Having a stepmother...
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haiz... anybody in my predicament now? A stepmother will soon become reality in a week's time...What should i call her??? Anyway, she is just 28
a few years older than me... haiz... -
look on the bright side...at least she's quite near ur age?? at most heck care her...??
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If I tell you I understand the situation you're in then I'm a big fat liar coz I'm not in your shoes.
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well, i cant...Originally posted by The Peacemaker:look on the bright side...at least she's quite near ur age?? at most heck care her...??
she nursed my dad back to health... devoting 4 months from her job...
sometimes, i wonder... is it really love?
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Is she local? you never know when 'love' is going to grow and with who. since they believe that its love and made the decision to stay together, be happy for them, treat her like a friend..Originally posted by Master -_-:well, i cant...
she nursed my dad back to health... devoting 4 months from her job...
sometimes, i wonder... is it really love? 
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i imagine it wld be quite ackward considering the age.. n i was gonna tell u to ask for extra allowance.
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wow..no choice lor..have to face the fact mah....
but dun fall for your stepmum leh....since she is abt yr age....or else, u be in real agony..
jus call her auntie lor...i mean, she is your stepmum afterall mah..
you cant possibly call her by her name, unless your dad dont mind...
so, i assume your house having a big celebration for their marriage soon? -
Hey man, seems like a big problem to me, well long terms wise at least.
Honestly, if I'm in your shoes I'll just say hey etc. It'll be really weird to call her mum/mummy or even auntie... I guess it'll be more proper to call her by her name?
Love or not, it doesn't really matter cause as long as your father is happy being with her. That is what you called unconditional love, may sound dramatic but that is how things work. Good luck!
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What makes your doubt?Originally posted by Master -_-:well, i cant...
she nursed my dad back to health... devoting 4 months from her job...
sometimes, i wonder... is it really love? -
is your father wealthy or even good looking, he shd be in the late 40s /early 50s right?Originally posted by Master -_-:well, i cant...
she nursed my dad back to health... devoting 4 months from her job...
sometimes, i wonder... is it really love?
is she mean to you and your siblings do far?
from your father's perspective, she could be a good companion. you may not like it but you'll probably have your own family soon enough or at least have a life outside your father... -
Perhaps ur dad nds companionship.
Just call her auntie.....Its ok.... Just for hte respect of her being ur stepmum.
U are quite lucky....
My cousins stepmum is at least 12 yrs younger htan t hem. Its even weirder for them to call her auntie...
My fren too....he had a stepmum just about 5 yrs older than him....he called her auntie too.... -
Ee later you scandal with her....
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y not grow up and move out?
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Won't die one la..any trouble can call 999
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if you dont like her, but shes hot, i can always steal her away from your dad. =)
on a more serious note, i'd never call anyone else mom, other than the one i know of. -
although from what you describe, the girl seems pretty sincere..
however, we really do not know if she has any underlying motives and what nots.. -
Did you watch Get Real on 20/2 and maybe 22/2? They are discussing on how children cope with their stepmothers and stepdads. Some case study u can refer to.
Do try tp catch the repeated episode on the weekends if you havent yet seen them. -
I'm interested to know what SHE thinks about you. Considering her stepson is 2 years younger. Hahaha. You don't have to love her, just like her becos thats all your dad needs. That little bit of support.Originally posted by Master -_-:haiz... anybody in my predicament now? A stepmother will soon become reality in a week's time...What should i call her??? Anyway, she is just 28 a few years older than me... haiz... -
Originally posted by Master -_-:haiz... anybody in my predicament now? A stepmother will soon become reality in a week's time...What should i call her??? Anyway, she is just 28 a few years older than me... haiz...
/me pat pat.
Actually the addressing part isn't really an issue - afterall, it's only formalities. What matter now is your dad relationship with this woman. Guess you can only observe and see how things goes.
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is ur dad rich?
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does she look like steph song?
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just call her by name if your dad is not a stick in the mud
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If I were you I would just call her Auntie So and So or Jie Jie So and So.
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If ur new stepmum is chio... U might consider banging her like in MILF. hehe... If she's horny, i dun think she would mind since it's not exactly incest. Do consider it
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well saidOriginally posted by MetalGear:If ur new stepmum is chio... U might consider banging her like in MILF. hehe... If she's horny, i dun think she would mind since it's not exactly incest. Do consider it