I need advice especially from gals
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Hey guys.....she called me juz now ! we chatted for 2 plus hours...she told me all da sweet memory when i was with her...n sae tat i m da best bf tat she ever met.....beside tat she explain tat last time i was misunderstood her !!
wat should i do....is it she hav the thought tat wanna patch back with me ? -
Yeah... Probably she's having that thought...Originally posted by siongs:Hey guys.....she called me juz now ! we chatted for 2 plus hours...she told me all da sweet memory when i was with her...n sae tat i m da best bf tat she ever met.....beside tat she explain tat last time i was misunderstood her !!
wat should i do....is it she hav the thought tat wanna patch back with me ?
So how about you? What ya thinking right now
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seriously....i dunno.......
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How can you heading anywhere without any idea of where you'll possibly be heading....?Originally posted by siongs:seriously....i dunno.......
Backwards? Would things ever be the same again? Would you be able to handle it...? Accept it if things are to go wrong again? Are you mentally prepared for the worst? -
hw r things now? i think last time she took advantage of the fact that u were a v gd bf n tat you love her alot n then did something to disappoint you.. in my opinion, right nw, she knows ure nice n probably thinks that u might hav a wee bit interest in her.. dats why she msged u (nt becos she still likes u!).. n i feel that she's tryin to use u to heal her brokenheart.. so u might be her subsititute. juz think over it carefully la.. if u patch, derez a possibility tt u might get hurt again.. good luck
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I got no idea.....but she did told me tat her bf treat her bad stuff like tat..,but didnt talk much lar....now she is luking for me everyday.....she wanna talk with me in da phone almost everyday....! she keep persuade me to go back sg to continue my study.....i still dun understand y she will heart broken ?n the incident already passed abt 4 to 5 month edi.......!n she told me tat she was with tat guy bcoz of "yi shi chong dong".......n she keep sa jiao wit me on da phone !!
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so do u like her or find her irritating? she obviously wants u to get tgr with her la. i think the yi shi chong dong part is just an excuse. tink she's quite childish la.. if i were u i'll juz ignore her... i mean.. can find a better gal wad.
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Its really up to you to take the risk thats the best advice i can give
She might be:
a) regertful that she did something bad to you
b) just lonely
c) treat u as a spare tyre
d) playing around again
For me, i believe that if she did something wrong to you it is really hard for u to trust her again even if u all get together again so trust factor not there. if u think u can trust her again, but all means go for it.
For the misunderstanding part, i not sure cause i dont know what happen between the two of you all..
For crapness
Free girl why not ? -
well....if u guys sae she is lonely or wat...y dont she juz luk for another guy tat stay long term in SG ?y me ?could b lame yea........beside tat i dun think i m a reali great bf.....i admit i still like her abit....but i didnt show it to her...!!1 things tat she still care for me like last time....Eg : yest i was driving but then she called then she sae "how many times i have told u dun talk when u drive."juz like last time.......
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She WANTS you !
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Hmm... Psychological tricks crawling up your head...Originally posted by siongs:well....if u guys sae she is lonely or wat...y dont she juz luk for another guy tat stay long term in SG ?y me ?could b lame yea........beside tat i dun think i m a reali great bf.....i admit i still like her abit....but i didnt show it to her...!!1 things tat she still care for me like last time....Eg : yest i was driving but then she called then she sae "how many times i have told u dun talk when u drive."juz like last time.......
All I wanna say for now is BE WISE about it...
GOOD LUCK...?