"Why r u single?"
-
This question had been appearing more n more often when i meet my frds,especially my old frds.n it's really starting to get on my nerves.goodness.m i so old alr?to b considered a spinster if i m still not attached?
Then it's usually followed by "Why don't u get a bf?" What do they want me to say? Ntuc got offer or not? got buy one get one free de? i m so sick of finding excuses to ans these qns. some even asked if i m a lesbain. haix.
So a few days ago when i was confronted with the qns again i didnt want to make up any excuse anymore. "nobody ever likes me." i blurt out. they didnt seem to get it. so i repeated myself "NOBODY,except perverts,LIKES ME.alrite?" at first they didnt quite believe me. they were stumped. after a while they asked me "why say so negative things?" "why hav so little confidence in urself?". Hello, it wasn't a self opinion. it is a fact. who wants to sound like a loser? I didnt want to say the truth too but i just wanted these qns to stop haunting me. n just when i tot it was over, they started talking abt setting me up with guys. plz. cant we just leave it?
I know some of them meant good but what they dun realise is that they r just adding to my misery. The ppl n evironment i face everday alr makes me feel inferior, ugly and queer just cos i m single. isnt it enough? do i hav to announce to all my frds that i m unwanted for them to rest it? how can i get ppl to stop asking me the qns?n give up the idea of setting up dates or watever,i dun want to hav to impress strangers constantly. i feel like saying plz..plz dun give me the pressure to get attached anymore if u all really care.it's just making me miserable.
One last note,how do i get couples(frds) to be more discrete with showing PDA in front of me? somehow, even when i go out in groups,i normally end up being the only single there. the ones i know who would take care to make me comfortable with them r too few,in fact i think only this one girl n her bf. the rest of 'em while i dun wish to interrupt their lovey-dovey, i wish they could be more considerate. do couples really need to hug,kiss n play with each other constantly from the first moment we meet till the moment we part?like that meet me for wat?even if i sneak away i bet they'd never know till they r heading home. -
cause i'm not attached?
-
Coz I erm...*too many reasons to list...lol...
-
those couples are not intentionlly kaming ppl jealus, it is they are too loving that's all.Originally posted by sqully:This question had been appearing more n more often when i meet my frds,especially my old frds.n it's really starting to get on my nerves.goodness.m i so old alr?to b considered a spinster if i m still not attached?
Then it's usually followed by "Why don't u get a bf?" What do they want me to say? Ntuc got offer or not? got buy one get one free de? i m so sick of finding excuses to ans these qns. some even asked if i m a lesbain. haix.
So a few days ago when i was confronted with the qns again i didnt want to make up any excuse anymore. "nobody ever likes me." i blurt out. they didnt seem to get it. so i repeated myself "NOBODY,except perverts,LIKES ME.alrite?" at first they didnt quite believe me. they were stumped. after a while they asked me "why say so negative things?" "why hav so little confidence in urself?". Hello, it wasn't a self opinion. it is a fact. who wants to sound like a loser? I didnt want to say the truth too but i just wanted these qns to stop haunting me. n just when i tot it was over, they started talking abt setting me up with guys. plz. cant we just leave it?
I know some of them meant good but what they dun realise is that they r just adding to my misery. The ppl n evironment i face everday alr makes me feel inferior, ugly and queer just cos i m single. isnt it enough? do i hav to announce to all my frds that i m unwanted for them to rest it? how can i get ppl to stop asking me the qns?n give up the idea of setting up dates or watever,i dun want to hav to impress strangers constantly. i feel like saying plz..plz dun give me the pressure to get attached anymore if u all really care.it's just making me miserable.
One last note,how do i get couples(frds) to be more discrete with showing PDA in front of me? somehow, even when i go out in groups,i normally end up being the only single there. the ones i know who would take care to make me comfortable with them r too few,in fact i think only this one girl n her bf. the rest of 'em while i dun wish to interrupt their lovey-dovey, i wish they could be more considerate. do couples really need to hug,kiss n play with each other constantly from the first moment we meet till the moment we part?like that meet me for wat?even if i sneak away i bet they'd never know till they r heading home.
WHy am i still single?
Simple because i let my friends have it all.
