Help my friend.
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Friend A' = gal.
Friend B' = boi
My friend A' smsed friend B', "Do he have any feeling for other girls when they were steadying" Friend B' replied her "Don't have ahx?".
My friend A' and friend B' last time broke up and soon later patch up again.
Friend B' later smsed her " Last time when we broke up, I did have feelings for xxxxxxx, but it was short." (crush)
My friend A' is very confused by friend B' reply. She doesnt know how to react or should she be angry, sad, understanding or act like nothing has happened.
She is now very sad and her heart was shattered. When Friend A' and B' broke up, B' had a crush on xxxxxxx.
My friend A' then asked friend B', "If it was a crush on her(xxxxxxx) only, Why do you still told me how much you wanted me back, how much you missed me"
My friend A' had lost trust on friend B'..
Can anyone tell me how should my friend A' do? Friend A' is now steadying with friend B', but she is very very confused. Should A' break with B'? why? -
if this is really not your problem, stay out of it and let them figure it out themselves?
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the thing is: who initiated the breakup first the other time?Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Friend A' = gal.
Friend B' = boi
My friend A' smsed friend B', "Do he have any feeling for other girls when they were steadying" Friend B' replied her "Don't have ahx?". My friend A' and friend B' last time broke up and soon later patch up again.
Friend B' later smsed her " Last time when we broke up, I did have feelings for xxxxxxx, but it was short." (crush)
My friend A' is very confused by friend B' reply. She doesnt know how to react or should she be angry, sad, understanding or act like nothing has happened.
She is now very sad and her heart was shattered. When Friend A' and B' broke up, B' had a crush on xxxxxxx.
My friend A' then asked friend B', "If it was a crush on her(xxxxxxx) only, Why do you still told me how much you wanted me back, how much you missed me"
My friend A' had lost trust on friend B'..
Can anyone tell me how should my friend A' do? Friend A' is now steadying with friend B', but she is very very confused. Should A' break with B'? why? -
I think is my Friend A' becox of some family reasons.
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I think it's emotional baggage or distrust in the guy she's with now.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:I think is my Friend A' becox of some family reasons.
1. Why should she be so bother with what's already in the past? Shouldn't she be treasuring the moments and relationship with 'B' now?
2. If she's harbouring 'shadows' over how her bf can be interested in another girl while he was trying to get her back, and she's still holding that as a distrust against him now... I think she can open up and talk to her guy about it... But NOTE and UNDERSTAND what is the PURPOSE of that TALK... If it's for quarrels or break up, then I say DON'T BOTHER... Just BREAK UP for short. Otherwise I would suggest she try to understand her bf's stand THEN and NOW. And decides for herself if she wants to forgive him and let things OVER.. If this stone is not overturned and LET GO, the relationship would not be allowed to sail on for much further...