Torn and broken....
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I know all things will end. And it WILL end.
I am so sorry. Bye bye my dearest friend. I'm sorry to hurt you so much that we both cried over the phone but with hatred. I am sorry if I torn your heart so badly, it needs an eternity to be patched back.
I didn't meant to do it, I swear. It was all an accident. I wasn't thinking. Sorry.
Remember how we met? It was so...weird Everything was new there and I didn't know a THING. But you guided me. Thanks for that. =]
Remember how we ended? It was so tragic to the extend we will never be friends again no matter what you or I do to it, unless the magic of God work again to our beautiful friendship.
Remember how it started? It was bad. Real bad. My attitude sucks and your loyalness sucks. I wanted it to be better, you wanted it to be the same, fearing it will cause scars. Now the deed is done. And no, it isn't better without you. It's sadder and more painful.
Remember how we cried? It was the cries of our broken hearts. It wailed out everyday. Smiles were on our face when we see our loved ones. But it was fake and forced smile. It wasn't pleasant. It was hard.
Remember how we made things worst? It was so much more painful, and the agony pierced through our hearts. When we see each other, we couldn't help but feel that helpless feeling and cringed. Quickly walked away so we could cry not in each other presence. It was suffering.
I am so sorry for causing you so much pain. Though we might patch things up one day, this memory will distance us from each other. We will not be that close set of friends anymore. Not ever. Not again.
Thanks so much for bearing my impatience for all these years. We been angry at each other enough. Why can't we forgive and forget? 
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*pats pats*
you want to tell us why and how it happen?
or maybe u can PM me and we talk about this?
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy -
Ahh.. losing a Best Fren.. i understand ur pain.. it kinda lost for me.. without my best fren to tong kan gong ku.. try to patch up ba..
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i think we should hear the story first ya?Originally posted by Qing^.^:Ahh.. losing a Best Fren.. i understand ur pain.. it kinda lost for me.. without my best fren to tong kan gong ku.. try to patch up ba..
anyway..u haven sleep arh? got a morning sms from fren...u not tired meh
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy -
It was...complicated.
See, she called me one day and instead of the normal chatting on boys, teachers and life, she said this....
"Look Weiling, I know you be hurt when I say this but I gotta say it. "Your attitude sucks."
"I had enough of you. You had humilated me enough! You kept screaming at me in front of everybody and they all stare at ME. Like I am some kind bad friend or whatever....."
Ok. I don't wanna say more. Making me feel devasted. -
I noe shld hear story 1st.. but since she didnt mention mayb she dun wan say so i tink shld try patch lor..Originally posted by StarPuppy:i think we should hear the story first ya?
anyway..u haven sleep arh? got a morning sms from fren...u not tired meh
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy
my life certainly went back on track after patching with my best fren after a stupid spat over something stupid..
Hmm not really tired ba.. jus go out watch movie onli.. got soccer match later from 4 to 6.. gonna be awake today for 22 hrs liao.. -
Originally posted by LinLing:
Umm is her accusation supported? ask urself if her accusation is true..
It was...complicated.
See, she called me one day and instead of the normal chatting on boys, teachers and life, she said this....
"Look Weiling, I know you be hurt when I say this but I gotta say it. [b]"Your attitude sucks."
"I had enough of you. You had humilated me enough! You kept screaming at me in front of everybody and they all stare at ME. Like I am some kind bad friend or whatever....."
Ok. I don't wanna say more. Making me feel devasted.[/b]
eh y u scream at her hah?
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Originally posted by LinLing:
hmm...have you considered about having a in-depth thought before going back and ask for forgiveness?
It was...complicated.
See, she called me one day and instead of the normal chatting on boys, teachers and life, she said this....
"Look Weiling, I know you be hurt when I say this but I gotta say it. [b]"Your attitude sucks."
"I had enough of you. You had humilated me enough! You kept screaming at me in front of everybody and they all stare at ME. Like I am some kind bad friend or whatever....."
Ok. I don't wanna say more. Making me feel devasted.[/b] I got a friend..hes a jerk at times (in my view) he scolds vulgarities and acts like a damn ah beng and smokes...i talked to him about it..he says he will give a thought about it..but he didn't and still carry on despite many "i am sorry"
well...i am starting to get sick of it..but good frenship is hard to come by..
well..if u need help, you can tell everyone your weak points and i am sure everyone is more than happy to help you
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy -
She kept asking me whether can go to my house and each time I said NO until I got so fed up I screamed NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and left in a huff. And that time it was raining heavily and I said "I got drama club, cannot go to ur house and it is raining, cannot go!!" 5 times and she was, "HUH? WHAT YOU SAY?" and then I got fed up yet again and screamed the same thing to her. Lets just say it wasn't good. She left in a huff.Originally posted by Qing^.^:Umm is her accusation supported? ask urself if her accusation is true..
eh y u scream at her hah? -
well...lets just sayOriginally posted by LinLing:She kept asking me whether can go to my house and each time I said NO until I got so fed up I screamed NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and left in a huff. And that time it was raining heavily and I said "I got drama club, cannot go to ur house and it is raining, cannot go!!" 5 times and she was, "HUH? WHAT YOU SAY?" and then I got fed up yet again and screamed the same thing to her. Lets just say it wasn't good. She left in a huff.
she having her "xiao jie" moods
and maybe you just didn't know how to handle it tactfully
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy -
did u ask her why she really needed to go to ur house?