It's ok i can make the sacrifical -
Being single has its advantages also.
At least, u wun cry for somebody, wun have to spend money on one extra person especially on Christmas and V day. -
hey, i m avaliable!!!
-
wah, ur english very good. Your thoughts are well presented too. I like youOriginally posted by sqully:This question had been appearing more n more often when i meet my frds,especially my old frds.n it's really starting to get on my nerves.goodness.m i so old alr?to b considered a spinster if i m still not attached?
Then it's usually followed by "Why don't u get a bf?" What do they want me to say? Ntuc got offer or not? got buy one get one free de? i m so sick of finding excuses to ans these qns. some even asked if i m a lesbain. haix.
So a few days ago when i was confronted with the qns again i didnt want to make up any excuse anymore. "nobody ever likes me." i blurt out. they didnt seem to get it. so i repeated myself "NOBODY,except perverts,LIKES ME.alrite?" at first they didnt quite believe me. they were stumped. after a while they asked me "why say so negative things?" "why hav so little confidence in urself?". Hello, it wasn't a self opinion. it is a fact. who wants to sound like a loser? I didnt want to say the truth too but i just wanted these qns to stop haunting me. n just when i tot it was over, they started talking abt setting me up with guys. plz. cant we just leave it?
I know some of them meant good but what they dun realise is that they r just adding to my misery. The ppl n evironment i face everday alr makes me feel inferior, ugly and queer just cos i m single. isnt it enough? do i hav to announce to all my frds that i m unwanted for them to rest it? how can i get ppl to stop asking me the qns?n give up the idea of setting up dates or watever,i dun want to hav to impress strangers constantly. i feel like saying plz..plz dun give me the pressure to get attached anymore if u all really care.it's just making me miserable.
One last note,how do i get couples(frds) to be more discrete with showing PDA in front of me? somehow, even when i go out in groups,i normally end up being the only single there. the ones i know who would take care to make me comfortable with them r too few,in fact i think only this one girl n her bf. the rest of 'em while i dun wish to interrupt their lovey-dovey, i wish they could be more considerate. do couples really need to hug,kiss n play with each other constantly from the first moment we meet till the moment we part?like that meet me for wat?even if i sneak away i bet they'd never know till they r heading home. -
*munches on popcorn...Originally posted by alexkusu:wah, ur english very good. Your thoughts are well presented too. I like you 
-
nobody wants and cant find someone i love
-
this does not in any way means im a pervert....except for my fetish for decently clothed femalesOriginally posted by Simple_Bear:*munches on popcorn...
*spits in popcorn* -
who said u r a pervert?bu da zi zhao.guilt conscious.Originally posted by alexkusu:this does not in any way means im a pervert....except for my fetish for decently clothed females
*spits in popcorn*
-
pls refer to your post "only perverts will like you"Originally posted by sqully:who said u r a pervert?bu da zi zhao.guilt conscious. -
too short..not handsome...
-
u like gals that speak good englisH/Originally posted by alexkusu:pls refer to your post "only perverts will like you" -
U single maybe cos u nvr takes the initiative? Nowdays girl can too start the ball rolling if u find someone u love! But at the end of the day,don just find a partner just for the sake of ending peer pressure...
-
no worries i am short 2Originally posted by StarPuppy:too short..not handsome... -
suan le. u shot urself in the foot. its fated. u're a perv.Originally posted by alexkusu:pls refer to your post "only perverts will like you" -
how short are u?Originally posted by FBI:no worries i am short 2 -
mi single also i understand how u feel, dude take it easy man
-
u know me so wellOriginally posted by FBI:u like gals that speak good englisH/ -
nooo...im not. Im actually very huaiOriginally posted by Ito_^:suan le. u shot urself in the foot. its fated. u're a perv.
/stabs ito
see? me bad boy..plz spank me -
i cannot imagine.Originally posted by alexkusu:nooo...im not. Im actually very huai
/stabs ito
see? me bad boy..plz spank me 
-
i'm only 165 damnOriginally posted by StarPuppy:how short are u? -
never mind height is not the problem....your time will comeOriginally posted by FBI:i'm only 165 damn -
hope so. but i am still enjoying my daysOriginally posted by leo-kun:never mind height is not the problem....your time will come