Complicated Heart
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Hi guys, first time posting in Aunt Agony...
(i'm always in chit chat)
always wanted to post my problems here, but everytime i end up keeping quiet and do things on my own...
Yeah, i've been here a few times and looking at posts and threads... seems like everyone has their own relationship problems...
But then, none of them seems to be as complicated as mine...
Since this is my first post, i won't be telling a 1000 word story cuz i had yet to plan.
But i want to say, i'm really in this complicated position.
I've been trying to 'save' this relationship for almost 6 months now..
And almost everytime i'm with her i make her sad... and she makes me sad..
I have thoughts of leaving, and i told her about it..
and to leave, she said i would make her sad...
To stay, to leave, i can't choose any of it...
Haiz.. -
Make her happy then. Singapore life style is soooo hectic. wanna take a break before continue, but scare other people catch up you (in terms of education). How I wish I got a carefree life. Dude, go to beach and talk you heart out.
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Well, this kind of problems in relationships are so common...At the end of the day, its still up to you to make a decision...no matter which choice it is, make sure its one you won't regret.....Make the best choice for the both of u...n that includes leaving each other if you have to....all the best....i dun want others to be like me...regretting what i chose...so my advice is, think carefully and make a right decision...cheers
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u have to provide more info in order for us to advise u on anything ya.
what happened that makes u try to save the r/s?
do u want to stay on or do u want to leave?
how sad? wat did she do to make u sad? wat did u do to make her sad?
every meet up ends with a quarrel? -
Originally posted by browniebaobao:u have to provide more info in order for us to advise u on anything ya.
what happened that makes u try to save the r/s?
do u want to stay on or do u want to leave?
how sad? wat did she do to make u sad? wat did u do to make her sad?
every meet up ends with a quarrel?
X2.
We have all the time in the world; you can begin your essay so that everyone can have a better understanding of your situation.
Cheers -
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haha. complicated meh. i think mine more complicated since my religion oso keena entangled inside hahahaha
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I wanna provide more details but i'm very scared she might browse on this web, or her friends, anyway, i'm just scared she will know about this..
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Originally posted by FadeToBlack:I wanna provide more details but i'm very scared she might browse on this web, or her friends, anyway, i'm just scared she will know about this..
register another nick, dun use real names/nicks la. -
what did she say? give me space/time/eternity ?Originally posted by FadeToBlack:I wanna provide more details but i'm very scared she might browse on this web, or her friends, anyway, i'm just scared she will know about this..
if she means any of this, well u better be careful and fast before she dumps u. -
no...Originally posted by dokono:what did she say? give me space/time/eternity ?
if she means any of this, well u better be careful and fast before she dumps u.
but like.. she wants me to accept what she can do... -
what can she do for eg.?Originally posted by FadeToBlack:no...
but like.. she wants me to accept what she can do... -
Can PM some of us for advices if you like....?Originally posted by FadeToBlack:I wanna provide more details but i'm very scared she might browse on this web, or her friends, anyway, i'm just scared she will know about this.. -
its not the nick problem, but i believe if i say the story, and of course it is obviously is me already...Originally posted by browniebaobao:
register another nick, dun use real names/nicks la.
where got same story happens to other people on coincidental? -
Originally posted by FadeToBlack:
better to make her sad once den everytime
Hi guys, first time posting in Aunt Agony... (i'm always in chit chat)
always wanted to post my problems here, but everytime i end up keeping quiet and do things on my own...
Yeah, i've been here a few times and looking at posts and threads... seems like everyone has their own relationship problems...
But then, none of them seems to be as complicated as mine...
Since this is my first post, i won't be telling a 1000 word story cuz i had yet to plan.
But i want to say, i'm really in this complicated position.
I've been trying to 'save' this relationship for almost 6 months now..
[b]And almost everytime i'm with her i make her sad... and she makes me sad..
I have thoughts of leaving, and i told her about it..
and to leave, she said i would make her sad...
To stay, to leave, i can't choose any of it...
Haiz..[/b] -
the world is v small leh.Originally posted by FadeToBlack:its not the nick problem, but i believe if i say the story, and of course it is obviously is me already...
where got same story happens to other people on coincidental?
it happened to me before. -
haix... dont know if i shld say the story.. quite long actually...
i know her like 4-5 years ago... online...
do you guys call it a online relationship? -
haix.. feel so lonely and miserable at this time... 2.58 am..
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Maybe i shoud leave her...
I think she took me for granted...
Mankind do not learn to treasure things, until 1 day when they loses it.. then they realised the true meaning...
maybe its time for me to go... and she can regret forever..
goodbye guys... thanks for help.. but this death is inevitable.. -
If you do not wish to reveal too much. Maybe for a start, why you wrote "And almost everytime i'm with her i make her sad... and she makes me sad.. "
And "she wants me to accept what she can do..."
Maybe if you can explain that in general terms.
You may be surprised that your problem may not be that unique. -
tell it to us and we can give concrete help..if all ur going to do is say stuff like u want to commit suicide,there's nth we can do to help out
and we do want to help -
Originally posted by FadeToBlack:haix... dont know if i shld say the story.. quite long actually...
i know her like 4-5 years ago... online...
do you guys call it a online relationship? -
erh.. online relationship onli?
tat's like so unreal.. get a life man.. go out and meet each other often and dun stick to online onli.. haf u bot ever meet be4 in real life? later she ain;t wat she describe herself to be.. 
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Took you for granted? Care to explain?Originally posted by FadeToBlack:Maybe i shoud leave her...
I think she took me for granted...
Mankind do not learn to treasure things, until 1 day when they loses it.. then they realised the true meaning...
maybe its time for me to go... and she can regret forever..
goodbye guys... thanks for help.. but this death is inevitable.. -
Is this really an 'online relationship' or just your one-sided relationship?Originally posted by FadeToBlack:haix... dont know if i shld say the story.. quite long actually...
i know her like 4-5 years ago... online...
do you guys call it a online relationship?