Friend Avoiding Me?
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Notice a little problem these few days.
One of my female sec sch friend whom I've not been keeping much in touch with but on my MSN messenger list seems to ve avoiding me online. I feel so weird, since I've not made an advances or suggest to date her at all.
A few days ago, I just happened to see her online after many months, so I messaged her usual thing like "Hello! how have you been?" Then I concluded almost immediately with "Busy at work now. Talk to you again if got chance."
Then yesterday and today, the moment I go online, she immediately goes offline. I thought yesterday was co-incidental, but today the same thing happens. When I just got online, she was online but within 2 seconds, she was offline.
I wonder if she's hyper-sensitive and think I will make advances towards her kind of thing, that's why she's trying to avoid me. Which i will then feel is funny, since I've not done anything to suggest that. Or is she afraid that I'll try to date her out today since she's single?
Woman, unfathomable... -
First things first. Are you interested in her?
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women
they are too complicated for a 14 year old 
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Not really. I've other better choices. Just that I feel she's over-reacting when I've done nothing to trigger that reaction.Originally posted by hyperactivechatterbox:First things first. Are you interested in her? -
You concluded or she concluded?Originally posted by social_misfit:Notice a little problem these few days.
One of my female sec sch friend whom I've not been keeping much in touch with but on my MSN messenger list seems to ve avoiding me online. I feel so weird, since I've not made an advances or suggest to date her at all.
A few days ago, I just happened to see her online after many months, so I messaged her usual thing like "Hello! how have you been?" Then I concluded almost immediately with "Busy at work now. Talk to you again if got chance."
Then yesterday and today, the moment I go online, she immediately goes offline. I thought yesterday was co-incidental, but today the same thing happens. When I just got online, she was online but within 2 seconds, she was offline.
I wonder if she's hyper-sensitive and think I will make advances towards her kind of thing, that's why she's trying to avoid me. Which i will then feel is funny, since I've not done anything to suggest that. Or is she afraid that I'll try to date her out today since she's single?
Woman, unfathomable... -
I concluded. Me...Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:You concluded or she concluded? -
well, if you don't like her, then this shouldn't be bothering you at all
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You're just too sensitive about this matter. Anybody can log out anytime they want and you shouldn't read too much into anybody's actions. Moreover she's not close to you, so you should not let your thoughts wander into some self-romantic situations.Originally posted by social_misfit:Notice a little problem these few days.
One of my female sec sch friend whom I've not been keeping much in touch with but on my MSN messenger list seems to ve avoiding me online. I feel so weird, since I've not made an advances or suggest to date her at all.
A few days ago, I just happened to see her online after many months, so I messaged her usual thing like "Hello! how have you been?" Then I concluded almost immediately with "Busy at work now. Talk to you again if got chance."
Then yesterday and today, the moment I go online, she immediately goes offline. I thought yesterday was co-incidental, but today the same thing happens. When I just got online, she was online but within 2 seconds, she was offline.
I wonder if she's hyper-sensitive and think I will make advances towards her kind of thing, that's why she's trying to avoid me. Which i will then feel is funny, since I've not done anything to suggest that. Or is she afraid that I'll try to date her out today since she's single?
Woman, unfathomable...
Admit it, you do like her...or else her actions won't be affecting you right now.
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Hey Parn, haven't seen you in a long while
Anyway, gotta disagree with you on this 1 1 of my old friends recently went berserk on me, & although I don't like him in that way, it bugged me alot leh 
FeowFeowOriginally posted by parn:You're just too sensitive about this matter. Anybody can log out anytime they want and you shouldn't read too much into anybody's actions. Moreover she's not close to you, so you should not let your thoughts wander into some self-romantic situations.
