Attn to all girl and guys out there - please help
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Hi,
Would like your opinion on the matter stated below:
Would you rather choose
(A) a guy who gives in to you in everything and sacrifice himself for you, the fairytale love you ever dream but is very lazy and no proper image? He like to day dream impractically and no ambition (at least it won happen in reality)?
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(B) a guy who treats you not bad, too workaholic, can't stop for a minute not doing anythink otherwise slps (so it is either work or sleep kind), have ambition but has minimum amount of time for you and a bad temper? -
i sound like type 1
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depends on which one u can accept whole heartedly..Originally posted by Angles:Hi,
Would like your opinion on the matter stated below:
Would you rather choose
(A) a guy who gives in to you in everything and sacrifice himself for you, the fairytale love you ever dream but is very lazy and no proper image? He like to day dream impractically and no ambition (at least it won happen in reality)?
OR
(B) a guy who treats you not bad, too workaholic, can't stop for a minute not doing anythink otherwise slps (so it is either work or sleep kind), have ambition but has minimum amount of time for you and a bad temper?
rem.. accept pple for who they are.. not wat they will become... -
Very hard decision. I would reject both and find another person. Both too extreme liao.
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wait for the 3rd one to appear.
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i'm a guy.
how can choose a guy! -
i feels tat i m in between leh..
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hmm... maybe i'll come back in 2 weeks and answer this
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i sound like this one.Originally posted by Angles:(B) a guy who treats you not bad, too workaholic, can't stop for a minute not doing anythink otherwise slps (so it is either work or sleep kind), have ambition but has minimum amount of time for you and a bad temper?
just that i still treat people bad, so the first trait doesn't count.
don't choose me -
A.Originally posted by Angles:Hi,
Would like your opinion on the matter stated below:
Would you rather choose
(A) a guy who gives in to you in everything and sacrifice himself for you, the fairytale love you ever dream but is very lazy and no proper image? He like to day dream impractically and no ambition (at least it won happen in reality)?
OR
(B) a guy who treats you not bad, too workaholic, can't stop for a minute not doing anythink otherwise slps (so it is either work or sleep kind), have ambition but has minimum amount of time for you and a bad temper?
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none of above... 1 lacks ambition, another is dangerous... no need to put urself through this unless u really need a guy....
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actually, you can change both of them...
lacking of ambition might just be temporary since he hasnt found a motivation to work yet
having bad temper, can be tame down...
being with a partner for life, its not just characters, but attitudes and goals in life that bond 2 together...If the person really loves you, he or she will automatically change for the better... -
Man, both kinda sucky leh
but if forced to choose then A lor at least wun get the risk of getting beaten up by B -
imma guy but i want to be an A and you can feed me...
Eat soft rice you know? -
let guy a touch your neh and guy b touch your cb...that way no one loses out.
very good. -
you choose the guy u like. simple?
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True love changes a person, changes everything.
When it doesn't, it's just fleeting-transient love, a feeling that evaporates.
If the guy is hot-tempered, pray he doesn't physically hurt you.
Will it be A or B? Maybe C or D. -
if these are the only choices left.... i rather be single for the rest of my life.....Originally posted by Angles:Hi,
Would like your opinion on the matter stated below:
Would you rather choose
(A) a guy who gives in to you in everything and sacrifice himself for you, the fairytale love you ever dream but is very lazy and no proper image? He like to day dream impractically and no ambition (at least it won happen in reality)?
OR
(B) a guy who treats you not bad, too workaholic, can't stop for a minute not doing anythink otherwise slps (so it is either work or sleep kind), have ambition but has minimum amount of time for you and a bad temper?
(A)I have come across such a person...no no .. not that he is willing to sacrifice himself for me.. but the fairytale part..... he thinks that life's a fairytale and he's living in fairyland and he expects everything to go on wonderfully nice for him, which is really freakin unrealistic.....2 years ago, he was 23 and he was telling me that he was craving to get married (by 24) and to start a family of his own! I was like
..... he doesn't even have a proper job to start with!! duhz....
(B)Bad temper? You'll never know if his work ever crops up one day, his innocent wife and children might get all chopped up or abused by him.... -
Sounds like you guys and ladies are waiting for the perfect guy to come along. I guess I was A last time, but after I met my ex-gf then she slowly make me see life is no fairytale at all...Originally posted by Angles:Hi,
Would like your opinion on the matter stated below:
Would you rather choose
(A) a guy who gives in to you in everything and sacrifice himself for you, the fairytale love you ever dream but is very lazy and no proper image? He like to day dream impractically and no ambition (at least it won happen in reality)?
OR
(B) a guy who treats you not bad, too workaholic, can't stop for a minute not doing anythink otherwise slps (so it is either work or sleep kind), have ambition but has minimum amount of time for you and a bad temper?
So people, as long as you have the feeling, go for it... or regret it
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i m sure dere r better guys out dere which has qualities of A n B combined.........
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why put 2 extremes out there for us to choose?
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Thks a zillion forumers for your precious time and wonderful guidance...^^
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thats where u are wrong...as the saying goes a leopard nv changes its spot...just that ma ybe if he love you he will try to control...but the underlyng problem is still there and even if he dont treat you that way he would still treat others the same way...Originally posted by macjoe:True love changes a person, changes everything.
When it doesn't, it's just fleeting-transient love, a feeling that evaporates.
If the guy is hot-tempered, pray he doesn't physically hurt you.
Will it be A or B? Maybe C or D. -
Intro Mr A to Mr B, they'll make a great couple hahaOriginally posted by Angles:Hi,
Would like your opinion on the matter stated below:
Would you rather choose
(A) a guy who gives in to you in everything and sacrifice himself for you, the fairytale love you ever dream but is very lazy and no proper image? He like to day dream impractically and no ambition (at least it won happen in reality)?
OR
(B) a guy who treats you not bad, too workaholic, can't stop for a minute not doing anythink otherwise slps (so it is either work or sleep kind), have ambition but has minimum amount of time for you and a bad temper?