it's great to hear a woman to hear the negative effects, for once at least. Thank you very much for addressing the concerns even though it may be a lone voice. It shows courage that something needs to be done for our society in general.Originally posted by CynthiaLady:are men failing miserably in this post-feminist world? is the future of the both male and female species in danger?
and are women really to blame?
we should all be concerned
Over dinner with my friends .The conversation suddenly turned serious. I found myself embroiled in a heated discussion about,
of all things, the problems facing men in our
post-feminist world (I wondered was I hearing things).
The problems suffered by men and women. It seems to me the faliing birth
rates in singapore has something to do with the harmful effects of feminism.
Decent men and as well as women are suffer. As we know today's men are a generation raised by the independent women.
And as a result they didnt have proper role models of both female and male resulting in dysfunctional families
A highly functional family is important for the welfare of future generations and population growth.
(b) Today there are too many dysfunctional families and thus dysfunctional kids.
(c) Today's men need to find a new but satisfactory role, different from that of the last century. This is not well defined by males or females. There exist specific negative attitudes, ideas and omissions inimical to a successful quest for any such role
(d) Those men who are able: are not speaking up concerning male matters
(e) Women (those we hear and read) are not helping by concentrating more on their own needs and the shortcomings of men rather than being constructive in the search for (a) & (c) above
Feminism has achieved much for women, but why did this have to be at the cost of men. Because it is not kept in check, it begins to exert its harmful effects.The women's charter is not helping us women as well. Instead of feminism and women's charter ridding women's lives off evil and ills, it has become a tool of greed and capitalism or power.
it is no use that females complain about men marring foreign wives local women are too demanding. They are fair too just like us women who dont want to marry a abusive man.
In due time we need to address this issue fast and clear before we have a national population crisis.
Cynthia.
yes..exactly...shows very clearly that feminist laws are not helping anyone.exactly it is unwanted inmodern times. Men are raised by women are have already benefitted from the femnisit movement. that means these men wer ebetter able to respect women and accomodate to them than men few hundred years agoOriginally posted by Pitot:Not only this la.. Human Geography.
More developed countries birth rate are all low.
Not only Singapore, Japan and Switzerland and alot more......
We term this as aging population.
Yes dokono, i understand the men. Men will always downmarry. their biological nature is such. Of course there are men who dont mind marrying a woman earning a hihger income and education, if she is a good wife and does not give problems.. The point is women need to accomodate these men. Men will not mind many things really. The problem lies mostly with women and their egosOriginally posted by dokono:it's great to hear a woman to hear the negative effects, for once at least. Thank you very much for addressing the concerns even though it may be a lone voice. It shows courage that something needs to be done for our society in general.
Females do not want an abusive man but there are still cases when the abusive man is the man she likes! Women do not like nice guys? Of cos not all!
Men complaining that women are too demanding. Well, it maybe true but since women are much more independent now that they have more choices, right?
Well it's going to be very difficult to change because the future is going to be such that women will be more free to exercise freedom and choices.
Yes it is rare for a woman like u to speak up for men. Some women will not admit they are choosy and wants to control in a r/s. Yes men have egos but when it comes to women their egos are manipulated by beautiful women or women that men consider beautiful.Originally posted by CynthiaLady:Yes dokono, i understand the men. Men will always downmarry. their biological nature is such. Of course there are men who dont mind marrying a woman earning a hihger income and education, if she is a good wife and does not give problems.. The point is women need to accomodate these men. Men will not mind many things really. The problem lies mostly with women and their egos
I think it's safe to say that as long as humans still enjoy fcuking, there will be no population crisis.Originally posted by CynthiaLady:Feminism has achieved much for women, but why did this have to be at the cost of men. Because it is not kept in check, it begins to exert its harmful effects.The women's charter is not helping us women as well. Instead of feminism and women's charter ridding women's lives off evil and ills, it has become a tool of greed and capitalism or power.
it is no use that females complain about men marring foreign wives local women are too demanding. They are fair too just like us women who dont want to marry a abusive man.
In due time we need to address this issue fast and clear before we have a national population crisis.
Cynthia.
Originally posted by curiousOrange:Agreed. It's got nothing to do with man/women or feminism/chauvinism, but how in our very competitive, material society, a person as an individual can have the freedom to be himself/herself without being swept away by societal's demands on norms, and AT the same time, without becoming a burden to society by still being able to contribute.
The issues you mentioned are [b]more an issue of urbanization and industrialization in societies rather than an issue of feminism.
As economies expand, we are exposed to more material needs.
Expectations naturally increased.
The only variable in life you can have total control over is yourself.
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