obesity unpopular?
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btw, im obese too...
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I am one obese bear too...Originally posted by aHGer^83:btw, im obese too... 
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i think 'ang mo' can accept the obesity gals more then locals as far as i have notice..
Prehaps they are stronger or bigger build then asia that's make it quite ok in appearances...
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for me no.Originally posted by alexkusu:Let me ask u this: Would you date a fat girl?
It runs in the entire family : No fat chicks. -
hi!
if he asks you out and tells you many things that he usually don't (for example, family, some inner feelings about stuffs etc etc), that means he looks at you to someone he trusts. ^^
i dunno if he likes you or not coz the bg info really too little le. but this is a good start, isn't it?
and i think when love happens, there's no stopping it. it doesn't matter if you are fat or ugly or whatever.
you seem like a really nice girl. AJA AJA! ^^
and don't worry about the obese part. lose weight only if you want to. nothing wrong with being obese ba. doesn't mean the skinny ppl are very healthy also. as long as you are happy ok! *HUGS!!* -
how about fat girl that slims down into supermodel figure?Originally posted by FBI:for me no.
It runs in the entire family : No fat chicks. -
yup.Originally posted by alexkusu:eh...asking me issit? -
of course man hahaha.. which guy don?Originally posted by alexkusu:how about fat girl that slims down into supermodel figure? -
one phrase to add on:Originally posted by applesweetgirl:hi!
if he asks you out and tells you many things that he usually don't (for example, family, some inner feelings about stuffs etc etc), that means he looks at you to someone he trusts. ^^
i dunno if he likes you or not coz the bg info really too little le. but this is a good start, isn't it?
and i think when love happens, there's no stopping it. it doesn't matter if you are fat or ugly or whatever.
you seem like a really nice girl. AJA AJA! ^^
and don't worry about the obese part. lose weight only if you want to. nothing wrong with being obese ba. doesn't mean the skinny ppl are very healthy also. as long as you are happy ok! *HUGS!!*
"DOn b deceived by my looks, i have my true love 2" -
nope, i dont discriminate. Sum horizontally challenged gals are nice, with great personality.Originally posted by browniebaobao:yup.
its just the ones that hates everybody and thinks the world owes them sth that i dislike -
oh.. glad to know that.Originally posted by alexkusu:nope, i dont discriminate. Sum horizontally challenged gals are nice, with great personality.
its just the ones that hates everybody and thinks the world owes them sth that i dislike
first time i heard of 'it runs in the family' about choosing a gf.
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it really runs in my family and my mom especially don approve us to get a fat chickOriginally posted by browniebaobao:oh.. glad to know that.
first time i heard of 'it runs in the family' about choosing a gf. -
wat does ur mum have against plump ladies?Originally posted by FBI:it really runs in my family and my mom especially don approve us to get a fat chick
and hor, it's not nice to call them 'fat chicks'.
have a bit of respect, pls. -
jus wonderin..wat u mean runs in family? u mean ur parents, grandparents, etc ask u not to date fat girls?Originally posted by FBI:of course man hahaha.. which guy don? -
it's not against plump ladies.Originally posted by browniebaobao:wat does ur mum have against plump ladies?
and hor, it's not nice to call them 'fat chicks'.
have a bit of respect, pls.
She don like us to choose gf that is bad looking and fat.
And we have to bring them home to let her inspect if pass then can.
If faill then cannot le.
HEY seriously i used chick instead of gals.
Chick is a better word ok. -
my parents and personally.Originally posted by alexkusu:jus wonderin..wat u mean runs in family? u mean ur parents, grandparents, etc ask u not to date fat girls? -
seriously, i dun think it sounds better to call a human a chick.Originally posted by FBI:it's not against plump ladies.
She don like us to choose gf that is bad looking and fat.
And we have to bring them home to let her inspect if pass then can.
If faill then cannot le.
HEY seriously i used chick instead of gals.
Chick is a better word ok. -
si meh.. i tot ppl always say "hei, lets hook up with some chicks" wen they wan go geylangOriginally posted by FBI:it's not against plump ladies.
She don like us to choose gf that is bad looking and fat.
And we have to bring them home to let her inspect if pass then can.
If faill then cannot le.
HEY seriously i used chick instead of gals.
Chick is a better word ok. -
it's v oftenly use in the US and some foreign countries. I don think there's anything wroing with it.Originally posted by browniebaobao:seriously, i dun think it sounds better to call a human a chick. -
that is because in chinese we called prostitutes "chicken"Originally posted by alexkusu:si meh.. i tot ppl always say "hei, lets hook up with some chicks" wen they wan go geylang -
oh ya maybe u forgot.. this is Singapore, not US.Originally posted by FBI:it's v oftenly use in the US and some foreign countries. I don think there's anything wroing with it. -
Originally posted by Fey Mae:but what if im talking about a 100 kg type? must look past alot of fats before you see the inner beauty wor.
and usually im very sensitive towards people but of late im starting to doubt myself. a guy i like (no not fat, fairly decent looking, tall, dark atheletic type) asked me out
(whos fat and unattractive) is it possible he is just feeling bad cos im so obviously nice to him that hes just giving me a treat only. he did not specify his intentions and im not sure if his oblivious to my feellings and still continue to mislead me or he actually liked me.
Our self perception is almighty. If we reckon and believe that we are somewhat inferior compared to others, when in fact we possess the same human nature and parts, we will always have very poor image of ourselves.
This will affect our attitude and definition towards all form of love relationship, which in turn, affects the so called 'destiny' in love.
I only believe in evolving.
If there is something stultifying your journey to a better self image, do what you must to restore those lost esteem within constructive means.
People who tell you that others must accept you for who you are... do not understand your plight.
YOU must inculcate a robust motivation to create positive changes that would gradually mould your esteem.
You may not realise, but you have ALL the power in YOUR HANDS to deliver and see those changes in yourself.
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I came across a real story, about this woman 80-90kg, who ended up with this man. Even though the man loved her for who she was, she decide to shed those weight so as to reinforce, through concrete action, that his decision to be with her will NOT be a mistake right from the beginning.
Love mould her... love conjured the frenzy motivation.
She is 45-48 now.
*** Love is about understanding ourselves. Never mind about whether he is interested in you or not. When you understood the essence of what I want to drive across and implement them, you will discover that attraction power doesn't come with physical outlook - it comes with HOW we see ourselves through our own vision. If we are unable to achieve that perception, we work hard to enable us to.
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Many guys don't even give you the chance to let them know about your inner beauty/or just not interested in knowing your inner beautyOriginally posted by Fey Mae:someone once told me, guys will rather date an ugly girl than a fat girl.
does that mean if the girl is fat she got no chance liao?
So its
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well girl, there will always be prejudice. Fat people get it lots of times, fat girls more than anything, short folks, people with squeaky weird voices, people who are balding... the list go on forever.
I've even had a guy friend who decided not to date a girl he found attractive (and who reciprocated his feelings) simply cos..... she was not a graduate and he cannot accept that she can't speak proper english.
So.. what to do? Take it as it comes, I guess. If he asked you out, for whatever its worth, you get a friend. If it gets further, don't let your own lack of self confidence destroy your own possibilities in getting happiness. If it doesn't work out, don't have to keep thinking its cos of your looks or size (lots of relationships don't work out even for normal looking girls!)
You can't change society's prejudices. But you don't have to shoulder the entire blame for everythign that doesn't go your way either. -
i really wonder how many girls like balding guys with a shit face and beer belly...Originally posted by FireIce:sad fact that guys like chio face and hourglass figure..........(big boobs is a BONUS)