why should i do..?
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guys , i know this may sound ordinary stuff but can u guys just listen out for a while please? i beg of you.
i really appreciate it.
i've been with my girlfriend for 4-5 months now. during this 4-5 months , it really affected our life alot. we knew that were the ones that we both wanted for life. soulmate i meant. we all love each other very much.
recently her parents got to know of our relationship and opposed it. though they allowed me to go to my girlfriends house to hang out and allowed her to keep me as a "special" friend but i think its not enough. i really know shes the one for me for life but her parents seem to think i'm playing and joking as we are in our late teen years only. they think shes inmature to of love and they think i'll probably dump her or something. should i just remain as her "special" friend or continue this relationship? her parents opinion have really affected our feelings and mood , we have taken what they said into much consideration thought usually after each talk her parents gave her , she would tell herself that she love me alot and would not give up. but , her parents would someday tell her off again and it would never end right?
its hard to get-by with her parents interferring. what should i do? -
Slowly win them over. Action speak louder than words.
Go buy her parents a nice dinner someday... sit down and eat together, then convince them you are serious... 'cos kids nowadays...
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yeah , thanks.
maybe i shall do just that. -
Good luck. Waiting to hear your good news
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Hi there,
dun be upset over it. love takes time to blossom, and likewise for all the other linkage to your loved one. Love is like a flower and the parents, siblings, uncles and aunties are like the leaves and roots. You need a lot of time and patience to shower them with sunlight, water and fertilizers to make them grow. Only when it grows healthily will you have a love in full bloom. And all this takes time, maybe short maybe long. It took me 5years of courtship to win not only her heart and soul but as well as the parents, siblings and so on!So dun lose heart, it may suck a little while but persevere and u shall excel!
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Standard SOP to save the relationshipOriginally posted by Realistic-Nonsense:guys , i know this may sound ordinary stuff but can u guys just listen out for a while please? i beg of you.
i really appreciate it.
i've been with my girlfriend for 4-5 months now. during this 4-5 months , it really affected our life alot. we knew that were the ones that we both wanted for life. soulmate i meant. we all love each other very much.
recently her parents got to know of our relationship and opposed it. though they allowed me to go to my girlfriends house to hang out and allowed her to keep me as a "special" friend but i think its not enough. i really know shes the one for me for life but her parents seem to think i'm playing and joking as we are in our late teen years only. they think shes inmature to of love and they think i'll probably dump her or something. should i just remain as her "special" friend or continue this relationship? her parents opinion have really affected our feelings and mood , we have taken what they said into much consideration thought usually after each talk her parents gave her , she would tell herself that she love me alot and would not give up. but , her parents would someday tell her off again and it would never end right?
its hard to get-by with her parents interferring. what should i do?
1) Respect her parents and be a "special friend" first. They are looking at you carefully and do not rush things.
2) Do not do any silly stuff like kiss or hugging in front of the parents that will ban you from the house.
3) Her parents have a right to protect her as they have raised her. Respect the right and they will give you the same respect in return.
4) Run errands for the family and show that you can be trusted to do stuffs. That will earn their respect.
5) Take good care of her when she is sick and it will show that you are able to be there for her.
final advice take things slow and steady.
Do not rush and show that you are the man of your words when you do things by completing each assignment given to you by her parents.
P.S.
at least you got to be her special friend. My ex mother slam the door in my face and refuse to let me in or give me a chance. -
how old are you both? i dun understand 'late teens'.
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dun go against her parents. give them time to accept you. just remain as her 'special' frd till ur old enough and proof to them tat ur serious bout ur gf. this way u win their trust. it's nt an over night thing anyway. it may be a difficult time now but it'll be beautiful at the end instead of going against her parents now and makin them have a bad impression of u.. they're probably too conservative. all the best!
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Is race &/or religion got to do with your situation
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Why care what others say? If your love is strong it should diminish your doubts and fear. One's mind should think straight and focused.
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u must prove it to themOriginally posted by Realistic-Nonsense:guys , i know this may sound ordinary stuff but can u guys just listen out for a while please? i beg of you.
i really appreciate it.
i've been with my girlfriend for 4-5 months now. during this 4-5 months , it really affected our life alot. we knew that were the ones that we both wanted for life. soulmate i meant. we all love each other very much.
recently her parents got to know of our relationship and opposed it. though they allowed me to go to my girlfriends house to hang out and allowed her to keep me as a "special" friend but i think its not enough. i really know shes the one for me for life but her parents seem to think i'm playing and joking as we are in our late teen years only. they think shes inmature to of love and they think i'll probably dump her or something. should i just remain as her "special" friend or continue this relationship? her parents opinion have really affected our feelings and mood , we have taken what they said into much consideration thought usually after each talk her parents gave her , she would tell herself that she love me alot and would not give up. but , her parents would someday tell her off again and it would never end right?
its hard to get-by with her parents interferring. what should i do? -
relax.. they are testing u only..
be a gentlemen n watever they ask u to do, do it.. help them out, run errands.. and most impt thing.. dun ever hug/kiss/blahblah infront of them.. if seen, i tell u sure gone case liao... 
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Any updates about your situation?
Well, just asking: What if you did something to your girlfriend and it upsets her mother?
Is there still a chance?