Admit it, you do like her...or else her actions won't be affecting you right now. -
ya right............as if you very good like that other better choices.......Originally posted by social_misfit:Not really. I've other better choices. Just that I feel she's over-reacting when I've done nothing to trigger that reaction. -
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Well... it could just be that she's really busy, or you could be too sensitive...Originally posted by social_misfit:Not really. I've other better choices. Just that I feel she's over-reacting when I've done nothing to trigger that reaction. -
Hmm...care to explain which part you disagree?Originally posted by FeowFeow:Hey Parn, haven't seen you in a long while
Anyway, gotta disagree with you on this 1 1 of my old friends recently went berserk on me, & although I don't like him in that way, it bugged me alot leh
FeowFeow
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parn is so clever de....Originally posted by parn:You're just too sensitive about this matter. Anybody can log out anytime they want and you shouldn't read too much into anybody's actions. Moreover she's not close to you, so you should not let your thoughts wander into some self-romantic situations.
Admit it, you do like her...or else her actions won't be affecting you right now. -
Did you run out of cash recently? Did your shares plummet? Did your parents lose big time on investment plans? Did you mention you were recweiving less pocket money? These are factors that make some girls wanna overlook you search for other preys.Originally posted by social_misfit:Notice a little problem these few days.
One of my female sec sch friend whom I've not been keeping much in touch with but on my MSN messenger list seems to ve avoiding me online. I feel so weird, since I've not made an advances or suggest to date her at all.
A few days ago, I just happened to see her online after many months, so I messaged her usual thing like "Hello! how have you been?" Then I concluded almost immediately with "Busy at work now. Talk to you again if got chance."
Then yesterday and today, the moment I go online, she immediately goes offline. I thought yesterday was co-incidental, but today the same thing happens. When I just got online, she was online but within 2 seconds, she was offline.
I wonder if she's hyper-sensitive and think I will make advances towards her kind of thing, that's why she's trying to avoid me. Which i will then feel is funny, since I've not done anything to suggest that. Or is she afraid that I'll try to date her out today since she's single?
Woman, unfathomable... -
have you done something wrong to make her avoid you?Originally posted by social_misfit:Notice a little problem these few days.
One of my female sec sch friend whom I've not been keeping much in touch with but on my MSN messenger list seems to ve avoiding me online. I feel so weird, since I've not made an advances or suggest to date her at all.
A few days ago, I just happened to see her online after many months, so I messaged her usual thing like "Hello! how have you been?" Then I concluded almost immediately with "Busy at work now. Talk to you again if got chance."
Then yesterday and today, the moment I go online, she immediately goes offline. I thought yesterday was co-incidental, but today the same thing happens. When I just got online, she was online but within 2 seconds, she was offline.
I wonder if she's hyper-sensitive and think I will make advances towards her kind of thing, that's why she's trying to avoid me. Which i will then feel is funny, since I've not done anything to suggest that. Or is she afraid that I'll try to date her out today since she's single?
Woman, unfathomable...
sometimes you might have did something which you don't even know of yourself.
so i suggest you try ask her straight to the face. ask her why is she avoiding you, and what you've done to make her do that. then do something to make up for it. -
the fact is u are not close to her at all.Originally posted by social_misfit:Notice a little problem these few days.
One of my female sec sch friend whom I've not been keeping much in touch with but on my MSN messenger list seems to ve avoiding me online. I feel so weird, since I've not made an advances or suggest to date her at all.
A few days ago, I just happened to see her online after many months, so I messaged her usual thing like "Hello! how have you been?" Then I concluded almost immediately with "Busy at work now. Talk to you again if got chance."
Then yesterday and today, the moment I go online, she immediately goes offline. I thought yesterday was co-incidental, but today the same thing happens. When I just got online, she was online but within 2 seconds, she was offline.
I wonder if she's hyper-sensitive and think I will make advances towards her kind of thing, that's why she's trying to avoid me. Which i will then feel is funny, since I've not done anything to suggest that. Or is she afraid that I'll try to date her out today since she's single?
Woman, unfathomable...
dun bother unless u really have feelings for her.
besides if she doesn't want to talk to u, why should u let a woman to affect u so much? there are so many women out there. assuming what u said is true, then she is not worth being ur friend at all. She assumes too much and that's her problem.
Get urself some self-respect and dun think abt her, dude.