heartbroken
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hai... my ex and i have been together for 6 mths and we are doin well during the past 6 mths until 1 day she decided to run off with another guy saying that there are some things which i cant provide and he can... I loved her, cared for her and even compromised her... where have i gone wrong ?? and the worse thing is she told me that there are some stuff her current bf cant give her (attention & care) but i can... what so i do?? i really loved her should i wait for her ??
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Go fold 9999 stars give her lor... then tell me if it works.
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hmm.she said the former first din she?
i feel that she said the latter to console u..
if u truly love her, let her go ba..can't possibly bug onto her and make her even more irritated by ur acts...
of course u can wait for her..but while doing so..why not try to get to know other girls? -
it's not abt whether u can giv her all the things she nid.. it's abt who u are..
u cant say tt she love you becoz u can make her feel safe when u're around.. then like tt any macho man giv let her feel safe.. -
Hey, Shit happens.
So chill... Dun brood too much over it, at least you know she doesn't really sort of love you.
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attention and care are things which only Matured Ladies are looking for, which also includes sincerity...so 9 out of 10, it will not work on young girls...Originally posted by geohunter:hai... my ex and i have been together for 6 mths and we are doin well during the past 6 mths until 1 day she decided to run off with another guy saying that there are some things which i cant provide and he can... I loved her, cared for her and even compromised her... where have i gone wrong ?? and the worse thing is she told me that there are some stuff her current bf cant give her (attention & care) but i can... what so i do?? i really loved her should i wait for her ??
bettter luck next time, chap..
what young girls are looking for...are well...maybe...thrill...excitment...dare ppl here and there...gamming...techno...etc...
you can still try to maintain a healthy frenship with her...if she still appreciate it....if not can just find other girls... -
can buy one.Originally posted by Ayukat:Go fold 9999 stars give her lor... then tell me if it works. -
Where?Originally posted by Ito_^:can buy one.
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you n her were going well and she suddenly run away with another guy? wow..you got 2-timed dude! such gal, you can forget her, will be better for you..dun waste time on the 9999 stars on her..no worth your trouble
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*nod nod*Originally posted by darknessfall:you n her were going well and she suddenly run away with another guy? wow..you got 2-timed dude! such gal, you can forget her, will be better for you..dun waste time on the 9999 stars on her..no worth your trouble -
its better now she leaves you then later right?
and now u know what type of person she really is, the nx time, she will be telling the same thing to the guy she left for -
got a fishbowl with 999 stars.. folded by ex over months, wif miniature perfumesOriginally posted by Ayukat:Go fold 9999 stars give her lor... then tell me if it works.
really touching sia
but these gestures can only last for a while
most important be the emotional support that we can lean on,
be the shining stars that guide our path and advise us in life and in love -
Haiz...
Maybe it is true, if you truly love her, don't hold her back from finding her own happiness...
If all has been done and said, let the good memories remain and the bad ones fade away. -
go open a backdoor for yourself
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thanks peeps at least i know what i;m suppose to do from now on...
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wen ur young u must know one thing.. this kinda cases are very common. Is only until ur older u can appreciate what love is and find the right one
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no offence, but she seems to be playing you.
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Well... At least you've done your part in loving her... Leave without regrets ok...? If you think you've already done much and she still choose to leave you, why do you still wanna tag along with a girl like that? (especially now that you're not in a relationship with her)Originally posted by geohunter:hai... my ex and i have been together for 6 mths and we are doin well during the past 6 mths until 1 day she decided to run off with another guy saying that there are some things which i cant provide and he can... I loved her, cared for her and even compromised her... where have i gone wrong ?? and the worse thing is she told me that there are some stuff her current bf cant give her (attention & care) but i can... what so i do?? i really loved her should i wait for her ?? -
wait for her but in the mean time go out with other girls. Don't commit with the other girls until you are sure you no longer have feelings for the old one and you are sure of your feelings for the new ones.Originally posted by geohunter:hai... my ex and i have been together for 6 mths and we are doin well during the past 6 mths until 1 day she decided to run off with another guy saying that there are some things which i cant provide and he can... I loved her, cared for her and even compromised her... where have i gone wrong ?? and the worse thing is she told me that there are some stuff her current bf cant give her (attention & care) but i can... what so i do?? i really loved her should i wait for her ?? -
My dear, waiting is probably the worst thing you want to do now...because this is when emotions are the strongest, and the slightest disappointment hits the hardest. Believe me, she will want you to wait, but like her, you have your own life and your own worth. Know your own worth and continue with your own life, and if I were you, to be honest in this situation, I'd be dying to wait for the other person. But, in the end, you'll realise you don't need to be somebody's baby. Just occupy yourself for now and just try to keep your distance. If she's fickle, make a decision for her because she doesn't walk into a shop and you wait for her to buy you while she's deciding between another thing and you. Live up, my friend.Originally posted by geohunter:hai... my ex and i have been together for 6 mths and we are doin well during the past 6 mths until 1 day she decided to run off with another guy saying that there are some things which i cant provide and he can... I loved her, cared for her and even compromised her... where have i gone wrong ?? and the worse thing is she told me that there are some stuff her current bf cant give her (attention & care) but i can... what so i do?? i really loved her should i wait for her ?? -
Originally posted by geohunter:hai... my ex and i have been together for 6 mths and we are doin well during the past 6 mths until 1 day she decided to run off with another guy saying that there are some things which i cant provide and he can... I loved her, cared for her and even compromised her... where have i gone wrong ?? and the worse thing is she told me that there are some stuff her current bf cant give her (attention & care) but i can... what so i do?? i really loved her should i wait for her ??
I don't think you can provide every single little thing. One day, another guy will come along and provide her with that thing you can't provide her and she'll be gone again.
No point waiting.
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thx ! pretty lucky to have a bunch of monkeys(buddies) out there willing to spend time with me to do stuff which i haven done for sometimes anyway thx for the advices u people out there. might be tough for now at least i;m slowly trying to adjust my life style without her... 
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eh... i thought you were the one needing advise. so u also pretty levelled headed lah.Originally posted by Kimosabe:My dear, waiting is probably the worst thing you want to do now...because this is when emotions are the strongest, and the slightest disappointment hits the hardest. Believe me, she will want you to wait, but like her, you have your own life and your own worth. Know your own worth and continue with your own life, and if I were you, to be honest in this situation, I'd be dying to wait for the other person. But, in the end, you'll realise you don't need to be somebody's baby. Just occupy yourself for now and just try to keep your distance. If she's fickle, make a decision for her because she doesn't walk into a shop and you wait for her to buy you while she's deciding between another thing and you. Live up, my friend.
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Hai, even if I got problems...just try to help others also...no point feeling sry for myself rite.Originally posted by Apollo_sg:eh... i thought you were the one needing advise. so u also pretty levelled headed lah.
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I think that she is just simply testing your love for her..
OR
She is just a biatch who go around fooling guys.