Is there such a thing called "hard to get"
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It would be interesting to hear from girls.
Where is the line drawn between being hard to get and simply not interested? -
as the dog said...money to be made
I will invest 1000 stocks in "female mind reading"
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Another related one...
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it will be intresting if we all could see decoding bars on top of each other heads when we are thinking of somethingOriginally posted by Parka: Another related one... -
The line is obvious.
The question is :: Do you know how to see it?
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LOL
If she says "I'm Not Interested" then believe her, she is NOT interested
If she gives other excuses then MAYBE she's playing hard to get LOLOriginally posted by Parka: Another related one... -
For guys, that thing will tend to hang a lot of times.Originally posted by StarPuppy:it will be intresting if we all could see decoding bars on top of each other heads when we are thinking of something
A kick in the nuts will get it rebooted and on its way again. -
Originally posted by choco B:LOL
If she says "I'm Not Interested" then believe her, she is NOT interested
If she gives other excuses then MAYBE she's playing hard to get LOL mmm....other excuses... -
waiting for the male version of this book
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there are. perhaps it's also becos of some books that some gals read which teaches them to play hard to get so the guy will be more interested in her.
eg. The Rules. can be found in MPH. -
some guys play hard to get too.
i'm also interested to know the line between uninterested and playig hard to get -
get that book.Originally posted by applesweetgirl:some guys play hard to get too.
i'm also interested to know the line between uninterested and playig hard to get -
Isn't it obvious enuf...Originally posted by Parka: Another related one...
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its all in the body language
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Not all are read accurately.Originally posted by alkaiden:its all in the body language -
Yes there is such a thing called hard to get... coz they diao u.. so u gotta work at it.
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excatly my situation now
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Yours is quite obvious.Originally posted by xtreme223:excatly my situation now -
I guess there isnt a distinct line and some cases are rather ambigious but playing hard to get normally involve lots of teasing to get the other party intrigued and just when he/she is about to bite the bait pull it away. there's constant chasing and mind games, signals are ambigious but enough to keep the other party interested. it's like pulling strings to lure a prey into ur den, confused and mesmerised, it ends up as ur captive prey without even being aware of it.Originally posted by applesweetgirl:some guys play hard to get too.
i'm also interested to know the line between uninterested and playig hard to get -
Originally posted by dokono:there are. perhaps it's also becos of some books that some gals read which teaches them to play hard to get so the guy will be more interested in her.
eg. The Rules. can be found in MPH.
PLZZZZ dun ever advertise The Rules book to women.. PLZZZZZ!!! -
so u recommend they buy the book?juz to play hard to get?Originally posted by dokono:there are. perhaps it's also becos of some books that some gals read which teaches them to play hard to get so the guy will be more interested in her.
eg. The Rules. can be found in MPH.
its super ex and it doesn't guarantee results.
i still feel dat having lotsa experience in the dating game would be the best.
Eg:Knowing all the techniques very well in the Sex GuRu Guide but when on bed still a dead fish.
no use gathering all the theories when one dunno how to apply them. -
I like that book alot. A good read but not until i read the last chapter.Originally posted by dunn1e:
PLZZZZ dun ever advertise The Rules book to women.. PLZZZZZ!!!
Yuckie.
Don't be so scared. Let men trust their ability.
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Hmm..the terms you used are interesting.Originally posted by sqully:I guess there isnt a distinct line and some cases are rather ambigious but playing hard to get normally involve lots of teasing to get the other party intrigued and just when he/she is about to bite the bait pull it away. there's constant chasing and mind games, signals are ambigious but enough to keep the other party interested. it's like pulling strings to lure a prey into ur den, confused and mesmerised, it ends up as ur captive prey without even being aware of it.
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So have you learnt how to use the books you've read to apply in your situation and life?Originally posted by yuko-ogura:so u recommend they buy the book?juz to play hard to get?
its super ex and it doesn't guarantee results.
i still feel dat having lotsa experience in the dating game would be the best.
Eg:Knowing all the techniques very well in the Sex GuRu Guide but when on bed still a dead fish.
no use gathering all the theories when one dunno how to apply them.
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Hard to get - you are not up to her expectations but may consider compromising. Try harder.Originally posted by Parka:Where is the line drawn between being hard to get and simply not interested?
Not interested - duhhh.