Love till too tired to love.
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Have you guys ever encouter the times when you love someone so much until the stage where you almost lost yourself.
On one hand you are scare that if you hold on too much she will run.
On the other hand if you let go too much she will feel unloved.
As a guy you are given the task of balancing out how much should you control the love to be given to the girl you love.
Why must it be this way?
If you let it go then the girl would just walk away...
Is this how love should be ?
Always putting yourself in the line for someone when you just fall once and you are never given a second chance. -
One word: BALANCE.
Relationship is just like flying a kite.
eg. if you pull the string too much, the kite will fall.
If you let go too much, it will fly away.. -
i only feel this way if the other party dun reciprocate.
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Love is like a sweetest-looking BIG teddy bear you hold in your arms...
You'll still get tired hold in your arms too long you know...
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Balance is the rite way.
You're just one-side of the balance, so don't think so much. Do your part the best you can possible.
The rest is up to her, but you can't do anything much leh.
But just make your sure your effort is done and recognised bah!
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If u feel this way, then i think there's something wrong with the relationship already...Think about it, if it makes u more sad than happy, whats the point of continuing?? If u 2 r willing to compromise and really sit down and talk about the problems, see where the relationship is heading and plan about the future of u 2, then still got hope...if not hor, i think this will really drain u out and its only a matter of time when the inevitable will happen...Originally posted by zeny:Have you guys ever encouter the times when you love someone so much until the stage where you almost lost yourself.
On one hand you are scare that if you hold on too much she will run.
On the other hand if you let go too much she will feel unloved.
As a guy you are given the task of balancing out how much should you control the love to be given to the girl you love.
Why must it be this way?
If you let it go then the girl would just walk away...
Is this how love should be ?
Always putting yourself in the line for someone when you just fall once and you are never given a second chance. -
Zeny,
This isn't a problem just affecting guys. In fact, it's also a girl's problem. If you hold onto him, he'll just walk away, especially if he's a commitment-phobe. But if you don't, what if he betrays your trust?
Key words
space & trust.
If you trust that person enough, then you can give that person the space he/she needs without suffocating them with your overwhelming love for them. Being in love is a great feeling, but understand that some people need their own personal space more than others. Some prefer to have their own friends, so that they can have an objective view when there're problems in the relationship.
Everybody also needs the time to do the things they like to do. A relationship can mean sacrifices, but it doesn't mean having to give up your entire self, or your own identity. Because if you do, then you'll Not be the same person she/he fell in love with in the 1st place.
Most certainly, your partner will take top priority in your relationship, & you'd like to spend all your time with that person. But I'd also go absolutely mental if I can't have the space to do my own things in private, like pick my nose or fart, which I wouldn't do in front of a date.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by zeny:Have you guys ever encouter the times when you love someone so much until the stage where you almost lost yourself.
On one hand you are scare that if you hold on too much she will run.
On the other hand if you let go too much she will feel unloved.
As a guy you are given the task of balancing out how much should you control the love to be given to the girl you love.
Why must it be this way?
If you let it go then the girl would just walk away...
Is this how love should be ?
Always putting yourself in the line for someone when you just fall once and you are never given a second chance. -
Just hold me...when you are tired...I will hold you...Originally posted by Eiizumi:Love is like a sweetest-looking BIG teddy bear you hold in your arms...
You'll still get tired hold in your arms too long you know... 
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For Christ sake's... Don't be gay.Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Just hold me...when you are tired...I will hold you...
Check out MY gender before you hug anything.
I'm a guy.
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Simple_Bear making a move on Eiizumi.Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Just hold me...when you are tired...I will hold you... 
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MuahahahahaOriginally posted by Eiizumi:For Christ sake's... Don't be gay.
Check out MY gender before you hug anything.
I'm a guy. 
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Kaoz...I know U r a guy...juz joking nia...Originally posted by Eiizumi:For Christ sake's... Don't be gay.
Check out MY gender before you hug anything.
I'm a guy.
I am strictly a hetrosexual bear... -
Its just a joke lah...Originally posted by browniebaobao:Simple_Bear making a move on Eiizumi.
Tao yan...
You know I like you and you trying to divert attention away...
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*Puts hand on head and shakes head*
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Yes...U look puzzled...can I help U?...Originally posted by Eiizumi:*Puts hand on head and shakes head* -
I have nothing to say, that's all.
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Nthing to say? Anytin to type?...Originally posted by Eiizumi:I have nothing to say, that's all. -
Ohmigawd, HAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHHA
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Eiizumi:For Christ sake's... Don't be gay.
Check out MY gender before you hug anything.
I'm a guy. -
Shakes head bear trying to act cute.Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Nthing to say? Anytin to type?... -
I wonder if the original poster got his answer...
FeowFeowOriginally posted by drx:Shakes head bear trying to act cute. -
I where gt act cute?...Originally posted by drx:Shakes head bear trying to act cute.
I am very ke ai ok... -
~PINCH Bear's CHEEKS...~Originally posted by Simple_Bear:I where gt act cute?...
I am very ke ai ok... -
Originally posted by zeny:
Have you guys ever encouter the times when you love someone so much until the stage where you almost lost yourself.
On one hand you are scare that if you hold on too much she will run.
On the other hand if you let go too much she will feel unloved.
As a guy you are given the task of balancing out how much should you control the love to be given to the girl you love.
Why must it be this way?
If you let it go then the girl would just walk away...
Is this how love should be ?
Always putting yourself in the line for someone when you just fall once and you are never given a second chance. Love like you never have to think about losing them.
Why bother to WORRY about losing a relationship when you ought to spend those precious moments appreciating and loving your relationship?
Every moment spent in fear barred fulfilment from entering.
When you have gone beyond retaining and losing BGR - you will see Love in new light.
P.S: You donÂ’t cook like an expert with your first experience; it gets better with every attempt.
Cheers -
think that is very sweet of you to love so deeplyOriginally posted by zeny:Have you guys ever encouter the times when you love someone so much until the stage where you almost lost yourself.
On one hand you are scare that if you hold on too much she will run.
On the other hand if you let go too much she will feel unloved.
As a guy you are given the task of balancing out how much should you control the love to be given to the girl you love.
Why must it be this way?
If you let it go then the girl would just walk away...
Is this how love should be ?
Always putting yourself in the line for someone when you just fall once and you are never given a second chance. -
let me guess, your horoscope is either scorpio, cancer or pisces?Originally posted by zeny:Have you guys ever encouter the times when you love someone so much until the stage where you almost lost yourself.
On one hand you are scare that if you hold on too much she will run.
On the other hand if you let go too much she will feel unloved.
As a guy you are given the task of balancing out how much should you control the love to be given to the girl you love.
Why must it be this way?
If you let it go then the girl would just walk away...
Is this how love should be ?
Always putting yourself in the line for someone when you just fall once and you are never given a second chance.
cause i do know people from these 3 horoscope can love someone till tian fan di fu. until they lose themselves.