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What do you mean by "xiao jie" mood?
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Same old reason. To use my computer as she doesn't have internet access at home.Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:did u ask her why she really needed to go to ur house? -
Originally posted by LinLing:
awww... i guess the issue could hav been brought up more gently n not hav triggered the both of u to become so defensive n start sparring verbally saying things u shouldnt? in the heat of the moment, ppl always do things they regret. this kinda things happen as we r particularly prone to hav amplified reactions towards the ppl closest to us simply cos they matter so much.. do ask urself honestly if her accusations r valid.. if they are, accept ur mistakes and ask her to work with u to help u improve.. i believe if u two really share a strong bond, she'd want to get back together as much as u do. mayb it just takes somebody to take the first move.i dun know if my comments r appropriate cos after all i dun hav the full picture of the context so i m just saying things based on my assumptions.hope things will work out for u,mei.all the best! =)
It was...complicated.
See, she called me one day and instead of the normal chatting on boys, teachers and life, she said this....
"Look Weiling, I know you be hurt when I say this but I gotta say it. [b]"Your attitude sucks."
"I had enough of you. You had humilated me enough! You kept screaming at me in front of everybody and they all stare at ME. Like I am some kind bad friend or whatever....."
Ok. I don't wanna say more. Making me feel devasted.[/b] -
All this sorrows will make you a better person . Don't dwell on it ! It happen to me before with my best buddy. Because of a girl , he changed to another person and after trying to get him back to his old self but to no avail , I decided the best solution is to go on seperate ways, I hope he comes back to his senses.
Perhaps this could be the same thing, give you and your best friend some time off , who knows one day you two may be back together. -
Bcoz' at that time, I had another best friend and I usually spend time with her more so I guess she was kinda' jealous!Originally posted by sqully:awww... i guess the issue could hav been brought up more gently n not hav triggered the both of u to become so defensive n start sparring verbally saying things u shouldnt? in the heat of the moment, ppl always do things they regret. this kinda things happen as we r particularly prone to hav amplified reactions towards the ppl closest to us simply cos they matter so much.. do ask urself honestly if her accusations r valid.. if they are, accept ur mistakes and ask her to work with u to help u improve.. i believe if u two really share a strong bond, she'd want to get back together as much as u do. mayb it just takes somebody to take the first move.i dun know if my comments r appropriate cos after all i dun hav the full picture of the context so i m just saying things based on my assumptions.hope things will work out for u,mei.all the best! =) -
I sure hope so!Originally posted by K800i:All this sorrows will make you a better person . Don't dwell on it ! It happen to me before with my best buddy. Because of a girl , he changed to another person and after trying to get him back to his old self but to no avail , I decided the best solution is to go on seperate ways, I hope he comes back to his senses.
Perhaps this could be the same thing, give you and your best friend some time off , who knows one day you two may be back together. -
LinLing :
Time will heal the angers between both of you. One of you will eventually make the first move . I am pretty sure both of you will kiss and make up. Everyone makes mistake , no one is perfect , always remember this.
Don't be torn and broken , sometimes things happened for a reason. You never know this will strength your friendship with her! Always look at the bright side. -
Originally posted by K800i:LinLing :
Time will heal the angers between both of you. One of you will eventually make the first move . I am pretty sure both of you will kiss and make up. Everyone makes mistake , no one is perfect , always remember this.
Don't be torn and broken , sometimes things happened for a reason. You never know this will strengthen your friendship with her! Always look at the bright side. This is one of the best replies I got so far! 
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Originally posted by LinLing:
well.. do some self reflection.. im sure its a sequence of events tat lead to this.. find out what is wrong..
I know all things will end. And it WILL end.
I am so sorry. Bye bye my dearest friend. I'm sorry to hurt you so much that we both cried over the phone but with hatred. I am sorry if I torn your heart so badly, it needs an eternity to be patched back.
I didn't meant to do it, I swear. It was all an accident. I wasn't thinking. Sorry.
Remember how we met? It was so...weird Everything was new there and I didn't know a THING. But you guided me. Thanks for that. =]
Remember how we ended? It was so tragic to the extend we will never be friends again no matter what you or I do to it, unless the magic of God work again to our beautiful friendship.
