she need to think thru it.. so i wait lor..till nw..
But dun worry, u can learn from this. Bro, u screwed up by asking her that question and chances are: when she said she needs time to think, the possibility is very very very very VERY low.
U want to know what's ur mistake: U msged her at such a late timing to ask her this? Are u really thinking clearly? Of cos she will tell u this.
Now, pls do not do anything now and wait for her to contact u because she owes u a reply. If nothing happens, forget her because clearly she has no interest in u. -
wat happens if she really reply.. she said it didnt come into her mind yet..and need time to think..