obesity unpopular?
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someone once told me, guys will rather date an ugly girl than a fat girl.
does that mean if the girl is fat she got no chance liao?
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not really true la.Originally posted by Fey Mae:someone once told me, guys will rather date an ugly girl than a fat girl.
does that mean if the girl is fat she got no chance liao?
I have seen some guys with fat chicks so no worries ya?
BUt seriously guys don relaly like fat gals for dunno why?
SOme times, the guys even discriminate -
not really.. some guys go for internal beauty too.. no need to give up so fast..
but i must say, appearance do count for quite a huge percentage. tian xia mei you chou nuu ren zhi you lan nuu ren. if you have the will, you have the way. -
like i always said :Originally posted by dibilo:not really.. some guys go for internal beauty too.. no need to give up so fast..
but i must say, appearance do count for quite a huge percentage. tian xia mei you chou nuu ren zhi you lan nuu ren. if you have the will, you have the way.
"Don b deceived by my looks, i have my true love 2" -
but if they see already dont like how to know you got inner beauty or not?
and also, is it possible that despite liking your personality they see you fat still find it very eyesore?? -
then it means the guy is not good for u.Originally posted by Fey Mae:but if they see already dont like how to know you got inner beauty or not?
and also, is it possible that despite liking your personality they see you fat still find it very eyesore??
I mean he is not a good guy then. -
looks give u the advantage.
but in the later part, its ur inner beauty. -
it helps alot really.. guys are jus so materialistic de la..Originally posted by eClipseRain:looks do help in getting the guy u want or so. -
here got any "good guy" or not? the last i heard even obese boys also wan slim gfs.
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diaos. mi want to edit.Originally posted by FBI:it helps alot really.. guys are jus so materialistic de la..
u already go copy le lols. -
having a fat/ugly ger.Originally posted by Fey Mae:here got any "good guy" or not? the last i heard even obese boys also wan slim gfs.
get alot of stares and negative comments.
also who want to have a fat/ugly ger when u can get a chio bu. xD -
sad fact that guys like chio face and hourglass figure..........(big boobs is a BONUS)
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who dun hope to have a chio bu gf with a hourglass figure. =/Originally posted by FireIce:sad fact that guys like chio face and hourglass figure..........(big boobs is a BONUS)
having too big boobs turn quite a number of guys off =D -
haha great mind thinks alike laOriginally posted by eClipseRain:diaos. mi want to edit.
u already go copy le lols. -
thats why so many girls are trying to slim down ya?Originally posted by Fey Mae:here got any "good guy" or not? the last i heard even obese boys also wan slim gfs.
SO do something abt it ya! -
but what if im talking about a 100 kg type? must look past alot of fats before you see the inner beauty wor.Originally posted by eClipseRain:looks give u the advantage.
but in the later part, its ur inner beauty.
and usually im very sensitive towards people but of late im starting to doubt myself. a guy i like (no not fat, fairly decent looking, tall, dark atheletic type) asked me out
(whos fat and unattractive) is it possible he is just feeling bad cos im so obviously nice to him that hes just giving me a treat only. he did not specify his intentions 
and im not sure if his oblivious to my feellings and still continue to mislead me or he actually liked me. -
Fat pple can still lose weight. eg. Irene Ang looks so much younger now.
Looks aside...ask urself 1st.. u wanna be friends with shallow people who judge u by ur looks? -
if im not wrong, u r a 100kg ger?Originally posted by Fey Mae:but what if im talking about a 100 kg type? must look past alot of fats before you see the inner beauty wor.
and usually im very sensitive towards people but of late im starting to doubt myself. a guy i like (no not fat, fairly decent looking, tall, dark atheletic type) asked me out (whos fat and unattractive) is it possible he is just feeling bad cos im so obviously nice to him that hes just giving me a treat only. he did not specify his intentions and im not sure if his oblivious to my feellings and still continue to mislead me or he actually liked me.
the guy might asked u out bcos u treat him quite good.
and thus become one of his good fren.
as for now, dun be mislead that he like u or so.
just treat it as ur normal good fren.
until he hint u or tell u =p
ya sure must look past alot of fats.
but oso got alot of other guys who did that.
he might be one. but as for now treat him as ur fren ONLY =p -
hmmm is it the first time he ask u out? if it is then cant judge wether he is interested in you...but go for it.... at least be gd friends firstOriginally posted by Fey Mae:but what if im talking about a 100 kg type? must look past alot of fats before you see the inner beauty wor.