Remember how it started? It was bad. Real bad. My attitude sucks and your loyalness sucks. I wanted it to be better, you wanted it to be the same, fearing it will cause scars. Now the deed is done. And no, it isn't better without you. It's sadder and more painful.
Remember how we cried? It was the cries of our broken hearts. It wailed out everyday. Smiles were on our face when we see our loved ones. But it was fake and forced smile. It wasn't pleasant. It was hard.
Remember how we made things worst? It was so much more painful, and the agony pierced through our hearts. When we see each other, we couldn't help but feel that helpless feeling and cringed. Quickly walked away so we could cry not in each other presence. It was suffering.
[b]I am so sorry for causing you so much pain. Though we might patch things up one day, this memory will distance us from each other. We will not be that close set of friends anymore. Not ever. Not again. Thanks so much for bearing my impatience for all these years. We been angry at each other enough. Why can't we forgive and forget? [/b]
worst scenerio.. time can wash away everything.
cheers~ -
frankly speaking, no matter what happens, friends or family members be, one should not even raise their voice in the public...
It reflects badly on oneself, as well as disgracing the other...
naturally, your friend will feel insulted or hurt right?
True maybe she is nuisance, but that doesnt render such treatment?
I think both are at wrong...If you are sincere enough, and think that she is a friend whom you will wan to be with, go and talk to her about it seriously. I am sure if she also treasure this friendship, she will listen to you too...
sincere! Admit mistakes. Learn. Forgive.
cheers! -
Jiu de bu qu, xing de bu lai..
hahahhahaha -
Originally posted by LinLing:
Well, good friends are hard to come by.. don't be devasted over these matters.. Nothing in this world cannot be solved.. Just that whether you wan it anot.. You know that you make a mistake by yelling at her in public.. Yes you did apologised.. but at that moment she was real hurt.. Times after times.. You both have always been like this.. is this how a friendship should be?
I know all things will end. And it WILL end.
I am so sorry. Bye bye my dearest friend. I'm sorry to hurt you so much that we both cried over the phone but with hatred. I am sorry if I torn your heart so badly, it needs an eternity to be patched back.
I didn't meant to do it, I swear. It was all an accident. I wasn't thinking. Sorry.
Remember how we met? It was so...weird Everything was new there and I didn't know a THING. But you guided me. Thanks for that. =]
Remember how we ended? It was so tragic to the extend we will never be friends again no matter what you or I do to it, unless the magic of God work again to our beautiful friendship.
Remember how it started? It was bad. Real bad. My attitude sucks and your loyalness sucks. I wanted it to be better, you wanted it to be the same, fearing it will cause scars. Now the deed is done. And no, it isn't better without you. It's sadder and more painful.
Remember how we cried? It was the cries of our broken hearts. It wailed out everyday. Smiles were on our face when we see our loved ones. But it was fake and forced smile. It wasn't pleasant. It was hard.
Remember how we made things worst? It was so much more painful, and the agony pierced through our hearts. When we see each other, we couldn't help but feel that helpless feeling and cringed. Quickly walked away so we could cry not in each other presence. It was suffering.
[b]I am so sorry for causing you so much pain. Though we might patch things up one day, this memory will distance us from each other. We will not be that close set of friends anymore. Not ever. Not again. Thanks so much for bearing my impatience for all these years. We been angry at each other enough. Why can't we forgive and forget? [/b]
Wat are friends for?? Friends are someone who stand beside when you needed them most.. whom are the one you trust, knows and likes about.. Be it her weakness or her good..
I dunno how long this friendship lasted.. but i find is really a pity to end just like that..
ANyway, you mention that she might be jealous of you being too close to another friend. Are you the only friend she had? Why is she feeling so inferior? Afraid that one day you will leave her in a lurch.. dump her for another friend? Maybe this might be the cause of why both always ended up quarrelling.. She might not want you to know that she's feeling insecure.. Going to your house using internet might be just one excuse to be with you..
She might become too possessive but she dun know.. She just dun wanna loose a friend like you.. But friends are still friends.. there are limits to it.. i dun really know your friend well or even you well.. but giving the informations you posted.. i believe she's feeling lonely and emptiness.. trying to cover it without letting anyone know.. but then if she dun speak up why she's reacting this way.. you never know..
Suggest that you have a good talk with her.. find out what's really her problem is.. why is she always acting this way..? You feel guilty cos you feel that you let her down and hurt her.. Maybe you could also voiced out your feelings to her..
Communications is very important in a friendship or even in any relations..
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Omigosh, I can't believe she did this.
She told them who my crush is.
SHE SUCK. -
so..i guess u wouldnt want to make up with her anymore?