the NS have alot of conspiriacies so jus don give a damn to them and ORD peacefully..Originally posted by isolation:Hi,
I am a NSF who will be ORDing in 5+ months time. Although I can consider an 'old bird' in my unit since I was posted to this particular unit 1 year ago, I can't get along well with most of the people in my unit as I just can't mingle well with him. Some of you might think that I am not the type who likes to mingle around and yes I have this problem when I just started my BMT and my technican course in OETI but slowly I get along well with my platoon mates and course mate. However when I come to this unit maybe due to differences in character I just can't get along well with many of them.
I think that I am a very timid person as I gets very nervous when somethings get wrong and some of my fellow NSFs and my regular superior would take the advantage of this and make fun of me, teasing me as they likes to see the way I was being nervous.
I do admit that I am a little bit slow in learning new things but my fellow NSFs thinks that I have attitude problems and don't want to do things. This results me being aimed everytime to do saigang and fatigue work even though I didn't offends any of the fellow NSFs (in fact they came and take advantage of me)
Also I did receive unfair treatments in my unit, like other people in my branch slept in their bunk during office hour my superiors closed one eye while when I did that they gave me extras duties. Yes I am in the wrong of sleeping in bunk during office hours but why other people aren't punished when they did the same thing?
I am not that kind of person who want to holds somebody balls in order to climb higher and I just want to ORD peacefully.
Electronic Technican (Comms)Originally posted by LazerLordz:Keep your chin up and bear with the crap.
It'll be over soon. ORDin in 5 months is a very short time.
What sort of a technician are you?
Originally posted by isolation:Hi,
I am a NSF who will be ORDing in 5+ months time. Although I can consider an 'old bird' in my unit since I was posted to this particular unit 1 year ago, I can't get along well with most of the people in my unit as I just can't mingle well with him. Some of you might think that I am not the type who likes to mingle around and yes I have this problem when I just started my BMT and my technican course in OETI but slowly I get along well with my platoon mates and course mate. However when I come to this unit maybe due to differences in character I just can't get along well with many of them.
I think that I am a very timid person as I gets very nervous when somethings get wrong and some of my fellow NSFs and my regular superior would take the advantage of this and make fun of me, teasing me as they likes to see the way I was being nervous.
I do admit that I am a little bit slow in learning new things but my fellow NSFs thinks that I have attitude problems and don't want to do things. This results me being aimed everytime to do saigang and fatigue work even though I didn't offends any of the fellow NSFs (in fact they came and take advantage of me)
Also I did receive unfair treatments in my unit, like other people in my branch slept in their bunk during office hour my superiors closed one eye while when I did that they gave me extras duties. Yes I am in the wrong of sleeping in bunk during office hours but why other people aren't punished when they did the same thing?
I am not that kind of person who want to holds somebody balls in order to climb higher and I just want to ORD peacefully.
I have been keeping a very low profile since the first day of army but maybe because of my characterstics some people do like to pick on me.Originally posted by korusu:no offence but i think tt sometimes ple just like to pick on others who are different from them have u tried lying low and keeping yr opinions to yrself? most of the time it is those pple who are "outside standing" who tend to kenna negative attention
Wanna ORD liao, don't think too much over it lah..Originally posted by isolation:Thank you for everyone's encouragement.
When I was still a newbie in my unit, those people always makes fun of me and I still can't change my habit in nervous and they feels that I am that kind of person good to bully and they makes fun of me.
I have my self-pride and I always feel very bad when those people makes fun of me. Furthermore it is not me who provokes them first. In case I didn't provoke them and they just want to find fault with me.
i think you should think of this differently. rather then thinking tat they r trying to take advantage of you, think of it that they actually like you and the joke although being on you is bcos you r fun in their eyes. if they really tekan you, i expect you to b punished into oblivion, made to stay in camp, or being pulled by the collar at every fault. this is not the case. i think if you can test this by playing a joke on another person and see their reaction. if they get offended, then ask him not to play joke on you if they cannot take it.Originally posted by isolation:Thank you for everyone's encouragement.
When I was still a newbie in my unit, those people always makes fun of me and I still can't change my habit in nervous and they feels that I am that kind of person good to bully and they makes fun of me.
I have my self-pride and I always feel very bad when those people makes fun of me. Furthermore it is not me who provokes them first. In case I didn't provoke them and they just want to find fault with me.
I think there bound to be people in the same situation as u n please do not be sad cause u the kind of person maybe people jealous of u, they pick on u.Originally posted by isolation:Electronic Technican (Comms)
A 3SG but it is nothing in my unit somemore I am not a combatant.Originally posted by will4:I think there bound to be people in the same situation as u n please do not be sad cause u the kind of person maybe people jealous of u, they pick on u.
What is ur rank?
I think u have a good quality in whcih they jealous. No need to worry as there is a saying to say what come around go around.Originally posted by isolation:A 3SG but it is nothing in my unit somemore I am not a combatant.
Anyway for me, I have nothing to jealous of as I am just a normal person living in HDB flats.
Instead much of those people who trys to find troubles with me is those JC graduates waiting to go uni after Ns who lives in private properties.
Haha i was from OETI also leh,i think your unit i aga aga know where liao lahOriginally posted by isolation:Hi,
I am a NSF who will be ORDing in 5+ months time. Although I can consider an 'old bird' in my unit since I was posted to this particular unit 1 year ago, I can't get along well with most of the people in my unit as I just can't mingle well with him. Some of you might think that I am not the type who likes to mingle around and yes I have this problem when I just started my BMT and my technican course in OETI but slowly I get along well with my platoon mates and course mate. However when I come to this unit maybe due to differences in character I just can't get along well with many of them.
I think that I am a very timid person as I gets very nervous when somethings get wrong and some of my fellow NSFs and my regular superior would take the advantage of this and make fun of me, teasing me as they likes to see the way I was being nervous.
I do admit that I am a little bit slow in learning new things but my fellow NSFs thinks that I have attitude problems and don't want to do things. This results me being aimed everytime to do saigang and fatigue work even though I didn't offends any of the fellow NSFs (in fact they came and take advantage of me)
Also I did receive unfair treatments in my unit, like other people in my branch slept in their bunk during office hour my superiors closed one eye while when I did that they gave me extras duties. Yes I am in the wrong of sleeping in bunk during office hours but why other people aren't punished when they did the same thing?
I am not that kind of person who want to holds somebody balls in order to climb higher and I just want to ORD peacefully.
"wonderful" civilian life....shucksOriginally posted by Manager433:So u'll be ORDing in 5 months time. Minus the Off-In-Lieu/Annual Leave/Sick Leave, u'll be clearing all this leave soon. That means, u still need to endure 3.5-4mths more. Don't think so much, look forward to the wonderful civilian lives.