and usually im very sensitive towards people but of late im starting to doubt myself. a guy i like (no not fat, fairly decent looking, tall, dark atheletic type) asked me out (whos fat and unattractive) is it possible he is just feeling bad cos im so obviously nice to him that hes just giving me a treat only. he did not specify his intentions and im not sure if his oblivious to my feellings and still continue to mislead me or he actually liked me.
n btw u r not the only one with image probs....i m sure gals look for slim, althetic or preferably musclar type of guys rite....some guys who r overweight also face same prob as u which is lack of confidence...i m also like u lack of phy confidence but me is completely opposite of u..i m too thin n tiny
if u r not confident of yr look why not do something about it? at least u got try n u wont regret yr decision.. -
asking u out doesn't mean he have a liking for u.Originally posted by Fey Mae:but what if im talking about a 100 kg type? must look past alot of fats before you see the inner beauty wor.
and usually im very sensitive towards people but of late im starting to doubt myself. a guy i like (no not fat, fairly decent looking, tall, dark atheletic type) asked me out (whos fat and unattractive) is it possible he is just feeling bad cos im so obviously nice to him that hes just giving me a treat only. he did not specify his intentions and im not sure if his oblivious to my feellings and still continue to mislead me or he actually liked me.
NOw stop thiniking abt anything and u will know your answer after the date. -
i went, and i still dunno, thats why. as much as i like him, i didnt tell him so, but i wonder if its already very obvious since i know im just nicer to him and i cant help it.Originally posted by FBI:asking u out doesn't mean he have a liking for u.
NOw stop thiniking abt anything and u will know your answer after the date. we went out for dinner (his treat) and chatted a fair bit until the restaurant closing and sorta chase us out he never really say why hes asking me out and i didnt dare asked and tried to assume it is not shocking to me but unfortunately it keeps me guessing alot. -
so thats yr 1st meeting with him ? hmm if it is i think u cant judge anything...however if he continues to do this...chances r high he is interested in you....u can also try asking him out lor for dinner etc n see how it goes..Originally posted by Fey Mae:i went, and i still dunno, thats why. as much as i like him, i didnt tell him so, but i wonder if its already very obvious since i know im just nicer to him and i cant help it. we went out for dinner (his treat) and chatted a fair bit until the restaurant closing and sorta chase us out he never really say why hes asking me out and i didnt dare asked and tried to assume it is not shocking to me but unfortunately it keeps me guessing alot.
gd luck ;p -
if u are thinking abt it that means u are likeing him.Originally posted by Fey Mae:i went, and i still dunno, thats why. as much as i like him, i didnt tell him so, but i wonder if its already very obvious since i know im just nicer to him and i cant help it. we went out for dinner (his treat) and chatted a fair bit until the restaurant closing and sorta chase us out he never really say why hes asking me out and i didnt dare asked and tried to assume it is not shocking to me but unfortunately it keeps me guessing alot.
He might b loney and jus need someone for meals and hence he finds u.
THink, if u confess to him u 2 might not even become friends any longer.
Wait for him to make the first move, if he likes u he will if not he won't
NO him to ask him why he asking u out cause it's jus a simple meal. there's no reason -
sounds abit. but for now.Originally posted by Fey Mae:i went, and i still dunno, thats why. as much as i like him, i didnt tell him so, but i wonder if its already very obvious since i know im just nicer to him and i cant help it. we went out for dinner (his treat) and chatted a fair bit until the restaurant closing and sorta chase us out he never really say why hes asking me out and i didnt dare asked and tried to assume it is not shocking to me but unfortunately it keeps me guessing alot.
its better to treat him as how a normal fren would treat u.
until he hint or confess.
unless u want to b the one who do it first. -
ya....he never hint anything, just talk about general things, stuff he does, a bit about his family etc. but im wondering if hes just picking me up as a friend. normally if a guy asked a girl out maybe he is interested, that is usually how i would intepret IF the girl he's asking is my slim friend.Originally posted by borntolive:so thats yr 1st meeting with him ? hmm if it is i think u cant judge anything...however if he continues to do this...chances r high he is interested in you....u can also try asking him out lor for dinner etc n see how it goes..
gd luck ;p