Help I cant stop tinking abt....
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Hi please help!! Recently, I've met this lady. We got to know each other for abt 6mths. Well we beomce a couple naturally. We had sex a couple of weeks back. After that I've been tinking alot of us having sex. I know it's bad. But whenever I tink of us making love, I just couldn't help masturbating to ease the erection. Even when I'm working, I can imagine us making out n I began to erect n really really feel like masturbing in the toilet. Luckily I'm still able to control not to do it when working.
I tried not to tink too much by going gym, jogging outing with friends, but whenever I back in my room I just tink abt us making love n I began to rub myself again. I've refrained myself from having sex with her again cause I dun wanna her to feel that I'm using her as a sex tool. But if I dont do it, I gonna explode too....Arrghh I'm really at a lost now. Can anyone suggest what's the best way to get that feeling off? I seriously in need of help..... -
If you're both adult enough to handle it, and both of you have a mutual need and acceptance that sex could be a part of your relationship, then you can go ahead lor...
The part about your 'DIY sessions, it's YOUR FREEDOM... No comments on that... -
Go gaylang!!
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I guess you didn't have sex for a long time before doing with her. After few months, you'll be ok.
For now, you can ask her back (if you REALLY need it) or go Geylang. 
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go take a cold shower... but wats your relationship with her now? if both of u are in relationship u can jz discuss it with her, so she will understand ur situation and not freak out when she realize u diy... dun worry la, jz relax and carry on with wat u doing and relieve yourself when u really cannot take it...Originally posted by boi-wonder:Hi please help!! Recently, I've met this lady. We got to know each other for abt 6mths. Well we beomce a couple naturally. We had sex a couple of weeks back. After that I've been tinking alot of us having sex. I know it's bad. But whenever I tink of us making love, I just couldn't help masturbating to ease the erection. Even when I'm working, I can imagine us making out n I began to erect n really really feel like masturbing in the toilet. Luckily I'm still able to control not to do it when working.
I tried not to tink too much by going gym, jogging outing with friends, but whenever I back in my room I just tink abt us making love n I began to rub myself again. I've refrained myself from having sex with her again cause I dun wanna her to feel that I'm using her as a sex tool. But if I dont do it, I gonna explode too....Arrghh I'm really at a lost now. Can anyone suggest what's the best way to get that feeling off? I seriously in need of help.....
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a relationship built outaa lust n not love. really common these days. the day u dnt get n erection jus by thinkin of her. u will probably get bored n move on. mayb even sooner if another gal comes into the pic.
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are u suffering from compulsive sexual disorder? Do you have such urge b4 you met this lady?
Do you treat her as some1 to satisfy your sexual needs only? Or do you really love her as a whole? Think back-------> what if she doesnt wan to give you sex, will you still love her as much?
In relationship, of cse sex forms an impt part in strengthening it. However, there is always too much too less not good thing.. Physical attachment brings a couple closer, but you dont over demand it too! hehe..
good luck
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If such thoughts become intrusive, you should seek professional advice from a psychiatrist, because this is a psychiatric disorder. Seriously.
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u shd talk to her about it,maybe she's feeling the exact same way after all
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sex is part of human natural need.
just like eat, drink, sleep and shit.
too much or too little is subject from person to person.
just do it with her when you need to, once you have enough, you will regulate.
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First of all,
How old are you?
If you're in your teenage years, then its quite natural for this to happen, what with hormones and all...
So long the two of you don't over do it, and she's willing, and you of course use preventive measures, i don't see a problem with it.
Just don't let it get to your head all the time.. pick up a new hobby, make new friends. Maybe that'll help..