A sad boy's story and his disappointed dad.
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Hey guys, just looking for a place for me to confide....I am very upset this few days....upset because i made my father feel very upset in myself and actually called to just tell me that he is very sad.This is how it began.I moved out of the house a while ago and i have been staying at a rented house with my only brother.But ever since i have been staying with him fights often broke out between us for minor problems.The fights would usually end up in the wrecking up of furnitures and the arrival of my dad in a very upset condition.I feel very sorry and i want to make it up to my dear father.Any Suggestion? please what i need is good advice.
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Move back. Your obviously not mature enough to handle living alone with your bro
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but i moved out because of my studies my school is in woodlands and my parents stay in pasir ris
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ask ur bro to move back then. Ur dad cud be upset cos he's lonely at home n his kids are far from him.
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but he said that he is upset because we are grown ups and we still fight.....he do not like it....but now i just want to make him happy
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which one of u is eldest? shud exercise more maturity. If u wana fight, do it discretely or via comp games. No need let ur dad know.
"What you dont know cant hurt you" -
ya but now he is upsetOriginally posted by alexkusu:which one of u is eldest? shud exercise more maturity. If u wana fight, do it discretely or via comp games. No need let ur dad know.
"What you dont know cant hurt you"
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go n comfort him with your bro. Make promise how you will get along with each other, wont fight anymore, etc.. even tho you dont mean it.
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thanks for the advice appreciated it
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get both u and your brother to kneel infront of your father...
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unmature kids. both. why don't you go to bang the war? why want to make people upset?
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bring ur dad with ur mom as well as ur bro
treat him out for dunner or so.
or give him some surprises.
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Just find out the root of the problem, and solve it.
Don't do things that might feel good, but don't solve the problem. It's time wasting. -
i think both you and your bros must remember that you r related by blood and flesh. why fight over material things and fight so fiercely?
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sibling rivalry?
u can ask yourself, under what circumstance do you n your bro fight? does it need to end up in wrecking your furnitures?
Like Parka said, find the root of problems..Discuss with your bro on this issues, and tell him you want to solve it peacefully with him...
Then together, treat your dear dad to a good dinner....
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Hi there.
I guess for now, you should stop picking fights with your brother, give in or something man you guys are kins. For goodness sake, your father is old already and he trusted both of you to be mature enough to live together, away from them that is. So the more you should prove to them you can do it, at least not make them worry. Moving back is definitely not one option you have considering the distance, but what you can do it perhaps spend more time with your parents during weekends? Cut down on computer games or consoles, spend more time with your family, that is definitely more meaningful.
I feel that they aren't really sad because they're disappointed or anything, they're sad cause they fear you can't live well, for instance with your brother. He is just worried, like what all parents will react. Lol catch a movie with him occasionally and make him feel that you're alright and enjoying man, it really helps. Though speaking for myself as well, it is hard for youngsters nowadays to make parents understand "their" world, but watching a movie and spending more time to talk won't hurt right?
Good luck.
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just curious why do you fight ?Originally posted by cyrusv:Hey guys, just looking for a place for me to confide....I am very upset this few days....upset because i made my father feel very upset in myself and actually called to just tell me that he is very sad.This is how it began.I moved out of the house a while ago and i have been staying at a rented house with my only brother.But ever since i have been staying with him fights often broke out between us for minor problems.The fights would usually end up in the wrecking up of furnitures and the arrival of my dad in a very upset condition.I feel very sorry and i want to make it up to my dear father.Any Suggestion? please what i need is good advice.
over what? -
How old are the both of you? What did you fight over?Originally posted by cyrusv:but he said that he is upset because we are grown ups and we still fight.....he do not like it....but now i just want to make him happy